Are you a virgin?

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HI everyone!! I'm 19 and i ain't a virgin!! Lol!! Now, I can freely talk about what I did on this forum cuz I know that nobody around me will ever read this (I'm French and live in France. So I can finally reveal what I've done): I did it!! Should I say "I made it" (sorry 4 my English, I do my best)? Anyway, I had sex with my driving teacher: he's in his 30's, he's Lebanon and very hot. He's a very open person, and his motto could be "Because u don't know what happens tomorrow, take the advantage of what comes to you every day", just seize the opportunity. His favorite word, apart from "freedom", would be "desire". No sentiments, just sex. And believe me, I would've missed something. I know it's immoral, but... We are the only 2 people in this world to know this secret.

Well, now that it's all said and done, I don't feel any relief or... Cuz I feel no remorse or regret. We both know where we're going. Take it from me, a lot of girls would wanna be in my place!!!! I consider myself as lucky cuz he respects me, when I say "no", he knows when to stop. And that's a lot to say when you're deep into action!! Lol!! He's a good guy. As for some of you who may think "Look at this girl, she's blinded, she's taken the wrong path, she idealizes him..." Nope, not at all. I'm aware of what I'm saying, I weigh my words. Not every girl gets to know a man like that.

And after all, a man is a man. Is there any guy who remains faithful to his wife, I'm asking you!? You just have to accept this fact.

He wasn't reluctant to do it, neither was I. Was there anything to lose? That's a secret that I will have to keep to myself forever. That's kinda scary, ain't it ?!! Lol!!

Sue him. Trust me.

We both agreed to do it, I was willing to do it!! I'd never shown any sign of reluctance and he didn't say no neither. We're two grown-ups, right ? And everytime, he asks me if I want to do it or not, he doesn't try to convince me or anything. I feel like it and so does he. As long as no one hears about it, there's nothing wrong!

I gotta say that it's somewhat weird to know that an engaged man can want you, see what I mean? That I can have sex with a married man (married, no, but with someone, and he has a baby). You know, I can have effect on him. He's very open-minded, very liberal as well (you may have noticed!! Lol!!), but he's already had like 15000 girlfriendss before, he's got much more experience than me, and yet, I can please him.

I'm his second extramarital relationship. I'd never thought I would have, one day, this... ability? Power? I'm not taking pride in this, but... it's new to me. What a way to start in life, huh? We're just having fun; we're both understanding towards each other; I gain in self-confidence; he's got nothing to lose; in addition to that, we talk a lot and I feel like a woman of 30 cuz he tells me how everything works, the way he thinks, the way men think or want. I feel years ahead of what a normal girl of 19-20 should feel, like, I feel in advance. It's almost as if now that I've known what a man is, I don't wanna make love with someone that's my age. He's got experience, there's no shyness, I can feel free with him, you don't think to urself "what is he gonna think seeing this, or what will be his reaction when...". He makes my fantasies come true (twice we did it, twice my fantasies were fullfilled!! Lol!) and he may be able to fullfill one of his (me, a 19-year-old girl!! Lol!!). This story is really one-of-a-kind, I'm telling you!! Lol!!

Better than in a movie!!

Sue him. Trust me.

Sue who? Victorine is probably some driving school teacher dude making up creepy fantasies. It's clearly all she's here for.

Sue him. Trust me.

Sue who? Victorine is probably some driving school teacher dude making up creepy fantasies. It's clearly all she's here for.

So what ? You don't believe me? You think I'm making up this story, don't you? Wow, I'd never thought that other people would actually think this story is fake. Is it too unreal? I don't understand... It would've been more believable if this guy had been a real perv? Well, I'm glad to say he's not!!

Sue him. Trust me.

Sue who? Victorine is probably some driving school teacher dude making up creepy fantasies. It's clearly all she's here for.

So what ? You don't believe me? You think I'm making up this story, don't you? Wow, I'd never thought that other people would actually think this story is fake. Is it too unreal? I don't understand... It would've been more believable if this guy had been a real perv? Well, I'm glad to say he's not!!

Yes it would have been.

Well....

I don't think it's right what you do, Victorine, but after all, for a out-of-relationship always two ppl are needed I won't say anything against it. Overall it's your choice Just don't fall in love with him. He'll stay with his wife, I am sure.

So what ? You don't believe me? You think I'm making up this story, don't you? Wow, I'd never thought that other people would actually think this story is fake. Is it too unreal? I don't understand... It would've been more believable if this guy had been a real perv? Well, I'm glad to say he's not!!

