What do you appreciate more in a guy?

[ez_c]

Oh that's NOT true.

edit : I really go for kindness, there's nothing better than a gentleman.

Which isn't true? Headhuntaz's statement or girls actually believing I was "too nice" to date?

[AnaBB Cover]

Both, I guess.

[ez_c]

I always suspected they were lying. But why?

[rouge red]

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What?

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Really? Honestly?

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This isn't supposed to sound offensive, but that really surprises me.

Every day I hear that being kind is like killing one's attraction

well I like guys with whom I can do everything, have a good laugh, a nice cuddling, other nice things and great talks. I don't want to be treated bad, so it's true, I love kindness about a guy

But there seem to be girls who want an asshole But you can't help THEM anymore

[rouge red]

talking about nazi to a german guy is kinda tactless, Sahara i know you meant no harm though

as far as i'm concerned i go for charismaaaaaaaaaaaaa a good personal style, inteligence and a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge...

... sense of humour

A great car? Or a great garage?

[Taben]

i have my own car so i don't need that in a guy

[rouge red]

Oh that's cool, I want a driving license as well ^^

But having a shelter for the car is great, I'm sure.

[Expresso]

I have to agree with Headhuntaz here.

I have been told to my face by multiple girls that I was "too nice", which is why they wouldn't date/sleep with me. I've had a terrible time trying to avoid being locked in the "friend zone". So I have to know: do you girls really go for kindness, or are you just saying that?

Right, buddy. Maybe it's the mentality here, but there is a whole bunch of girls who told me that they were attracted by adventures, risks and bad guys. Nice guys only bore them.

And I tried it out! It really works more when you're not nice.

I'm not into "the bad guy". But headhuntaz is right that there's a whole bunch of gals that are into that

A friend of mine was complaining yesterday about her boyfriend being too nice. She said: "He never gets mad at me! Sometimes I say horrible stuff, or I'm just downright blunt, and he's either quiet and shrugging or like 'fine honey.' he agrees with everything I say. Sometimes I wonder if he even has an opinion."

Well, ex_c, is that your definition of "too nice" ? or are you different after all.

Well, honey, let me put it this way: I don't want to be treated badly, so yes I like kindness. But I don't want a coward without an opinion

And what's really important: Gals (or atleast the ones with some brain capacity) don't want a fake. I can't care for a guy who's wearing necklaces so heavy his neck's bending over, a car so pimped it could be featured in a futurstic graphic novel, so many 'friends' they could populate an entire country and who uses so much slang I need a special dictionary to translate what the hell he's saying, while underneath it all he's just a shy collegeboy who's biggest secret is that he pees in the shower.

If you wanna get gals, just be yourself and don't be afraid to be different. It won't do you any good if you say you're favorite sport is bungeejumping while in reality you'd rather get shot first

But really, underneath it all: the bankaccount is what REALLY matters. And his car. Yeah, you hit it right on the spot rouge_red (just kiddin ofcourse)

[Headhuntaz]

So.. if there's only a small amount of gals who think that way.. they all live where I live. That's just depressing :|

[ez_c]

I have to agree with Headhuntaz here.

I have been told to my face by multiple girls that I was "too nice", which is why they wouldn't date/sleep with me. I've had a terrible time trying to avoid being locked in the "friend zone". So I have to know: do you girls really go for kindness, or are you just saying that?

Right, buddy. Maybe it's the mentality here, but there is a whole bunch of girls who told me that they were attracted by adventures, risks and bad guys. Nice guys only bore them.

And I tried it out! It really works more when you're not nice.

I'm not into "the bad guy". But headhuntaz is right that there's a whole bunch of gals that are into that

A friend of mine was complaining yesterday about her boyfriend being too nice. She said: "He never gets mad at me! Sometimes I say horrible stuff, or I'm just downright blunt, and he's either quiet and shrugging or like 'fine honey.' he agrees with everything I say. Sometimes I wonder if he even has an opinion."

Well, ex_c, is that your definition of "too nice" ? or are you different after all.

Well, honey, let me put it this way: I don't want to be treated badly, so yes I like kindness. But I don't want a coward without an opinion

And what's really important: Gals (or atleast the ones with some brain capacity) don't want a fake. I can't care for a guy who's wearing necklaces so heavy his neck's bending over, a car so pimped it could be featured in a futurstic graphic novel, so many 'friends' they could populate an entire country and who uses so much slang I need a special dictionary to translate what the hell he's saying, while underneath it all he's just a shy collegeboy who's biggest secret is that he pees in the shower.

