How important is simultaneous orgasm to you?

Do you think it's a necessity for a complete sexual experience?  Or a nice-to-have, but one more thing that people shouldn't put pressure on themselves about?  Or do you actually prefer to enjoy the two orgasms - yours and your partner's - separately?

Not a poll; just trying to start a discussion

Simultaneous orgasm is AMAZING.

The key is to know your partner very well and how his/her body reacts.

But it's also not an obligation. When it happens it's great but no pressure at all.

On 5/7/2018 at 4:01 PM, justwastingtime said:

Do you think it's a necessity for a complete sexual experience?  Or a nice-to-have, but one more thing that people shouldn't put pressure on themselves about?  Or do you actually prefer to enjoy the two orgasms - yours and your partner's - separately?

 

Not a poll; just trying to start a discussion

1. No

2. Nice to have put if you put pressure on achieving it the lovemaking would not flow naturally.  It become objective oriented and this would reveal itself in your sexual communication.

3. Depends on the quality of whole experience.

I think it's the ultimate goal for couples.

I also take great pleasure and pride in putting my partner's interests before mine and giving them an orgasm.

Not always can have simultaneos orgasms, but for me it s important orgasms in the sexual act, no orgasm no fun (well sometimes yes, of course, but the climax is very important). I want orgams in the sexual relathionship, not always simultaneous, and two or more can be nice :D