Kinks, Fetishes and Sexual Interests

Kink is a term used to refer to a broad range of sexual practices (sometimes referred to as "kinky") such as spanking, bondage, domination and submission, sadomasochism. Kink sexual practices transgress what are considered "normal" sexual boundaries as a means of heightening the intimacy between sexual partners. (It is therefore distinguished from sexual fetishism, in which sexual desires are displaced from the intimate partner to an inanimate object). Because of its relation to "normal" sexual boundaries, which themselves vary by time and place, the definition of what is and is not kink varies widely as well.

Whereas "BDSM" is an abbreviation derived from the terms bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. It defines a spectrum of behaviors, including dominance, submission, punishment, masochism, bondage, role play, and a large variety of other activities, frequently sexual in nature. "BDSM" is the collective term for a group of related sexual preferences common in issue-related literature, which are sometimes referred to as "D/s", "Sadomasochism", or "S&M" (also written "S-and-M").

BDSM can also be referred to as "kinky sex", "power exchange" or "the lifestyle", but each of these risks being confused with other alternative relationships or sexual behavior. Functionally, it is a form of 'power play', where power dynamics are used as part of the erotic experience. As such, BDSM mainly involves at least two participants, these being the "Top" who is the dominant partner in the relationship and the "Bottom" who is the submissive.

BDSM tends to involve "scenes" where the party enjoys a scenario which normally tends to involve one of the party voluntarily giving up control or authority. BDSM practitioners make a clear distinction between consensual BDSM and sexual abuse; it is important that the process is voluntary and that whoever is giving up control is willing to perform what tasks are asked of them. This is illustrated in the expression "Safe, sane and consensual", which means that the participants are aware of the dangerous nature of what they are doing, that what they are doing is sensible and in a right frame of mind, and that full informed consent has been given by everyone. A similar term used is "Risk-aware consensual kink" (RACK), although this practice expands the range of things that can be performed.

So what makes you tick, do you like being the top or the bottom. Have any wierd kinks, or sexual fantasies, something a little out of the norm that just can't be considered Vanilla in the bedroom. How about Asphixiation, bondage, suspension, sensory deprivation, role-playing, spanking, maybe playing with wax. Or do your tastes run a bit more risque blending into mild to extreme tortore, maybe humiliation or public auctions are your thing.

Here's a list of a number of different kinks/fetishes and while I realize some overlap it's intentional as this was originally taken from a checklist that a sub would fill out for their Dom.

Abrasion

Age play

Anal sex

Anal plugs (small)

Anal plugs (large)

Anal plug (public, under clothes)

Animal roles

Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)

Aromas

Asphyxiation

Auctioned for charity

Ball stretching

Bathroom use control

Bestiality

Beating (soft)

Beating (hard)

Blindfolds

Being serviced (sexual)

Being bitten

Breast/chest bondage

Breath control

Branding

Boot worship

Bondage (light)

Bondage (heavy)

Bondage (multi-day)

Bondage (public, under clothing)

Breast whipping

Brown showers (scat)

Cages (locked inside of)

Caning

Castration fantasy

Catheterization

Cattle prod (electrical toy)

Cells/Closets (locked inside of)

Chains

Chamber-pot use

Chastity belts

Chauffeuring

Choking

Chores (domestic service)

Clothespins

Cock rings/straps

Cock worship

Collars (worn in private)

Collars (worn in public)

Competitions (with other subs)

Corsets (wearing casually)

Corsets (trained waist reduction)

Cross-dressing

Cuffs (leather)

Cuffs (metal)

Cutting

Diapers (wearing)

Diapers (wetting)

Diapers (soiling)

Dilation

Dildoes

Double penetration

Electricity

Enemas (for cleansing)

Enemas (retention/punishment)

Enforced chastity

Erotic dance (for audience)

Examinations (physical)

Exercise (forced/required)

Exhibitionism (friends)

Exhibitionism (strangers)

Eye contact restrictions

Face slapping

Fantasy abandonment

Fantasy rape

Fantasy gang-rape

Fear (being scared)

Fisting (anal)

Fisting (vaginal)

Flame play

Following orders

Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...)

