Are you a virgin?
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19 years old and still not into having sex!
sometimes it sucks.
sometimes I'm proud to have waited!
me and the girlfriend are waiting until we get out of high school to lose it. she made a promise to herself that she would do that way before she met me so i swore to her that even if she said she wanted to have sex with me that i would say no. lucky for both of us, everything besides what makes a baby isnt considered sex, so its not covered under the promise 
but damn....when those other things are going down it gets so hard to just keep ourselves from jumping on eachother....but it makes her so happy that im glad i can resist
I'm worse still...17 and still a virgin, still never got attached.
nein ...
Not a virgin. I have a lovely sex life with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years. 
Nein!
i know someone who lost it at 13. seriously, who the hell does that? at that age you should be "exploring" yourself....not getting laid
There is someone on this other forum who had sex at 11. They seem pretty messed up, as well; they think that incest is perfectly fine and acceptable. :x
I lost it when I only was 12... and I wish it never would have happened... the guy pushed me into it, and I didn't have the courage to say no... I was only a kid, but my body was ready for it (I had very big breasts and so on for being such a young girl).... I wish I had waited to my present boyfriend, who I have been with in 7 years...
yop 
That wasn't your fault; you were only a kid and this guy pressured you into it. In fact my mum lost her virginity in a similar way and it actually counted as rape because she kept telling the guy to stop, crying and asking what he was doing (she did not even know because nobody told her about sex), but he kept on going.
My sympathies to your mom... 
That wasn't your fault; you were only a kid and this guy pressured you into it. In fact my mum lost her virginity in a similar way and it actually counted as rape because she kept telling the guy to stop, crying and asking what he was doing (she did not even know because nobody told her about sex), but he kept on going.
sex is one of the few noble times of lifetime, but there are plenty of animals out there, i am sorry for both your mom and miamaia
and i am sorry for myself to lost my virginity with a hooker when i was 17.
Uhm... I've lost it when I was 14 with a guy who was a 'few' years older than me, but who was intellectual younger than me, I think.... I was the grown-up in the relationship....
But it's over since... one and a half year, thank god.
Am I sorry for losing my virginity? Not really, even if it was a mistake. It was ok, not very great but alright^^ if you understand what I'm meaning 
Could have been better, could have wait a bit longer, but it's too late and so I'm fine with it.
Virginity is kind of an abstract concept, anyway. It has as much meaning as you're willing to assign it.
some people are actually afraid of losing their virginity,or even being touched 
Virginity is kind of an abstract concept, anyway. It has as much meaning as you're willing to assign it.
I'll have to disagree on this. One's virginity is a valuable thing whether one accepts/believes that or not. A person's worth is not determined by their upbringing or social circumstances, yet their belief about their worth is definitely determined by this at early ages. So the value they place on their virginity, which ties in with their self-respect, is directly affected. In spite of this, a person's value, and their virginity, has not changed...only their view of it. So, if this same person, gains self-respect and/or improves his/her emotional well being and places more importance on what they do with their body, does this change the actual value of their virginity? I don't think so, I think they just begin to realize the true value of what they already have. IMO, of course. 
some people are actually afraid of losing their virginity,or even being touched
Being afraid of being touched is not a neccessarily bad. Does this apply to mom and dad's hugs? Does it apply to friends too? If so, then yeah, maybe it's someting to look at....something to talk to someone about. It also depends on a person's age though.
I was talking about those who had been sexually abused at a young age,actually any age. Nothing to do with family or friends..
no
i don't regret cause i knew what i was doing and i was ready. i gave a lot of though to it before i did it
Virginity is kind of an abstract concept, anyway. It has as much meaning as you're willing to assign it.
I'll have to disagree on this. One's virginity is a valuable thing whether one accepts/believes that or not. A person's worth is not determined by their upbringing or social circumstances, yet their belief about their worth is definitely determined by this at early ages. So the value they place on their virginity, which ties in with their self-respect, is directly affected. In spite of this, a person's value, and their virginity, has not changed...only their view of it. So, if this same person, gains self-respect and/or improves his/her emotional well being and places more importance on what they do with their body, does this change the actual value of their virginity? I don't think so, I think they just begin to realize the true value of what they already have. IMO, of course.
some people are actually afraid of losing their virginity,or even being touchedBeing afraid of being touched is not a neccessarily bad. Does this apply to mom and dad's hugs? Does it apply to friends too? If so, then yeah, maybe it's someting to look at....something to talk to someone about. It also depends on a person's age though.
+1
in addition to this post i should remind those who think that virginity is just a symbol, most of humankind lives on their beliefs and also these tiny(?) symbols are which makes a person "human".
I'm still a virgin. Hope i can hold it back till after marriage. 
You're around my age right? Thats gonna be awhile