Sex acts that you don't understand the appeal of

Seeing as how some men find Sharon Stone quite hot in Basic Instinct because of her psycho killer attitude, I would guess that the prospect of possibly dying during the act of sex is not something men (and possibly women) would find that repulsive. It gives them an adreline rush and tinglement of excitement to go with the lovemaking/sex I guess.

I would imagine it could be the dream way to die for a lot of people.

No disrespect, but I think you two women are getting it a little twisted. I get why some people like rough sex. I actually had a acquaintance of mine telling me of some of the freaky shit some of his sexual partners are into, like being interrogated, or getting kidnapped. As far as that Basic Instinct movie goes, I'm sure the guy who got killed in the beginning of the movie didn't enjoy the part when he got STABBED TO DEATH!!!

As far as dying while having sex, I think most people would like to die via orgasm, instead of choking to death or being killed by your partner.

There is a large difference between dying and the THRILL of the PROSPECT of POSSIBLY dying. In the former case it's actually happening, in the latter it's only a slight possibility.

For the basic instinct example I was referring to the one who was investigating the case of Sharon Stone when he had sex with her.

Personally, I'm also not into these roleplaying and enstrangelment forms of intercourse, but if people like it, I can partly see the reason why. And if they're both adults and consenting to it, they should have the right to perform their (in your eyes) strange sexual desires.

Point taken. As far as the auto-erotic asphyxiation thing goes, I was referring to the people who do it to themselves and die, like David Carradine. It is also dangerous to do it with a partner, too. but at least if you do it with a partner chances are you won't die accidentally, plus u can use safe words and things like that. Also, what does in YOUR EYES supposed to mean?! Obviously u find some sexual desires strange too, or you wouldn't have posted in this thread. I have no problem with people trying to liven up their sex life, even if it is role-playing. I guess it all depends on the roles your wanna play.

they do it for the same reason of why some people drink alcohol or take drugs although they can fallen in the coma or make an overdose. you know, people can't be aware all the time and sometimes we just need to don't give a f*ck, forgotten our responsibilities and try new stuff and new feelings. experiences and evolution include "mistakes". and for some people, live the life of a perfect ecologist mormon often means be already dead.

I get what you're saying, but I don't get the "mormon" part. Also, I previously said that I understand why some people like to try different things to liven up their sex life. And as far as drinking alcohol and taken drugs, I get that, too. I been known to have a drink once in a while, and a few times I have blacked out. No DUI's, though However, everybody has limits about how far they will go. I have never done any of the hard drugs. Weed and mushrooms, that's it. Never heard of people OD or dying from those things. Not to mention, I despise Mormons. They are a racist organization.

jesusmariejoseph!

i explained the reason of what some people do it and you also could sniffed popper that my answer should be the same. and as you can see people don't need to watch basic instinct to make "dangerous" things. as i said, people can't all the time be aware. some people have sex without condoms, drive fast cars, take drugs, buy guns, are obese, wanna repair something without understand what they do or pratice extreme sports. we can't live in a bubble and the fact is, it's often easier to see other people's defects than our own defects. understand everyone had different needs, differents values and differents limits.

by the way i didn't talk about racism or personnal opinion but about a lifestyle and i thought it was clear. it means, no alcohol, no drugs, no cigarette, no party, no sex before the mariage, no threesome and church all the sunday morning. Amen.

OH, another sex act I don't get is shemale sex/porn...

shemale is my speciality!

what you don't understand ?

so first some people prefer to keep their sex because of the feelings. when you have an operation to change your sex thinsg get often "flat". they wanna change their identity but in same time wanna keep their pleasure.

after some people are attract by them because when you meet a shemale you easily understand this person is not really fine with himself and sometimes flaws can be attractive because, particularly then they are "hidden" they can reflect a kind of intimity and you directly feel closer to this person.

sometimes people are so lost than they need "worst" than them. doesn't mean all the shemales don't know where they go, but that's the first impression and take care of someone with troubles can be a goal and be revalued. by the way, shemale always try to look like women and they often fail that's right, but because of the fact that sometimes they try to hide they own nature and you could know their "secret" that's something who could make you powerful. it's a kind of mental control as because of their difference they are always "weak" and this is particularly important for sex where the visual is the most important. people must directly see/understand it. as quickly as a pulsion.

