Break-up Reasons
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Hey guys. Don't know if that thread already exists, but nevertheless.. let's do it.
What is the most important reason for you to break-up? Tell one or make a list.
Mine:
1, Cheating girlfriend
2, No more love
3, No more passion
4, Disrespectful behaviour
1. Cheating
2. Love gone away (though that's only a reason if ppl tried to work on it before, at least if it was something real)
3. bad behaviour (of course, if a guy hits me i'll go and make a note at the police)
4. living apart
01. Cheating
02. Abusive
03. Neglect
04. Disrespectfulness
05. El CHEAPO 
06. El Chango (hate when people change for the worse)
07. Personality ; they've always had the bad qualities, you just didn't see them at first
08. Low-self esteem, you get to know the guy is a real pussy after a couple of months
19. He puts you last ; If the guy is too easily influenced by others
10. Found someone better
11. Moving away
12. No longer have the spark (love)
13. No longer have the spark (in the sack, even if I still love you... means it's turned sisterly/brotherly)
i love this thread but ... it's sooo short .. come on people - you know you hate things about people you have dated!
one) Cheating (particularly when it's with a good friend of yours)
two) Carelessness or lack of dedication to the relationship
three) Lies - white ones or big ones
four) Lack of intelligence
five) Flawed personality traits that you find out later down the road
six) Change for the worse
Most of the time, I find myself breaking up on the reasons of carelessness or lack of dedication. I always think I choose the right girls, but most of them seem to think that relationships are suppose to run on love like some magical fuel for a car that runs forever efficiently and never in need of repair. I don't know, but that's one of the most vital reasons. Also, I find myself dating rather facade-oriented girls or shallow females. I can't seem to carry a decent conversation with anyone anymore.
I have a problem where I realize that the actual chase just happens to be a lot more interesting than the being with the person. The beginning of a relationship is always heavenly (or usually is). The only time I found myself wanted to hold on to a relationship and work on it ironically was when my partner didn't (because he was an rass hole). 
Cheating, violence.
Why I dumped somone. Let's See...
Guy #1: Pathological liar (seriously), cheated on me numerous times one of which was w/ my ex-best friend, controlling/overly jealous, stalking, psychological/physical abuse, and arrogance.
Guy #2: Was way too hairy and clingy.
Guy #3: Was just boring.
Guy #4: Refused to commit to a serious relationship.
Guy #5: Lost of chemistry...just wasn't right for each other.
Guy #6: Cheating
Let's see... I've never been dumped. I've always dumped my exes.
The first boyfriend from high school was very immature and after a year of being together, he still hadn't grown up ( even to this day at 22 years old he is sooo immature ), so I broke up with him.
My second boyfriend... we lived together for about nine months ( after a little over two years together ) and the love just kind of ... ended. We had opposite goals in mind and he was very insensitive. So I moved out about two months after our three year anniversary.
My third boyfriend was very manipulative. He eventually became very emotionally abusive and finally phsyically. So with the help of my family, I moved out and left his ass.
My fourth boyfriend... ( whom I don't consider a serious boyfriend because we only dated for about a month ) was really sweet and super cute, but I was in love with someone else ( my current boyfriend ). So I decided not to prolong the relationship any longer and end it with him to make it official with my current beau.
hahah my turn
#1. We went out for 4 days but I liked the guy since a year before that. He asked me out when he wanted to go out with my best-friend at the time, stupid idiot. Needless to say, we ended. I dumped him because I knew he liked my best friend and of course she went running after him right after. Everyone at school knew about it and frowned at the other two - while patting my back lol. We still hate each other to this day, not my ex but the ex-best friend. It was pretty lame.
#2. Shit .. I can't remember .. Oh wait .. yes I do. I went out with him for 3 months and got bored, so I dumped him the day before his birthday. He tried to ask me out again around valentine's day but it didn't work. He ended up dating that same ex-bestfriend that I can't stand a year later. We still talk now and are actually some what friends, not close friends - but I wouldn't avoid him if I saw him walk down the street.
#3. This lasted about 4 months. He was a very sweet guy that I met online through a friend but he lived outside of the city. We never really kissed, it was a really innocent type of relationship. Because he lived outside of the city, I met someone else and decided to end this relationship. We're still friends to this day.
#4. This is the guy I left #3 for. I'm so embarrassed I even dated this guy. It last 2 months and he dumped me - why? I have no clue. I wasn't even upset, just disgusted with myself. He was completely psycho and ugly as hell. He seemed normal until I met friends of his and actually got to know him a little more. I say hi to him once in a while but I still find him ver annoying.
#5. My highschool sweet heart and I dated for a year. It was my first some-what serious relationship, teenage wise. We hung out with mutual friends every weekend. We were voted "best couple" in the year book and everything. He had a crush on me for 2 years (before we started dating), and well ... honestly at one point I guess I liked him, but after that I realized I didn't like him too much. He started pulling out the L (love) word and I just couldn't respond to that. He got clingy too and I just wanted to break away and so I broke up with him before prom but we went to it together anyways. He tried to ask me out again at prom night but I couldn't go back.
