Single & Happy in choo's Or Soccer Mom & minivan

Ok guys I wanna know what you think. Im in my 30's and im single with no kids. I Ive been single for a couple of years now by choice and i have been ok with that. ABSOLUTELY ok with it. When i tell women im single i get these looks like im crazy or like they feel sorry for me. Im a young 30 something mentally and physically and i dont want to get married and i dont want kids. I dont have a biological clock thats ticking and i dont want a husband because society says i should have one. I havent even thought of dating until recently. Now heres the thing...recently i have thought about getting back in the dating scene. I know exactly what i want and i refuse to settle for anything else. Do you think it's hard to find a guy that doesnt want marriage or kids???? I have a feeling that i will be dating younger guys now only because thats what seems to approach me which im ok with. And how many of you feel the same way???? I look at women like jennifer aniston & mariah carey and it just seems to the norm these days. I really prefer to be alone than to be with someone i really dont want to be with. So many women seem to just settle down because they are a certain age and they feel it's "that time". I dont want to be that woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OPINIONS PLEASE

I don't blame you. 30's is not old! Sometimes people can't seem to get this into their heads. I don't find anything wrong with how you view life and I think there is a man out there for you.

Yeah... if a dude is not married by the time he's 30, there's a good chance that he doesn't want to. Either that or he's ugly, lives in his mom's basement, or gay. Take your pick.

Most people who want to get married try to do it before 30.

I single, happy, and not looking to get to get hirched any time in the near future...

ok so the thing that i can say , if you dont want anybody , continue with your live without listening the people !!

Now, if your case was that you want a guy and a family but nobody wants becuase your age and bla bla bla and you are thinking your time is running that's other thing ! and not yur case..

So if you want to continue being a free soul BE A FRE SOUL and thats it !!!

No boys o kids , you are happy, you still have time to fuck around and when the moment of having a family comes, go for it !

wow....30 is still young indeed! I know a lot people who don't wanna marry or having kids

Most of the married people were also get marry after 30.

BTW, just doing what you like and be yourself Ton of guys are waiting for you

Wow thanx guit ys. Its amazing to me that you guys think 30 is young. Thats what i thought to, but it seems like once someone turns 30 they take on a whole different mentality instantly. I really thought i was an odd ball. Thanx for making me feel normal and sane.

Ok sorry for the mispells waaaay too early here.

I don't think that 30 is old at all! The average age for marriage in Germany is something like 33/34! And loads of people in other countries are deciding to marry later when the time feels right.

Don't you worry, you will definitely find the right guy. Guys who are still single in their 30s or 40s have a reason and I agree with what Tooboku said too

If it helps, I read a magazine quite a while back and the article was about marrying "late". And I find it very true: people who marry late tends to stay with their partners longer because they would have dated either a lot more people (not in a bed hopping hunny way) and they know what kind of person they want/attracted to or they have been with their partners long enough to know that s/he is the right person.

So just have fun getting back into the dating scene

i think you are right to not settle for less than what you want in someone as long as you get out and have fun finding what you want. What ever you do in life, do not sit idle in life, it is far too short; do not do things just because someone else says "it is how it should be", i am sure you know what is right for you in your heart, and if staying single is wha t you want, you should find plenty of men who are looking for the same thing.

You live your life the way you choose and if it is with young studs you can train, ride on girl.. the coolest thing to do is to be able to train them just the way you like them... hehehe

Serious age only matters if it bothers you.

I don't think that 30 is old at all! The average age for marriage in Germany is something like 33/34! And loads of people in other countries are deciding to marry later when the time feels right.

Don't you worry, you will definitely find the right guy. Guys who are still single in their 30s or 40s have a reason and I agree with what Tooboku said too

If it helps, I read a magazine quite a while back and the article was about marrying "late". And I find it very true: people who marry late tends to stay with their partners longer because they would have dated either a lot more people (not in a bed hopping hunny way) and they know what kind of person they want/attracted to or they have been with their partners long enough to know that s/he is the right person.

So just have fun getting back into the dating scene

I don't think that 30 is old at all! The average age for marriage in Germany is something like 33/34! And loads of people in other countries are deciding to marry later when the time feels right.

Don't you worry, you will definitely find the right guy. Guys who are still single in their 30s or 40s have a reason and I agree with what Tooboku said too

If it helps, I read a magazine quite a while back and the article was about marrying "late". And I find it very true: people who marry late tends to stay with their partners longer because they would have dated either a lot more people (not in a bed hopping hunny way) and they know what kind of person they want/attracted to or they have been with their partners long enough to know that s/he is the right person.

So just have fun getting back into the dating scene

You literally in every word just said how i feel. Exactly

Awwww, you are welcome