How old were you when you first had sex?

I can't really say much about my first time... except that I did a bit better than I thought I would. I'm just a natural I guesss... It just happened... Actually, you guys who still have your V-cards. I kinda wish I still had mine. Then I could wait until I get married like a good protestant boy should. Seriously though, even if it is just your first time and even if it is probably gonna be clumbsy, mechanical, and awkward, it's still worthwhile to save it for someone special.

Ew. that sounded so flaky.

Are you being serious there toobs, you would've rather waited? Coming from toobs that says something

^ he wanted to wait for me. I feel so touched but seriously I can understand what toobs is saying. Its better to wait for the right person.

Ahhh, i like those dreams....

But no pint in rushing it dude

Definitely Irish.

^lol

anyways i could get laid if i wanted to, a somewhat attractive lady friend pretty much offered to be f*ckbuddies a while back, I'm in no rush though, people's lives are dominated by sex & money, and im trying to avoid that happening to me I've never been interested in f#cking, making love seems interesting though .. yeah I'll 'save myself' for somebody special

Ahhh, i like those dreams....

But no pint in rushing it dude

Definitely Irish.

The power of the subconscious, eh..

^lol

anyways i could get laid if i wanted to, a somewhat attractive lady friend pretty much offered to be f*ckbuddies a while back, I'm in no rush though, people's lives are dominated by sex & money, and im trying to avoid that happening to me I've never been interested in f#cking, making love seems interesting though .. yeah I'll 'save myself' for somebody special

Nice to know

^ he wanted to wait for me. I feel so touched but seriously I can understand what toobs is saying. Its better to wait for the right person.

Exactally! We could have been each other's first and been like "Toobs, is it in yet?" and "No, I'm so scared I might hurt you" and "No, it's okay. I trust you" and then I could kiss you ever so gently on the lips and hold your hand as I slowly [CENSORED].

^ he wanted to wait for me. I feel so touched but seriously I can understand what toobs is saying. Its better to wait for the right person.

Exactally! We could have been each other's first and been like "Toobs, is it in yet?" and "No, I'm so scared I might hurt you" and "No, it's okay. I trust you" and then I could kiss you ever so gently on the lips and hold your hand as I slowly [CENSORED].

You've played this over in your head a few times haven't you toobs?

A few times? more like a 1000 times.

I dunno. That was the first time... but each time that I look at you is like the first time. Each time I log on, the thrill is new. There's nothing I wouldn't do for the rare delight of the sight of you...

I know it was not mentioned but does anyones first time turn out very pleasureable or the way they expect?

AND

Don't knock being a 40 year old virgin. If you are happy in life that is all that matters. I know some pretty old virgins (even a 40 plus year old) YES they are a little lonely from time to time when it comes to wanting a relataionship. But for the most part its only when they think like society tells them and think they need someone in those moments to be happy and forget that all the rest of their time is happy without those those thoughts. I hope that makes sense. I have been a little wordy to understand lately.

i was 12 years old.

my first time wasn't really great. it was strange, very "basic" but there was love and respect and i think this is very important for the first times...

i think "make love" is easier than "have wild sex".

the wild sex is more violent and you need to move, better and faster... so the wild sex can at the first times can block people and they don't fell confortable with their sexuality.

I would like to know if your virgins friends have relationships (without sex) ?

They are asexual or this is something else ? because you can be asexual and be in love in same time. you can have a “normal” relationship with another asexual or with an OpenSex lover.

I would like to know if your virgins friends have relationships (without sex) ?

They are asexual or this is something else ? because you can be asexual and be in love in same time. you can have a “normal” relationship with another asexual or with an OpenSex lover.

Well, a friend of my friend has the same bf for 2 years (now he is her fiancee), there is a 10 or 12 years (don't remember) difference between them, and they haven't had sex... they are very religious, so I guess that's why.... btw, they saw each other for the first time in church :|

I can't really say much about my first time... except that I did a bit better than I thought I would. I'm just a natural I guesss... It just happened... Actually, you guys who still have your V-cards. I kinda wish I still had mine. Then I could wait until I get married like a good protestant boy should. Seriously though, even if it is just your first time and even if it is probably gonna be clumbsy, mechanical, and awkward, it's still worthwhile to save it for someone special.

Ew. that sounded so flaky.

WOW!

I know it was not mentioned but does anyones first time turn out very pleasureable or the way they expect?

AND

Don't knock being a 40 year old virgin. If you are happy in life that is all that matters. I know some pretty old virgins (even a 40 plus year old) YES they are a little lonely from time to time when it comes to wanting a relataionship. But for the most part its only when they think like society tells them and think they need someone in those moments to be happy and forget that all the rest of their time is happy without those those thoughts. I hope that makes sense. I have been a little wordy to understand lately.

i was 12 years old.

my first time wasn't really great. it was strange, very "basic" but there was love and respect and i think this is very important for the first times...

i think "make love" is easier than "have wild sex".

the wild sex is more violent and you need to move, better and faster... so the wild sex can at the first times can block people and they don't fell confortable with their sexuality.

I would like to know if your virgins friends have relationships (without sex) ?

They are asexual or this is something else ? because you can be asexual and be in love in same time. you can have a “normal” relationship with another asexual or with an OpenSex lover.

I would like to know if your virgins friends have relationships (without sex) ?

They are asexual or this is something else ? because you can be asexual and be in love in same time. you can have a “normal” relationship with another asexual or with an OpenSex lover.

Well, a friend of my friend has the same bf for 2 years (now he is her fiancee), there is a 10 or 12 years (don't remember) difference between them, and they haven't had sex... they are very religious, so I guess that's why.... btw, they saw each other for the first time in church :|

HALLELUJAH!

I would like to know if your virgins friends have relationships (without sex) ?

They are asexual or this is something else ? because you can be asexual and be in love in same time. you can have a “normal” relationship with another asexual or with an OpenSex lover.

Well, a friend of my friend has the same bf for 2 years (now he is her fiancee), there is a 10 or 12 years (don't remember) difference between them, and they haven't had sex... they are very religious, so I guess that's why.... btw, they saw each other for the first time in church :|

ah i just saw i deleted a part of my first message XD

i talked about religion and i said in some countries "virginity" is most normal because of the religion... and because they need to waited until the marriage.

i don't know why i deleted this part XD

but wait until 40 years old or more it's just... wouah. very weird. i can understand understand religious person but the other...

i think there are 5 kinds of virgins :

1_religious persons.

2_assexuals.

3_the complexed person.

4_the “dreamer”, believe in the "real love".

5_the medicament junky, the VivaLaJunkPills.

i don't know which one i prefer XD

maybe be assexual and date with another assexual... because the virginity must be a personnal choice and won't be influenced by familly, religion, and opinion's of people around us...

i was 16 and i thought i was in love lol seriously how stupid i was

I was almost 22.

I was almost 22.

you waited that long? For some reason I thought you would have started at a much younger age.. but good for you to wait.. I think it is best to wait a lest until college.. no?

I didn't "wait" or anything... It just happened (well, it "had to" happen, it was my very first relationship). Let's say I wasn't really into dating and stuff until my uni years...