So he's sleeping with a student that's over a decade younger than him, while he's engaged with a child, and it's not the first affair. Right, if this is all true, he's SO admirable. This guy is a CREEP.

Sorry but what does "creep" mean ?

Secondly, I'm not asking him to leave his wife, it's not the aim at all! I have nothing to do with being a "marriage breaker"!!

And anyway, I've always thought that I'd never get involved with someone older than me, there are just too many differences and... But then, I'm not paying attention to his age but to the person, see what I mean? I may have forgotten to tell you that he's Lebanon. I'm not a racist! But at first, I was quite mistrustful cuz it is said that "arab ppl are leery, a bit rogue, they know how to negociate and get to the point, know how to please someone..." blah blah blah... What I did was putting aside those clichés, get to know how this people live over there (culture, politics, religion, etc), and who better than him could EXPLAIN to me those things ?! I didn't wanna put any barriers, no taboos between us. Over time, as we were talking about religion and polygamy, we expressed our different points of view over these practices. We talk about serious matters, he was open enough to let me know about what he thinks deep inside of him, he told me some stories that happened to him, and... Over time, even though it wasn't intentional, I got to know his opinion about various things! He can talk freely about whatever he wants. And I decided to do the same. That included the death of my father years ago, how I see life now... So to do that, I had to trust him, for him not to judge me (just understand me)... But I hesitated for a long time, cuz after all I didn't know him, really. It posed a problem for me, cuz it ain't something I do every day, with any one. While driving with him, I wasn't in a good mood, I was questionning myself, wondering what to do (Can I talk to him, can I confide myself...?), I couldn't drive well!!

Once, he sent me a text message (on the phone, u know) saying like "I see 2 different ways to solve the problem, and one single aim: have sex with me and we don't talk any more, or we do nothing and we don't talk any more".

We did make love together, had sex, and now everything's clear, it's much more simple between us!!

I cannot explain this story in any better way!!

We both agreed to do it, I was willing to do it!! I'd never shown any sign of reluctance and he didn't say no neither. We're two grown-ups, right ? And everytime, he asks me if I want to do it or not, he doesn't try to convince me or anything. I feel like it and so does he. As long as no one hears about it, there's nothing wrong!

I gotta say that it's somewhat weird to know that an engaged man can want you, see what I mean? That I can have sex with a married man (married, no, but with someone, and he has a baby). You know, I can have effect on him. He's very open-minded, very liberal as well (you may have noticed!! Lol!!), but he's already had like 15000 girlfriendss before, he's got much more experience than me, and yet, I can please him.

I'm his second extramarital relationship. I'd never thought I would have, one day, this... ability? Power? I'm not taking pride in this, but... it's new to me. What a way to start in life, huh? We're just having fun; we're both understanding towards each other; I gain in self-confidence; he's got nothing to lose; in addition to that, we talk a lot and I feel like a woman of 30 cuz he tells me how everything works, the way he thinks, the way men think or want. I feel years ahead of what a normal girl of 19-20 should feel, like, I feel in advance. It's almost as if now that I've known what a man is, I don't wanna make love with someone that's my age. He's got experience, there's no shyness, I can feel free with him, you don't think to urself "what is he gonna think seeing this, or what will be his reaction when...". He makes my fantasies come true (twice we did it, twice my fantasies were fullfilled!! Lol!) and he may be able to fullfill one of his (me, a 19-year-old girl!! Lol!!). This story is really one-of-a-kind, I'm telling you!! Lol!!

Better than in a movie!!

He clearly is a player from the beginning. And he did such an amazing luring job that even his bait is complimenting his dirty plot.

W-A-K-E U-P !!!

So he's sleeping with a student that's over a decade younger than him, while he's engaged with a child, and it's not the first affair. Right, if this is all true, he's SO admirable. This guy is a CREEP.

He reminds me alot about you, you little Don Juan you !!!!

He clearly is a player from the beginning. And he did such an amazing luring job that even his bait is complimenting his dirty plot.

W-A-K-E U-P !!!

Sad, isn't it? :|

He reminds me alot about you, you little Don Juan you !!!!

