Is there a "nice" way to break up with someone?

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you'll probably hurt her feelings. Omg, stop taking girfts from her first off. I find it hard to believe you can lose interest in someone only after 1 month or believing that a month is enough time to say you don't have enough time for her - how much time have you ever spent with her? lol I'm not trying to nag you but haha.

Honestly, you must have never been that into her to begin with if it faded that fast. is it because you met another girl?

You could try to make a little time for her to give her a chance ... maybe see her a couple of times before you make a really rash decision. If you are positive about breaking up then well, I think you should just tell her you're not feeling it anymore. She's going to be hurt, unless she doesn't like you, regardless. Just tell her in person and not one the phone, msn, mail or a post it.

I would say the same when it comes to taking something from her. Apparently her idea of love is in giving things from what it sounds like. There are different personality traits to how people love and giving things is one of them. Anyway, pschyc lesson over.. For me, I would be less disappointed if you were just honest. Tell her how you feel. I would not suggest you break her ego and say something like 'there's nothing there see ya babe'.. Be a little sympathetic to her and tell her suttly. It's been a month if it were longer it can make things harder for both of you.

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You not an unfair monster. Just asking how not to hurt her sounds like you are a man who cares what a break up will do to someone. An unfair monster would just leave out and may not even say anything.

I am not sure if I would go further with your relationship unless you think there is a possiblity for something to spark. I would maybe at least ask her what her feelings are about how she feels about you. Like I said some people love by giving things to other people and knowing where she is after a month can make you being able to talk to her easier.

If you are honest with her maybe tell her that you enjoy her company and you like her but not more than that. She might understand. And if there is sex involved with this break up you may want to phrase it in a way that it doesn't sound like your choice was because of that. That is one way to crush an ego. And for Gawd sake have some balls and don't break up over the phone. I realize long distance makes that hard but if this one isn't long distance .. tell her you want to talk. Go have coffee or something, if she comes to your place and is known to leave things for you it would be less likely for her to do it if you meet somewhere public. And if she does bring something then it would be her choice after you talk.

And not everyone falls head over heels.. It takes a special person to do that. And I am curious why you would mention that there is not another girl involved.

Rogue had wondered if it was because of another girl

Thanks for the advice

i also feel liQe breaQing up with

i also feel liQe breaQing up with

it's not that. u don't understand how hard it is when u love then argh it's too hard to explain.

QT..... As vague as you sound, I think it actually sounds like a lot of other people who are breaking up or about to. People tend to break up even though they have loved or even are still love.. That can get me into the difference between true all bearing choice love and emotional, temperary or physical love, but I won't go into that since not many seem to understand. As long as you stay honest with the other person and most important honest with yourself, you can't really go wrong. I hope everything goes ok for both Ire and Stylee.. I hate breakups but sometimes they are necessary especially if it isn't the right person.

Good luck and may you find the someone meant for you.

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thanQs guys.

it's not that. u don't understand how hard it is when u love then argh it's too hard to explain.

I think I can understand...

Did it.

She's really really upset.

Did it.

She's really really upset.

I should go to sleep but I can't see this and just let it be.. I can imagine she could be. Like I had said I hate break ups but you really should be honest about your feelings. I hope she gets to understand that you did not mean to hurt her, just be honest. It may take time but she will recover. Just remember, you were right with honesty. And if you get the chance to calm her make sure you have her understand that you were just trying to do what most people should be seeking in a relationship, that is to be honest with her about how you feel. I have learned that the ability to express honesty is a good thing for any relationship.

Sorry to hear she was upset, I hope she comes around and if she doesn't, I will say.. if you were to wait longer, there would have been more invested and that could have caused even more upset for a break up. Did you completely break up? I just thought of that.. you said you were interested.. and it sounded breakup but I was wondering if you used the let's be friends method. Or something like that. WOW, that can that change how a girl views honesty.

Did it.

She's really really upset.

This is the reason why I find breakups hard... You never know how emotionally invested people are into a realtionship.

Sometimes it might even be better to be mean so they can forget you and get over you ...

Did it.

She's really really upset.

You never know how emotionally invested people are into a realtionship.

Sometimes it might even be better to be mean so they can forget you and get over you ...

I've been seeing this girl for about a month and I'm really just not into her anymore.

She's really nice to me, always buying me gifts and very understanding when it comes to me not being able to spend time with her.

So I'm not really sure why I've lost interest, but I have.

Is there any kind way to break things off? What would hurt your feelings the least?

sell her on ebay and send her the link when the sale is over.

if you're lucky, A you win money and B she will find someone else.

pay a bounty hunter and kill him. sometimes this is the only option. my psycho exboyfriend who tried to kill me because of his jealousy crisis is trying to get back with me and has sent my one of my ex-bestfriend to talk to me about him because i blocked him there are near of 5 years ago on facebook. apparenly my "move on my way *sshole and please kill yourself because i HATE you" wasn't as clear as i thought... he deeply disgusts me. :x

could someone make this guy amnesiac (the one with guess sweatshirt). thanks.

today is not my day!