Foot worship

Forced bedwetting

Forced dressing

Forced eating

Forced homosexuality

Forced heterosexuality

Forced masturbation

Forced nudity (private)

Forced nudity (around others)

Forced servitude

Forced smoking

Full head hoods

Gags (cloth)

Gags (inflatible)

Gags (phallic)

Gags (rubber)

Gags (tape)

Gas masks

Gates of Hell (male)

Genital sex

Given away to another Dom (temp)

Given away to another Dom (perm)

Golden showers

Gun play

Hairbrush spankings

Hair pulling

Hand jobs (giving)

Hand jobs (receiving)

Harems (serving w/other subs)

Harnessing (leather)

Harnessing (rope)

Having food chosen for you

Having clothing chosen for you

Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)

Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus)

High heel wearing

High heel worship

Homage with tongue (non-sexual)

Hoods

Hot oils (on genitals)

Hot waxing

Housework (doing)

Human puppy dog

Humiliation (private)

Humiliation (public)

Hypnotism

Ice cubes

Immobilization

Infantilism

Initiation rites

Injections

Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage

Interrogations

Kidnapping

Kneeling

Knife play

Leather clothing

Leather restraints

Lectures for misbehavior

Licking (non-sexual)

Lingerie (wearing)

Manacles & irons

Manicures (giving)

Massage (giving)

Massage (receiving)

Medical scenes

Modeling for erotic photos

Mouth bits

Mummification

Name change (for scene)

Name change (legal, permanant)

Nipple clamps

Nipple rings (piercings)

Nipple play/"torture"

Nipple weights

Oral/anal play (rimming)

Over-the-knee spanking

Orgasm denial

Orgasm control

Outdoor scenes

Outdoor sex

Pain (mild)

Pain (medium)

Pain (severe)

Persona training (in scene)

Personality modification (RL)

Phone sex (serving Dom)

Phone sex (serving Dom's friends)

Phone sex (commercial provider)

Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)

Piercing (permanent)

Plastic surgery

Prison scenes

Prostitution (public pretense)

Prostitution (actual)

Pony slave

Public exposure

Punishment Scene

Pussy/cock whipping

Pussy worship

Riding crops

Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.)

Rituals

Religious scenes

Restrictive rules on behavior

Rubber/latex clothing

Rope body harness

Saran wrapping

Scarification

Scratching - getting

Scratching - giving

Sensory deprivation

Serving

Serving as art

Serving as ashtray

Serving as furniture

Serving as a maid

Serving as toilet (urine)

Serving as toilet (feces)

Serving as waitress/waiter

Serving orally (sexual)

Serving other doms (supervised)

Serving other doms (unsupervised)

Sexual deprivation (short term)

Sexual deprivation (long term)

Shaving (body hair)

Shaving (genital hair)

Shaving (head hair)

Skinny-dipping

Sleep deprivation

Sleepsacks

Slutty clothing (private)

Slutty clothing (public)

Spandex clothing

Spanking

Speech restrictions (when, what)

Speculums (anal)

Speculums (vaginal)

Spitting

Spreader bars

Standing in corner

Stocks

Straight jackets

Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)

Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)

Strap-on-dildos (wearing)

Strapping (full body beating)

Suspension (upright)

Suspension (inverted)

Suspension (horizontal)

Supplying new partners for Dom

Swallowing feces

Swallowing semen

Swallowing urine

Swapping (with one other couple)

Swinging (multiple couples)

Tampon training (in ass)

Tattooing

Teasing

TENS Unit (electrical toy)

Thumbcuffs (metal)

Tickling

Triple penetration

Urethral sounds (metal rods)

Uniforms

Including others

Vaginal dildo

Verbal humiliation

Vibrator on genitals

Violet Wand (electricial toy)

Voyeurism (watching others)

Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)

Video (watching others)

Video (recordings of you)

Water torture

Waxing (hair removal)

Wearing symbolic jewelery

Weight gain (forced)

Weight loss (forced)

Whipping

Wooden paddles

Wrestling

I'm not Vanilla....but I am not as d/s as I used to be. I was trained in the Gorean way

but heres a list of what I enjoy from that list. I did not see blood play(vampirism)...which is disappointing. I do so love blood.