Ohhhhhhhhhhh, Joker, you're going to get it for that! :persuazn:

Sorry If it sound harsh, but...hello??? Victorine you think you have power over this guy? To me it's soo clear who has the power here. I mean, he is a guy who wanted to get laid and you are a girl, there is not much choosing here, maybe if it wasn't you it would have been someone else. So maybe you shouldn't be surprised if you 'please' him, if he has sex he's pleased...period. Why do people have to talk in such a complicated way about simple things like this.

Yes you speak the truth!

I perfectly know I'm one girl out of a zillion, he just has to choose!! That's clear!! I'm not living any romance story, or love story!! But if I want it to stop, right now, I'm sure he would understand. The fact is that he trusts me as well!! I could yell out that we have an affair, I could... I don't know. I'm not his puppet and he's not mine neither!! Why don't you guys wanna understand and accept this? I'm not considering him as someone who's ready to leave his wife FOR ME!! Yes, he's a man, so why wouldn't he grab the opportunity to have sex with a girl? On my side, why would I say "no", tell me!! I have absolutely nothing to lose!! It's only PLEASURE, and nothing else!!!

He's not a wrong guy, he could've charmed me, he could've gotten straight to the point, or... He's not influential to me, I know what I'm doing (even if I don't get any advice from my mother, friends or anyone else, I just don't this on my own, with my own judgement). This is not a long-lasting relationship, it's only sex.

Well, It's not that I don't understand or accept. I mean I'm an open person too But the thing is I got the feeling you a little fooling yourself, meaning you THINK you feel nothing for him and you THINK it's just sex and of course that's normal cause you're hardly in love with this guy. But you're still very young and I believe that everyone that has sex for the first time (it was your first time, right?) has some kind of sub conscious attachment to the other person. Even if you try to back that up, it's normal. You say it's just the sexual pleasure and you don't have to be ashamed of that, but whats with all the talking and confiding in one another. Isn't it a little bit more personal than just sex ?? My advise would be to end something that could leave you very hurt and enjoy a really great and romantic affair, and leave these 'sex only' relationships to when you're a bit older and experienced.

As for "power over this guy": I asked him "if another girl would've wanted you (over 18 years old, of course), would u have had sex with ehr", and he clearly answered that he didn't know... meaning yes. I don't care 'bout the other girls, but he could've said "no" to me, he could've said "no, we're on the wrong path, I won't deceive my wife with you, you're a student, I'm here to teach u how yo drive, and that's it!!" But he didn't. We went out once, got on his motorbike, hit the road to another town,... If it's a risk, then we BOTH take it! He's got much more to lsoe than me! He takes responsibility going out with me. If I don't wanna go any further, he won't force anything! If the only thing he truly wanted was sex, don't you think the situation would've turned out in a bad way?! Physically, a man is stronger than a woman, he wouldn't need my agreement to lay me down! See what I mean?

Oh Lord, this girl is hopeless.

Now Matt don't give up on her like we did on The Joker, look what happened!!!!

Well, It's not that I don't understand or accept. I mean I'm an open person too But the thing is I got the feeling you a little fooling yourself, meaning you THINK you feel nothing for him and you THINK it's just sex and of course that's normal cause you're hardly in love with this guy. But you're still very young and I believe that everyone that has sex for the first time (it was your first time, right?) has some kind of sub conscious attachment to the other person. Even if you try to back that up, it's normal. You say it's just the sexual pleasure and you don't have to be ashamed of that, but whats with all the talking and confiding in one another. Isn't it a little bit more personal than just sex ?? My advise would be to end something that could leave you very hurt and enjoy a really great and romantic affair, and leave these 'sex only' relationships to when you're a bit older and experienced.

Well, I guess you're reading my mind Peyt. Maybe I don't wanna face it. But to be honest with you, I think I wanna live one day after the other (cuz I'm missed too many years thinking again and again), there's a French phrase that says "profiter du moment présent", that could mean "live the moment to the fullest". I'm done with weighing the pros and cons, wondering what would be the consequences. I've spent too many years wasting my time questionning myself. Cuz now, it feels as if I was delayed, compared to the others. I've acquired some wisdom, that's for sure, some maturity. This domain (relationship with a man, sex) is new to me. There's something inside me that tells me "You're going right into a wall" (I dunno if I speak really English!! Lol!!), maybe I'll end up smashed up, all in pieces (man, this aint English!! Sorry!! Lol!). But the truth is that I'm not fully conscious of that.

That's why I'm writing this on the Internet: anonymity, trying to get some advices from more experienced ppl,...

It feels like no matter how hard I try to protect myself, I will be hurt. Whether I put an end to it or not,...

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