Are you a blatant flirt or play it platonically?

What is your style when you're romantically/sexually interested in someone and want to give them attention or catch their attention?

According to quite a few of you, there is the play it safe first by saying or doing something that you can do with someone you're not interested in, i.e. asking for directions, smile and make eye contact in a simple greeting, small talk about the weather, etc.

According to quite a few of you others, there is winking, deep "bedroom eyes" eye contact, romantic speech that easily leads to a planned date....

Then there's some mixed signals and gray area.

My rule of thumb is to never show any romantic intentions until you're sure you can lock it... especially when the girl has company.

A girl's friends will instinctively try to cockblock you because well... they don't know you and you could be just another loser looking for some action.

You can be blatant about it. I've done that before but your chances of failure are pretty high. You have to be able to read her well and know if she's someone you can take that approach with... Then there's the mathematical approach... one in ten. hahaha... I had a friend who would get slapped all the time for just going up behind girls and grabbing a handful of ass. I tell you, it was real fun being his wingman.... but he usually did leave with someone he didn't come with every so often.

I prefer being a gentleman though.

Hand full of bootey slick move

Always can have a platonic love, maybe it will be real love. Or maybe can be happy dream with him (o her)

Well, when I think it can be mutual, I try to stay with him, but not always I try in similar way. Sometimes I am shy, sometimes more wild, sometimes rational, sometimes more romantic. I always prefer he seduces me, but not problem do it if he likes me. I don't believe stay with somebody only to stay, I would one love couple for all life if is mutual and same interestings, not violence, poor, lazy or dirty people. But it must be mutual. And sometimes, do it in diferents ways, can be funny.