Are you in love?

love is shit !

I wouldnt fall in love anymore in my life !!!

Never love a man more than he loves you

yes thats true .... but sometimes is hard becuase we cant give orders to the heart ! ...

but im totally agree with you!!

Me too I agree

Your mind can control your heart, your heart can control your mind.

You must find the balance.

Yes .... easy to say, hard to do it !

Yes .... easy to say, hard to do it !

Love is a choice. You can choose to love not lust someone. You can choose to always love or loose love for someone. It's a choice you make your heart feel and when you don't its a choice to not find it again. I haven't chosen it recently, but I have chose in the past and chose not to love anymore when i didn't see the compatiblity anymore. I hope to find someone one day to be compatible enough to want to choose love for a life time, but for now its fun to get to know people and feel the emotions of friends for a while.

It's choice to stand by a person through everything, that is the true definition of love standing with someone through everything no matter what.

^ Pleeeease tell me you're joking with that post. No one thinks they can turn love on and off like a light switch unless they think they've felt it when they never actually have.

Have you had a long term relationship before?

^ Nope, but if you want to make the argument that people in long-term relationships can simply choose to fall in love with someone, knock yourself out. I just hope you won't try to convince anyone that you're a romantic in the process.

I am not saying that falling in and out of love is a choice. I am saying love is a choice. Its the difference between a relationship that last a year or two and one that lasts 50 years. Ask someone whose been married 50 years, its a choice to love that person no matter what. Of course unless soemones abusive or something like that. Then the compatibility isn't there.

^ Your first two sentences are contradictory. You're saying "love is a choice," and if love is a choice, you can choose to stop loving someone -- hence, you can choose to fall out of love. You seem to be talking about simply commitment. Commitment is what makes the difference between a relationship that lasts a year or one that lasts fifty, and commitment isn't the same as love.

Not really... The biggest break up for commitment is people who fall out of love. They choose not to love, falling out of love is like boredom, you will remain bored as long as you chose it. Of course there can be issues of abuse and addition and really negative things like that ,but mostly its falling out of love.

A relationship has a honeymoon, a moment of contiplation and the long hall. Going through all of the stages is the difference between lusting your partner, caring for them and really loving someone.

Not really... The biggest break up for commitment is people who fall out of love. They choose not to love

Love for a month..

Wouldn't that be lust, the most mistaken emotion for love.

^ Only morons mistake lust for love. And love doesn't need a time-frame. Whether it lasts a month or a lifetime doesn't change what it is.

It does if you are talking love of flesh or love of the soul?

Physical love or IN love (Soulful love).

Not getting it are you, men are usually physical creatures.... Your not getting it yet are you?

And is anyone else done with this debate. Opinions are opinions some will never know what it means to be in love.

^ Don't worry, I'm entirely getting the ridiculous point you're trying to make.

Tell me when you finally commit how rediculous it is in let's say 10 years.

And if you haven't noticed I like debates