Being bitten

Bondage

Branding

Chains

Collars (worn in public)

Corsets (wearing casually)

Cutting

High heel wearing

Knife play

Leather clothing

Leather restraints

Pain (medium)

Scratching - getting

Scratching - giving

Serving as a maid

Wrestling

Erotic dance (for audience)

Exhibitionism (friends)

Exhibitionism (strangers)

Fantasy abandonment

Fantasy rape

Huh... so not true. lol, maybe just a bit

If that was with me, i already have someone hahahahaha

thanks anyways

Here are my kinks

Beating (soft)

Being serviced (sexual)

Breast/chest bondage

Breath control

Bondage (light)

Erotic dance (for audience)

Exhibitionism (strangers)

Forced nudity (private)

Genital sex

Hair pulling

Having food chosen for you

Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus)

Head (rcv fellatio/cunnilingus)

Hot waxing

Licking (non-sexual)

Lingerie (wearing)

Massage (receiving)

Orgasm control

Outdoor scenes

Outdoor sex

Pain (mild)

Pain (medium)

Pain (severe)

Piercing (temporary, play-pierce)

Piercing (permanent)

Plastic surgery

Rituals

Scratching - giving

Video (watching others)

Video (recordings of you)

Teasing

Waxing (hair removal)

Weight loss (forced)

Why isn't there a pantyhose/stockings fetish on that list. They have gask mask fetishes but not that! I feel left out.

Thats low key to what we like lol

I suppose.

um... when the guy i've been 'seeing' and i have gotten together... he'd hold my hair, pull it... and what not... he spanked me once... but what really got to me was when he'd have my throat in his hand and make me repeat phrases and what not exmaple:

I'm into being told what to do and being submissive so I was happy... it was pretty kinky.

that's hot

i dont like that to be honest

never tried it but i find the idea of it scary...

my only kink is naughty talk...not DIRTY talk but naughty talk...

um... when the guy i've been 'seeing' and i have gotten together... he'd hold my hair, pull it... and what not... he spanked me once... but what really got to me was when he'd have my throat in his hand and make me repeat phrases and what not exmaple:

he'd make me tell him that I wanted his dick in my mouth, or that i was his bitch.

I'm into being told what to do and being submissive so I was happy... it was pretty kinky.

um... when the guy i've been 'seeing' and i have gotten together... he'd hold my hair, pull it... and what not... he spanked me once... but what really got to me was when he'd have my throat in his hand and make me repeat phrases and what not exmaple:

he'd make me tell him that I wanted his dick in my mouth, or that i was his bitch.

I'm into being told what to do and being submissive so I was happy... it was pretty kinky.

Lol an ex of mine liked being submissive but after a couple of hours in bed I just ran out of stuff to say

"Wait, did I call you a dirty bitch before? Hang on, let me think of something else... No no, you keep on going, it'll come to me soon enough..."

um... when the guy i've been 'seeing' and i have gotten together... he'd hold my hair, pull it... and what not... he spanked me once... but what really got to me was when he'd have my throat in his hand and make me repeat phrases and what not exmaple:

he'd make me tell him that I wanted his dick in my mouth, or that i was his bitch.

I'm into being told what to do and being submissive so I was happy... it was pretty kinky.

Lol an ex of mine liked being submissive but after a couple of hours in bed I just ran out of stuff to say

For some reason my current Fetish this past year has been ejaculating in womens hair, although most dont like it at all, its defienlty something I've been into for whatever reason...I know, I know, nasty me

IN THE HAIR ?????? :|

wtf...

people keep surprising me here !!!!!

go for the eyes

IN THE HAIR ?????? :|

wtf...

people keep surprising me here !!!!!

go for the eyes

Girls with glasses is kinda my fetish.

go for the eyes

EYES???? :| Have you already did that??

what's going on peopleeeeeee

IN THE HAIR ?????? :|

wtf...

people keep surprising me here !!!!!

heck, it suprised me and I'm the one doing it lol