and they are also the bisexual/straight people who prefer to be with a shemale because this is not a male...

you know usually the most successful lesbians are often the tomboys because even if they are girls their partners have the feeling they dated with a boy! like the behavior or the apparences were more important than the body (but lesbian tomboys have often a small breast or hide it). they are the "opposite sex" and in same they understand you but this it's not really about porn...

of course it doesn't means every people who enjoy shemale porn are like this but in my opinion this is a generality.

jesusmariejoseph!

i explained the reason of what some people do it and you also could sniffed popper that my answer should be the same. and as you can see people don't need to watch basic instinct to make "dangerous" things. as i said, people can't all the time be aware. some people have sex without condoms, drive fast cars, take drugs, buy guns, are obese, wanna repair something without understand what they do or pratice extreme sports. we can't live in a bubble and the fact is, it's often easier to see other people's defects than our own defects. understand everyone had different needs, differents values and differents limits.

by the way i didn't talk about racism or personnal opinion but about a lifestyle and i thought it was clear. it means, no alcohol, no drugs, no cigarette, no party, no sex before the mariage, no threesome and church all the sunday morning. Amen.

Ok. Like I said, I get it what you're saying. I know people don't need to watch basic instinct to make "dangerous" things. I just used that as an example. Remember, I mentioned David Carradine, among other things. And you're right, people can't always be aware. Some things just happen in the heat of the moment. Driving fast cars, hey, Nascar is a organized sporting event. I have done drugs, but only the ones I mentioned before. I had to chance to do the harder ones, even had friends offer to buy them for me, but I declined, as everybody has their own limits. Some people collect guns as a hobby. I used to collect baseball cards. Being obese, that's more of a tricky one. Some have eating disorders, others has another medical condition, some people indulge themselves. People can be addicted to anything, not only drugs. Food, caffeine, and since you mentioned extreme sports, some people can be addicted to adrenaline as well. Some people wanna fix things to prove something to themselves, or don't wanna spend the money to get a professional to do it. However, some people make a living repairing certain things. Some of those things are dangerous, and most people who perform those dangerous tasks take precautions to keep themselves safe. I don't wanna live in a bubble, and most people don't want to. We should have the right to do whatever we want, as long it's not hurting anybody else. And yes we often criticize others then we do to ourselves. Everybody has different needs, values, and limits, but we need to learn how to do all those things in moderation in order to be fair to everything around us and not to be slaves to our desires, wants, and needs.

No, you didn't mention racism or personal opinion. However, you could have used a better example then the Mormons. Every other organized religion tends to believe in not partaking in alcohol, drugs, partying, sex before marriage, having sexual relations with another person other than your spouse, and going to church every sunday. Instead, you used a group of people who didn't allow black people equal membership status until 1978, baptizes dead people such as Adolf Hitler and Joseph Stalin, among other things.

catholics are ok with alcohol and partying

scatology dont get it :|

even bestiality seems fun compares to scatology :|

scatology dont get it :|

even bestiality seems fun compares to scatology :|

I'm with you on this one sweetie. It's just so.. :x

scatology dont get it :|

even bestiality seems fun compares to scatology :|

I'm with you on this one sweetie. It's just so.. :x

I agree. :x I know some people are into some freaky stuff, but I have no idea how sex with an animal or how human waste can be sexy. Pedophilia is also something I will never understand. That is so sick and wrong, people who engage in that are Pariahs, even inside the PRISON SYSTEM. However, I know this does not apply to all sex offenders. All sex offenders, once they get released, have to register as such, but not all are pedophiles. In some states, a 18 year old who engages with sex with a 17 year old can be considered a sex offender. Plus some people lie about their age.

I knew a buddy that went to jail for stealing a car. It was his 1st offense, so it was no biggie. While inside, he met a guy who broke up with his girlfriend when he found out she was underage. Because of that, she called the authorities on him and had him charged with Statutory rape. She agreed to drop the charges if he got back with her. He refused. He just wanted to get it over with and move on with his life.

Pedophilia is sexual deviance as well as bestiality. Now I will certainly have more indulgence for a guy or a woman doing a pig or a donkey than for a pedophile. But None of them is a normal thing.

