Ladies: Signs he just wants sex

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He doesn't want to know you

Isn't interested in getting to know you

no sincere interest in your thoughts

he blanks out while u are talking, looks away

wrong body language i.e. his torso is facing away from you while you're standing and talking to him

doesn't make significant effort to surprise you or make u feel special

no texting, calling, emailing promptly or he doesn't initiate it

Takes hours or days to answer back, every time

If there's communication, it's only by text and email

Emphasis on Sex

gifts or hints only/always related to sex

asks about your sexual experiences, early rather than later

always tries to find ways to be alone with you (in his car, his apartment. he won't take you for coffee, movies, dinner)

Only makes last minute & late night plans to see you

everything feels linked to sex

Sloppy efforts

Takes you to the same restaurant because it's "our special place"

"A player will go for what's quick, convenient and cheap; just like his intentions."

He promises random shit "Men know that by talking about love, fabulous exotic vacations, babies, houses with the white picket fences, women will give up the goods. He's fattening you up for the kill."

He rarely takes you out on real dates (unless you haven't slept with him yet) he pays to sleep with you

He puts his needs before yours, in life and in bed (i.e. he's not even a good lover)

You've made plans with him in advanced and he cancels, is late, or doesn't show up

You tell him things several times, but he always forgets or gets everything twisted

Jerk Alert!

he will not introduce you to friends, family or coworkers and has no pictures of/with you

if he introduces you, you are introduced as a "friend"

he is not affectionate out of bed, no hand holding or public pecks

he shares no significant feelings, or the ones he shares are insincere attempts to butter you up

he tells you he has commitment issues, warns you not to expect this to last in the long run

if you are lucky, he warns you that he's not relationship material or says "I'm not ready for a serious...." (your reply should be GTFO)

Any thoughts?

Sounds 100% right to me.

*sigh* jerks lol

lol

Guide me tonight, TooBoku!

A very good indication is when they only are interested in anything about you when they are frisky. ** rolls eyes****

A very good indication is when they only are interested in anything about you when they are frisky. ** rolls eyes****

frisky like horny . . .

Totally agree, though the practical use of this is somewhat debatable. In retrospect you can see like oh yeah, this that and that might have happened but practically it's more like "something is not right" fingerspitzung gefuhl .

In normal conduct with people you can (at least by experience) tell if a guy has genuine interest in you or just your body. A good example to see how guys will talk if only interested in body is by becoming friends with random strangers on gaming sites, put up a good picture of yourself and see how they react. Another, though more tedious way, is just watch one of the many "dating goeroe's and/or seduction tips" movies out there. If you've seen one, you've seen all and it's enough to pick out their behaviour.

i think the only difference is they aren't so hypocrite. i mean when a girl believe lies or expect a return also it's clear the guy is not interested it means she doesn't know her partner and she's just in love with an idea. choose a body and create a personality. so why the boy should pay attention to someone who pretend to love him without try to really know him and understand the things he wants and be ok with it. why he should put effort and lose time or money to seduce someone who doesn't want him but an illusions ? they are more realistic and they just take the person for what she. by the way, when you're really in love with someone you should be able to know his way to think, how interested him and what he wants.

in the end, i think there is no victims. the both are "guilty".

Sometimes it is only sex, but it cans be good. But, sometimes.