Women and their silent physical messages

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#1

Not sure if there was a thread about this already. Didn't find it. Anyways I was inquiring about something I was reading about in Men's Health earlier today. It was about women and their supposedly subtle, physical messages they may send towards men. Such as when their legs are crossed and their feet are pointed towards you or if their shoulders are pointed towards you that may be a sign that they're interested in a guy. Now I was wondering, is this something that most women do subconsciously if it does occur? I find it very strange, but I'm definitely going to keep my eyes peeled for this sort of thing from now on.

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#2

I've read about this also. In the article I read it mentioned the womans body pointing toward the male. For example, I noticed everytime i'm in the car with my boyfriend, I tilt my body to the left so that I am practically facing him. My knees are pointed in his direction and it's easy for me to see and talk to him this way.

I don't know what it all means but I do it! lol!

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#3

I've heard of this too. I don't know if I do it subconciously or not with my boyfriend, though. But I imagine it's mostly true that women who are into you will face you, lean towards you, touch you more, etc.

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#4

Yup I agree. As a matter of fact I read about it 2 years ago on the 2006 Sept issue of Mens health magazine and it is very true. Women do send signals. Men as well. It is all part of the animal dance we perform as humans. And yes it is the subconcious reactions of an individual. Remember that the subconcious is that baby like inter you that desires what you need. That is why you react without noticing. Ex. you gaze at a handsome young man with intense focus. Ex. You approach a young lady closer than what you normally do. Ex. Girls twirl their hair as a sign of innocent child like shyness, but with interest. Ex. Men raise arm and stretch it over head. Ex. Senses are stimulated in girls as in men; eye pupils expand capturing information and physical traits, sense of smell increases, you listen with more caution to what is being said due to interest, speaking can be impared for good or ruining a conversation, and feeling Wow! is increased as you become more aware to your surroundings and begin to sense the walls around you, trees, breeze etc.

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#5

yeah .. when I'm into a guy I touch them while i'm talking to them/ if I'm not interested I move away when they get too close or cringe when they touch me LOL. I totally know what I'm doing half the time because it's sort of a method of seduction, to be very concious about where and how you touch a guy to spark his interest (i.e. if your dancing; wrapping ur arms around his neck and caressing the back of his neck or hair.. or something as simple as touching his arm when you are talking with him and looking him directly... possiblelicking ur lips and looking at his LOL... )

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yeah .. when I'm into a guy I touch them while i'm talking to them/ if I'm not interested I move away when they get too close or cringe when they touch me LOL. I totally know what I'm doing half the time because it's sort of a method of seduction, to be very concious about where and how you touch a guy to spark his interest (i.e. if your dancing; wrapping ur arms around his neck and caressing the back of his neck or hair.. or something as simple as touching his arm when you are talking with him and looking him directly... possiblelicking ur lips and looking at his LOL... )
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#7

Eyes 'light up', higher pitched voice. These are the most obvious ones..

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#8

make glances at his crotch while your talking - for NO reason.... make sure he catches you. Pretend to be shy when you are caught :evil: or make a devilish smile

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#9

Another popular move with you girls is to use the "full boob press" in clubs or bars when you want to signal you like a guy.

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#10
Another popular move with you girls is to use the "full boob press" in clubs or bars when you want to signal you like a guy.

or maybe just when you want to laugh at a guy/torture him... yessare you referring to leaning over the bar? or blatantly pressing the boobs with the hands pretending to just casually touch oneself? sometimes I cross my arms :evil:

some men are so easy, it's hysterical

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#11

I mean when, in a crowded space, they lean forward towards you just enough for their chest to touch your torso. :|

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#12

^ I wish more chics would do the full boob press

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#13

public boners... those are fun to laugh at