But if some dude wants want to have shit on him while is having sex it's not against the law. It's disgusting and not normal (from my point of view) but he is hurting anyone. But i really don't get the appeal.

So don't try to understand pedophilia unless you are a doctor or a shrink because it's impossible to understand a deviance. Our brains is not working like theirs.

OH, another sex act I don't get is shemale sex/porn...

Great for someone who is bisexual. Best of both worlds.

Pedophilia is sexual deviance as well as bestiality. Now I will certainly have more indulgence for a guy or a woman doing a pig or a donkey than for a pedophile. But None of them is a normal thing.

But if some dude wants want to have shit on him while is having sex it's not against the law. It's disgusting and not normal (from my point of view) but he is hurting anyone. But i really don't get the appeal.

So don't try to understand pedophilia unless you are a doctor or a shrink because it's impossible to understand a deviance. Our brains is not working like theirs.

Most acts sexual or not are all about psychology and to understand why someone would do one thing and another not, is about the individual, environment and how they were raised. A question would be to you.. what marriots pedaphilia?

there are still countries where its legal to marry once a female is a woman, which makes it legal to marry a female as young as 9, and it does not matter the age of the male. i would think Pedaphilia.

I knew a buddy that went to jail for stealing a car. It was his 1st offense, so it was no biggie. While inside, he met a guy who broke up with his girlfriend when he found out she was underage. Because of that, she called the authorities on him and had him charged with Statutory rape. She agreed to drop the charges if he got back with her. He refused. He just wanted to get it over with and move on with his life.

Well in this case I have to agree with his girlfriend. Seemingly prior to knowing her age he was OKE with being in a relationship with her and sleeping around with her be it for her personality or/and her looks which he liked. And then, without any other reason except her age....he decides to break up with her. If it was such "a big issue" for him he should have notified himself of it before he started fucking her and getting into a relationship with her. If he instead did not do any such thing and just went along with it, he should have been man enough to accept she might have been younger.

In the case the guy really loved the girl, the issue forthcoming of age, shouldn't have been enough on itself to break up.

That the girl tried to get him on his childish self-defensive behaviour on learning her age is only her right to do so.

catholics are ok with alcohol and partying

chinese whispers... i said mormon, no catholics... and no, mormons aren't agree with alcohol and when i said party i didn't talk about spend the night near to a camp fire, eating marshamallows and playing Kumbaya with a guitar.

dub, mormon is the first name i thought and that's why i used them as example. i absolutely didn't think about racism when i talked about them. and this is not because you needed to made a speech about racism than my example was bad. by the way, all the religion don't tend to these things. example : the realian movement

girls, pedophilia this is a complex thing and i think people use this word for nothing and everything in same time. for the girl of 13 or 14 years old who's agree to have sex with her boyfriend of 18 years old and who could lie about her age and look older, and the kid of 7 year old who's rapped in car.

when i was 13 years old i seem to be 18 years old and all the time there were guys of 20/25 around me and who wanted to date with me.

and i think it was very unhealty. worst when we know that some of them were friends with my parents and my mother told me "oh, this boy is so nice, you should date with him" and i was just 13 years old and the guy was 23. they all knew my age but i was more mature than the other girls, and they always saw me with older people, i was all the weekend in nightclubs, i drunk alcohol, i smoked (i little) and i already had sex (but they didn't know about it) anyway, i never dated with these guys. i loved older boys but no so old...

and i think because of it, they knew i was 13 but their brain didn't accepted it and i think this guys weren't very mature... and they were certainly superficial because i was mature for a girl of my age but i was 16 instead of 13 but i wasn't 23 years old in my head. sometimes guys just don't give a fuck about the girl they date. if they love the girl's face or body that's enought and they don't think about the rest.

after about kids who are raped i more or less already talked about it when i talked about sex addiction because i said the real sex addict were the rapists and not a poligamists people. this is more or less the same things with kids but here is more powerful because you can be sure that a kid of 7 years old can't appreciate a penetration or a blowjob and they can't "escape". they are so weak that the control the rapist can have is absolutely enormous. as i said about drugs, alcohol or eating disorders they are addiction who help you to "control" your mind or your body and sex addiction/rape is a way to control other people, dominate them.

