Pet Peeve In Relationship

you'd be surprised how many people do that :|

Well... seriously I only did it once because she moved away for school at Western and driving there was really more effort than it was worth. She was really getting on my nerves.

my peeve is being ignored.

I live with a guy and he sits on his computer most of the day and doesn't even look at me for the better part of that day.

I'm a red head....I need attention! A smile a wink....something -.-

:rofl:

Aawwww...

but if tuhreese wants... we can sell the tapes to you :brows:

that fine by me..

My Superman How much? :evil:

Insecurity is soooo :yuckky: Hate people that you need to babysit <_<

but if tuhreese wants... we can sell the tapes to you :brows:

that fine by me..

My Superman How much? :evil:

Insecurity is soooo :yuckky: Hate people that you need to babysit <_<

1..100 billion dollars lol :evil: haha jk it's free lois lane

Forgive me but I must post here concerning your hatred for insecure girls.

I am one of them; but some of us has a reason for the doubt that fills our lives.

I have been cheated on so many times, it wounds one deeply to have someone they loved and trusted go behind their backs and sleep with someone else.

I have this worry and fear that it is going to happen again; it is not lack of trust or love. It is just something that sicks with you. How can you just let go of that?

I do worry about where he goes when he is not with me, it does bother me that he has so many female friends. But I try to not say anything about it. I just do not want to be mislead and hurt again. Nothing hurts like when someone you love cheats.

It takes time to heal such wounds, and before the healing is finished, people are going to act like that. I can't believe so many people are against it.

I would say that it is a lack of trust, at least at some level.

And with the girl i talked about, I was supposedly her first "bf" though it lasted like 1 month lol

No it is not a lack of trust in my case at least, because it is all self inflicted.

anyway I'll drop the subject, just felt the need to say something

well, i'm sorry if i offended you at all.

It's fine. I just wanted for people to perhaps see it from the other persons side - not saying that it's all the same.

But It was late and I did not explain as well as I should have.

ok ok I have another peeve!

I hate it when he watches me eat

I have hypoglycemia, so I eat all day long, no matter what time it is. He however is on a strict food schedule, so when I am eating....and he is not. He stares at me like I'm a side show attraction as I stuff my face.(and I do stuff my face)

I don't think anybody likes being watched while eating. Well, maybe competitive eaters lol

ok ok I have another peeve!

I hate it when he watches me eat

I have hypoglycemia, so I eat all day long, no matter what time it is. He however is on a strict food schedule, so when I am eating....and he is not. He stares at me like I'm a side show attraction as I stuff my face.(and I do stuff my face)

aaaaw.... how bad is your hg?

i have one friend who eats a banana and crashes on the couch for the rest of the night.

not that bad.

I just have to snack all day or I start to get sick and irritable.

Would it be excusable if its like fascination stare ? Like, "oh...you're so beautiful when you eat ..."

And I know its hard to heal the wounds of betrayal, but one things I heard my grandmother say is you shouldn't feel insecure for someone cheating, because no matter what qualities you think you could or should have to make someone faithful, someone with those same qualities is being cheated on . So its not about you being good enough .

LOL JOE!

No! I just don't want to be stared at when I eat lol.

Thanks Joe, your really sweet

Forgive me but I must post here concerning your hatred for insecure girls.

I am one of them; but some of us has a reason for the doubt that fills our lives.

I have been cheated on so many times, it wounds one deeply to have someone they loved and trusted go behind their backs and sleep with someone else.

I have this worry and fear that it is going to happen again; it is not lack of trust or love. It is just something that sicks with you. How can you just let go of that?

I do worry about where he goes when he is not with me, it does bother me that he has so many female friends. But I try to not say anything about it. I just do not want to be mislead and hurt again. Nothing hurts like when someone you love cheats.

It takes time to heal such wounds, and before the healing is finished, people are going to act like that. I can't believe so many people are against it.

Im sorry to hear that you had to go thru such an awful ordeal never nice to hear someone get hurt like that. Totally understand where you're coming from in terms of there is always a reason for the insecureties(sp) I think we all suffer from them to one degree or another. It's very rare to find a totally secure person..well especially one at a young age. I hope your with somome that understands your "baggage" (for lack of a better word) Nobody should expect you to get over them so quickly, these things take time..and shouldn't be rushed..so don't let them rush you into somthing your not prepared for. I too have them..for reasons that i don't wish to go into. However ive got to the stage now that whenever i get them i just ignore them totally and wait untill you are proven wrong..(as in that what your worrying about is just all in your head)and you are always proven wrong You got to understand that this situation is totally different from the ones that you been in and that what has happened to you is totally out of the ordinary. And eventually these insecure moments will get less and less

As Joe said, Being Cheated on is his issue not yours..more down to what a dickhead he is rather then you being undesireable...which is clearly not that case! From what ive seen and what ive read your a smart and gorgeous looking girl. Who will be treasured by somone equally gorgeous and good looking ..just have faith!

i change my mind it's 1..100 billion dollars

that's cold how could you treat Lois Lane like this?

it was joke anywho you already got video

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