How To Say Sorry?

I liked this one girl...but i keep making mistakes and make her mad...now she doesn't even want to be my friend anymore...so how should i say sorry to her? I know i did wrong and i tried to fix it...end up i make more mistakes...zzz lol so please help me out here thanks =p

Why force it?

Be confident where you know you're right, be extremely sorry,and demonstrate it (by repairing damage done, or compensating with fun) for everything you were wrong on. But don't go overboard in your apologies. An apology from a guy to a girl should be more a display of the hurt it has done to you to know you have hurt her, not any kind of 'submissive' shit like "omg, please forgive me, i am so sorry, blabla". Keep your cool. You're the guy. You're the boss. You might fuck up. You don't want to hurt her. Let her know you're sorry, clearly, but do it in the same way that you can imagine Tyler Durden from Fight Club apologizing to a girl.

Out of interest, how old is she?

Well if you really like her why not do something special from the heart which means a lot to her? You know what I mean? Do something that shows that you paid attantion to what she says.

Like if she once said she likes little blue bunnys then go and get her one. A nice letter added wouldn't harm as well I think. Be honest about what you feel and give her something from the heart, something personal. The stuff girls say casually mostly is the stuff they would be happy about getting.

I once took the time and made a pearl ring for a girl myself with glass pearls and other handicraft stuff my sisters own.

She really liked it and nearly started crying and I didn't get why lol

She later told a friend of mine that it was the most beautiful thing she ever got because it was beautiful and selfmade and showed her that I thought it was worth trying something that hard for her.

So if you're handy (and have an eye for things she likes lol we wouldn't want something ugly right?) you could try to do something like that.

But since I'm a guy maybe it would be better to know what the girls here think about my advice first

Roses get me ever time

Be confident where you know you're right, be extremely sorry,and demonstrate it (by repairing damage done, or compensating with fun) for everything you were wrong on. But don't go overboard in your apologies. An apology from a guy to a girl should be more a display of the hurt it has done to you to know you have hurt her, not any kind of 'submissive' shit like "omg, please forgive me, i am so sorry, blabla". Keep your cool. You're the guy. You're the boss. You might fuck up. You don't want to hurt her. Let her know you're sorry, clearly, but do it in the same way that you can imagine Tyler Durden from Fight Club apologizing to a girl.

Out of interest, how old is she?

she doesn't like....i guess she rejected me so many times ...oh well..i don't force it anymore...i let it goes now...and hoping we just can be friends again for cool =p anyway thanks for all advices =p

I think my ex should take a look at this thread. it's been a year and a half & I'll never forgive him, not that he cares...

Be confident where you know you're right, be extremely sorry,and demonstrate it (by repairing damage done, or compensating with fun) for everything you were wrong on. But don't go overboard in your apologies. An apology from a guy to a girl should be more a display of the hurt it has done to you to know you have hurt her, not any kind of 'submissive' shit like "omg, please forgive me, i am so sorry, blabla". Keep your cool. You're the guy. You're the boss. You might fuck up. You don't want to hurt her. Let her know you're sorry, clearly, but do it in the same way that you can imagine Tyler Durden from Fight Club apologizing to a girl.

Out of interest, how old is she?

I think my ex should take a look at this thread. it's been a year and a half & I'll never forgive him, not that he cares...

.so how should i say sorry to her?

Ack is right, although it might not be bad to say a little more than that. Just tell her what you're sorry for, why you feel that way and why it took you so long to apologize. Even if she doesn't accept the apology, you'll feel a whole lot better afterwards.

And make-up sex is the best!

And a Qard?

And make-up sex is the best!

If you can get it, sure...

Start a fight...say sorry...have sex. There you go.

Start a fight...say sorry...have sex. There you go.

I wish it was that easy

I talked about it with an ex-girlfriend (now a friend) a couple of days ago. We were absolutely incompatible, except after a fight

now she doesn't even want to be my friend anymore...

And a Qard?