If you wanna get gals, just be yourself and don't be afraid to be different. It won't do you any good if you say you're favorite sport is bungeejumping while in reality you'd rather get shot first

Well, I do have a tendency to avoid conflict. But, I do have my own opinion and never pretend to like something I don't like. I almost never get mad or yell at anyone since most of the stuff people fight over seems foolish to me. I also never treat anyone badly - I treat people the way I would like to be treated.

Does that make me "too nice"?

[Headhuntaz]

I guess the most important thing is not to let them fool you. Stay the way you are - even if they all turn their backs on you, one day there'll be such a sweetie who loves you for the person you are.

At least that's what I hope.

[mylovelyangel]

a little bit of everything is fine with me, ok carefulness, eh i do not really care about

[BubbleBubble]

What about bad boys? I thought kindness makes a man become the best friend?

bad boys :yuckky:

kindness + nice manner + cute smile + sense of humor + intelligence = my dream

[AnaBB Cover]

I agree.

Bad boys suck. They always break your heart

[Headhuntaz]

yeah nice! I gotta move, cause this town is bad boys/bitches stuffed

[Expresso]

I'm not into "the bad guy". But headhuntaz is right that there's a whole bunch of gals that are into that

A friend of mine was complaining yesterday about her boyfriend being too nice. She said: "He never gets mad at me! Sometimes I say horrible stuff, or I'm just downright blunt, and he's either quiet and shrugging or like 'fine honey.' he agrees with everything I say. Sometimes I wonder if he even has an opinion."

Well, ex_c, is that your definition of "too nice" ? or are you different after all.

Well, honey, let me put it this way: I don't want to be treated badly, so yes I like kindness. But I don't want a coward without an opinion

And what's really important: Gals (or atleast the ones with some brain capacity) don't want a fake. I can't care for a guy who's wearing necklaces so heavy his neck's bending over, a car so pimped it could be featured in a futurstic graphic novel, so many 'friends' they could populate an entire country and who uses so much slang I need a special dictionary to translate what the hell he's saying, while underneath it all he's just a shy collegeboy who's biggest secret is that he pees in the shower.

If you wanna get gals, just be yourself and don't be afraid to be different. It won't do you any good if you say you're favorite sport is bungeejumping while in reality you'd rather get shot first

Well, I do have a tendency to avoid conflict. But, I do have my own opinion and never pretend to like something I don't like. I almost never get mad or yell at anyone since most of the stuff people fight over seems foolish to me. I also never treat anyone badly - I treat people the way I would like to be treated.

Does that make me "too nice"?

Well, you'd be my perfect boyfriend if I'd hafta judge from this People yell a lot about stupid stuff indeed <_< I'd say stay the way you are and you'll find someone sooner or later. As long as you don't let people walk over you I don't see anything wrong with the way you are now Be patient; one of those girls you hang out with should get an "eureka" moment one of these days (if her brains are still working, that is )

[ez_c]

Thanks for the vote of confidence Expresso.

[I LOVE ADRIANA]

Kindness, all the way.

If he isn't polite, or doesn't respect me the way that I'd like him to, then its not going to happen.

I hate it when guys aren't gentlemen. Like, guys at school are assholes.

[crouve]

i used to be a bad boy in high school, and the relationships i had during that time were never serious, i think the girls who look for bad boys is only for the fun of behaving bad, the girls who really look for something real prefer guys that are thoughtful and kind, those girls are also more mature if you ask me, is like guys, some guys really love outgoing crazy party animal girls, but just for the fun, when it comes to something real and serious we all like a good girl, it just depends if youre thinking in long term or short

[BubbleBubble]

i used to be a bad boy in high school, and the relationships i had during that time were never serious, i think the girls who look for bad boys is only for the fun of behaving bad, the girls who really look for something real prefer guys that are thoughtful and kind, those girls are also more mature if you ask me, is like guys, some guys really love outgoing crazy party animal girls, but just for the fun, when it comes to something real and serious we all like a good girl, it just depends if youre thinking in long term or short

I should give you a big hand