#6. My first love. I still think about this basturd and my skin crawls when I see him. He was literally the "perfect" guy: athletic (on the AAA basketball team in college), green eyes, super tall, book smart, popular, dirty blonde... like the type of guy every girl dreams of dating pretty much. He never took me out. He would never really introduce me to his friends. There was no mutual ground whatsoever ... no ties. He was never my friend.. he was just someone I would see at his house or mine - we only saw each other one on one. We started dating during my first year of college and he was in his last year of highschool. Things really started to fall apart when he came to my college. Basically, I was completely neglected and misstreated by him. I've never fallen head over heels but I knew he was crossing the line but I was still holding on to him and I didn't want to let him go - basically because I loved him. He broke it off with me and said we would remain friends. He never tried to stay friends with me after that lol. I still hate his guts to this day, at first because I still liked him, now because of the fact that he didn't explain to me properly why he broke up with me (I suspect he cheated as well, fact: a girl slept over at his house once). Oh also, because I believe he is a two faced coward.
that's my mini feed.
Not that I'm trying to pry, but what exactly made you love this guy #6? I'm stumped. 
Not that I'm trying to pry, but what exactly made you love this guy #6? I'm stumped.
Hey Matty, what's your reason ?? incapaple of giving .... ??? 
Mine :
+ Dirty. (URGHHHH) (hairy is sexy, not dirty, as long as it smells ok 
)
+ Cheating. (it depends, i might forgive him once if its a good reason.)
+ Violence. (A big no no)
+ Cheap. (Dont take me to Red Lobster using coupons )
+ Rude.
+ Aggressive.
+ Boring.
+ Complaining
+ Stupid, retarded.
+ Incapaple of cooking, doing chores.
+ Noisy
+ Sturbborn
+ Drinking. (like everyday)
+ Smokin (STINK.....)
..............
+ Cheap. (Dont take me to Red Lobster using coupons
wow thats pretty cheap
Hey Matty, what's your reason ??Mine :
+ Dirty. (URGHHHH) (hairy is sexy, not dirty, as long as it smells ok
+ Cheating. (it depends, i might forgive him once if its a good reason.)
+ Violence. (A big no no)
+ Cheap. (Dont take me to Red Lobster using coupons
+ Rude.
+ Aggressive.
+ Boring.
+ Complaining
+ Stupid, retarded.
+ Incapaple of cooking, doing chores.
+ Noisy
+ Sturbborn
+ Drinking. (like everyday)
+ Smokin (STINK.....)
+ Not mbinebri
..............
Hey, Joker, I like the last one on the list. 
Not that I'm trying to pry, but what exactly made you love this guy #6? I'm stumped.
I didn't mention the good things about him .. because the bad out weighted the good. He made me smile and I didn't choose to like him or love him ... it just kind of happened. I was instantly interested in him when I met him in person and there was crazy chemistry - the kind where you never want to get your eyes or hands off the person and all you want to do is be with them. When I look back, I can't help but remember some of the good times we had. Oh, and not to mention - I still find him incrediably physically attractive and we had a great sex-life.
Hey Matty, what's your reason ??Mine :
+ Dirty. (URGHHHH) (hairy is sexy, not dirty, as long as it smells ok
+ Cheating. (it depends, i might forgive him once if its a good reason.)
+ Violence. (A big no no)
+ Cheap. (Dont take me to Red Lobster using coupons
+ Rude.
+ Aggressive.
+ Boring.
+ Complaining
+ Stupid, retarded.
+ Incapaple of cooking, doing chores.
+ Noisy
+ Sturbborn
+ Drinking. (like everyday)
+ Smokin (STINK.....)
+ Not mbinebri
..............
Hey, Joker, I like the last one on the list.
What can i say? I dont do blowjobs, baby ! ...
Mine :+ Dirty. (URGHHHH) (hairy is sexy, not dirty, as long as it smells ok
+ Boring.
+ Complaining
+ Stupid, retarded.
+ Drinking. (like everyday)
+ Smokin (STINK.....)
DAMN straight!!
+ Cheap. (Dont take me to Red Lobster using coupons
yeah .. that was #5 on mine - it's a very impotant one, might I add.
1.scary stalker
Man crazy people are the worst....they make it necessary for restraining orders
2. cheating
My worst break up story was we had been together for about 2 years and suddenly he didn't wanna be with me, he never loved me, and I found out he was cheating on me. I cried for weeks...but guess what I got even :evil: . I used his credit cards and bought alot of clothes and a cell phone. I felt so much better after that. 
3.Aggressive/ physical abuse
4.two faced assholes, hated when he smoked cigarettes.. I hated it when he'd promise me things and never really lived up to them.. stupid shit like that.
umm you're mom made you?
1 - Restraining order.