after i think it also depends of the kid looks, behavior. just an example, maybe that's stupid to think that but when i saw Suri Cruise , who's a lovely kid, she's a doll but who's not dressed like a kid, for me sometimes i have the vision of a little lolita and i think she must the the fantasm of pedophilians. because she's as weak as a kid and in same thing she can be as seductive as a woman a bit like kristen dunst in interview with a vampire. like a woman trapped in a kid body and i think her look can break this mental limite and "justify" the rape in the rapist's head.

and i think i would like to talk about something else but i've forgotten.

yes, i remember. yes what azgirl say is totally right. environment, childhood can be an important factor. just watch pedro alonzo lopez. in a couple of years he had killed near of 300 litles girls (between 7 and 12 years old if i'm not wrong) and in fact, this is just my opinion, but this guy was more a victim created by rotten laws than someone bad. his mother was a prostitute and when he was kid, 10 years old if i'm not wrong (or maybe it was 8 ?) his mother saw him touched his big sister's breast. result she expelled him from their home and he got homeless. he has been raped many times and had an horrible life. so "of course" he killed, tortured and raped little girls because they all were like his sister. his sister was the key of all his misery, of all the horrible things he lived and the laws, justice made nothing to help him. so this kind of past, maybe no so tragic, but anyway, violent childhood can explain pedophilia.

Why are we even talking about pedophilia? It's really complex subject and i really don't think it has something to do with the thread?

It is sex act you don't understand the appeal of not the sex crime you don't understand the appeal of.

what azgirl say is totally right. environment, childhood can be an important factor

I totally agree BUT this is not a thread to debate about what leads a man to rape and/or kill children? I feel bad for any child that was molested in his life but i feel no pity for that same child who became a man and start to redo what happened to him.

I did not talk about how a man could become a monster (Because of his childhood, how he was raised etc) at first because I wanted to end the discussion. Not the thread for this.

Why are we even talking about pedophilia? It's really complex subject and i really don't think it has something to do with the thread?

It is sex act you don't understand the appeal of not the sex crime you don't understand the appeal of.

what azgirl say is totally right. environment, childhood can be an important factor

I totally agree BUT this is not a thread to debate about what leads a man to rape and/or kill children? I feel bad for any child that was molested in his life but i feel no pity for that same child who became a man and start to redo what happened to him.

I did not talk about how a man could become a monster (Because of his childhood, how he was raised etc) at first because I wanted to end the discussion. Not the thread for this.

agreed, and definitely getting off topic, so thank you kiki for trying to get it back on the right path.

I knew a buddy that went to jail for stealing a car. It was his 1st offense, so it was no biggie. While inside, he met a guy who broke up with his girlfriend when he found out she was underage. Because of that, she called the authorities on him and had him charged with Statutory rape. She agreed to drop the charges if he got back with her. He refused. He just wanted to get it over with and move on with his life.

Well in this case I have to agree with his girlfriend. Seemingly prior to knowing her age he was OKE with being in a relationship with her and sleeping around with her be it for her personality or/and her looks which he liked. And then, without any other reason except her age....he decides to break up with her. If it was such "a big issue" for him he should have notified himself of it before he started fucking her and getting into a relationship with her. If he instead did not do any such thing and just went along with it, he should have been man enough to accept she might have been younger.

In the case the guy really loved the girl, the issue forthcoming of age, shouldn't have been enough on itself to break up.

That the girl tried to get him on his childish self-defensive behaviour on learning her age is only her right to do so.

And I have to disagree. He should have "notified himself on it?" People lie all the time for various reasons, and it is wrong to mislead a person regardless of what the situation is. It seems like she was the childish one to me. She tried to trap him in a relationship with her by putting him in jail on a statutory rape charge once he found out she was not of the age of consent, then tried to blackmail him into staying with her by agreeing to drop the charges.

Can we PLEASE move on from pedophilia?! this thread is REALLY depressing me now

I don't understand the appeal of talking about pedophilia on this thread.

Hope you last two aren't referring to my last post, as it had nothing to do with that topic. Statutory rape and pedophilia are two totally different. Granted, I did bring the topic up, said what I had to say about it, and that was that. I agree that we should get back on track and talk about sex acts that we don't understand the appeal of between consenting adults.