Ever been in love with a "Bad" guy/gal?

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What's wrong with me? I realized yesterday, (thanks to Taben haha)I've had a pattern of liking beautiful yet a bit "tainted" women. Wittiness, outspoken, intelligence and good looks are tops in my book, esp. intelligence. However, thinking back, most of the beautiful and smart women I've cared about all have a "flaw" that I would find out about later on.

1) my first crush 'C'- eventually got knocked up at 15

2) 'J'-my beautiful Angel faced HS love- used to use alot of weed and acid

3) 'G'- two abortions before 17

4) 'Lo'- known for having 'boytoys' across the country, on the down low

5) 'P'- passionate, but likes the 'dark side', used to slit wrists, likes pain

6) 'L'- used to be major Ecstasy head cuz of her ex bf

All these girls are smart (most are Ivy Leaguers), witty and majorly attractive- all are around 'normal' if you meet them but just that one fact about them made me realize they're kinda 'bad' and 'tainted' in my book.

My Model/Celebrity likes..

1) Ana B- Druggie??

2) Izabel- cheap acc. to Taben haha

3) Megan- knocked up early

4) Famke Janssen- usually plays the 'man-eater' roles

WOW, I've never realized my pattern of 'baddies' ! I always find out about that 'bad' fact later on when I feel a connection with them, it's weird. Even the girl I'll always love, Nell is not 'tainted' like the others, but she was the "IT" girl in my HS, and half the school thought she was a major bitch. All the "nice" girls that liked me, I never felt too much for..hMM and yet I pride myself in always trying to like and find "nice", beautiful and sweet girls.. Think I need to see a psychiatrist!! :|

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I've only had three boyfriends, only one of which has lasted more than 2 months. The first one was a talkative Bengali boy with dreams to become a doctor, the second was a quiet Johnny Depp lookalike who refused any sort of drug, alcohol, or sex, and my current bf is PRINCE EFFING CHARMING (knows how to have fun though).

I guess I never really go for the bad boys. I think they irritate me subconsciously or something.

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never fell in love with a bad one but once had sex with someone who had gone to jail

But then again, i've never fallen in love so... lol

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^ About the girl, think I'm getting there!

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#6

which girl ?

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#7

O, my bad!!!

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?? i'm lost lol... PM if you fear you might make a mistake

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I voted No 'cause i've never been in love but i did go out with a couple of ''bad'' boys...they took drugs <_<

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I voted No 'cause i've never been in love but i did go out with a couple of ''bad'' boys...they took drugs <_<

I know people who do drugs... heck i've tried.. but i wouldn't call 'em bad..

I would say you just have no live if you do them all time or by yourself often.

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#11

Ummm yes. :|

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I was bout to say the same thing about drug users not being bad. They're not bad. Although some of them do other things to make them bad.

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#13

Thank you, Matt. I like your explanation better than mine.

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I've gone out with a few girls that like to have boys fight over them. I'm not one to pick fights, but I'm also not one to back away from them. I thought I learned my lesson with the first one, but I guess not.

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No

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More than once

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#17

Well that depends on how you define a bad girl. I dated a few girls who got me into trouble in HS. But I don't think any of them was really a bad person.

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I did. He was toooooo bad. He used to hit me, yell at me for no reason. But we broke up a couple years ago.

I still like bad boys, just not that bad.

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I did. He was toooooo bad. He used to hit me, yell at me for no reason. But we broke up a couple years ago.

I still like bad boys, just not that bad.

He hit you??? I am so sorry to hear that I am glad you have moved on

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I did. He was toooooo bad. He used to hit me, yell at me for no reason. But we broke up a couple years ago.

I still like bad boys, just not that bad.

He sounds like more than just bad. He's mean and cruel as well. Good thing you got rid of him!

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