Bleeding after loosing virginity

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Ok now, here's the thing:

first of all I never heard of this because none of my friends apparenlty had this thing. But I've been having like light bleeding (light bleeding as in a daily ped is doing the thing alright) and today is the third day... today it seems to be less though.

I've been reading a lot in internet since this and apparently it seems to be normal at least for a lot of girls (depends on the person). But then I stumble into those posts that freak you out and tell you to go to doctor immediately or something.

I was just wondering if anyone else had this kind of experiance here and if yes if they could really tell in details everything about this kind of bleeding.

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Genta Haven't seen you on BZ since forever and then you back with this

Can't answer u since... hm

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dont worry its totally natural!u may bleed a week or less ,its different with every girl.

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I bleed for like a week after I lost mine. But for like 3 years, after having sex I would bleed for a few days. My doc said it wasn't common but it does happen

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^you naughty!

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I know!!

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Thank you guys very miuch for the replies...actually I was reading that everywhere in internet that it's normal and everything, but today in the morning when I wake up I literally freaked out because there was so much...I didn't even eat or even go to school I came straight to internet and started searching deeper...then I calmed down a little bit and opened this and went to my room...and slept for the rest of the day. and when I woke up like an hour before it was much much much less, like maybe seventh day of period like a light brown color.

I really hope it passed, but I'm not that worried anymore. Actually I wasn't these past few days ago neither, except this morning when I was really scared because I went to sleep last night with the thought that it would pass.

Again, thank you very very very much for the replies

Genta Haven't seen you on BZ since forever and then you back with this

Can't answer u since... hm

I'm sorry Edith, but what can I say.. it was unplanned for me to find in this strange universe someone that actually hase the same freaky mind like me hahahaha and that I'd start to love him...

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I bleed for like a week after I lost mine. But for like 3 years, after having sex I would bleed for a few days. My doc said it wasn't common but it does happen

welcome to the club. you're not sure it wasn't your uterus ? i lost my virginity there are 12 years old and i still lost blood. 2/5 of time after when i have sex i bleed after 1 or 2 minutes (or sometimes just 30s) and my boyfriends' penis are cover of blood so we must stop or i could make a bleeding. fortunately it often stops few minutes after sex. it hurts a little but that's ok. just need to be careful but my vagina is a bit strange. when i was 13/14 years old i had my mentruations during something like a whole year and contraceptive pills changed nothing. i made bleedings all the time and when i felt the bed after few seconds the floor of my bedroom was covered of blood, so i was obligated to stay at home and stopped school.

are you hemophiliac ? because i am.

lady, now girls are more and more turned toward masturbation. i mean, girls often use sex toys even before to have sex. that's why now girls' hymen are "often" torn before their first time.

anyway, just be careful, avoid sex during few days because "wounds" faciliate sexual diseases development. after few days everything should be ok.

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Thank you guys very miuch for the replies...actually I was reading that everywhere in internet that it's normal and everything, but today in the morning when I wake up I literally freaked out because there was so much...I didn't even eat or even go to school I came straight to internet and started searching deeper...then I calmed down a little bit and opened this and went to my room...and slept for the rest of the day. and when I woke up like an hour before it was much much much less, like maybe seventh day of period like a light brown color.

I really hope it passed, but I'm not that worried anymore. Actually I wasn't these past few days ago neither, except this morning when I was really scared because I went to sleep last night with the thought that it would pass.

Again, thank you very very very much for the replies

Genta Haven't seen you on BZ since forever and then you back with this

Can't answer u since... hm

I'm sorry Edith, but what can I say.. it was unplanned for me to find in this strange universe someone that actually hase the same freaky mind like me hahahaha and that I'd start to love him...

I'm so happy for u to see someone make u really smile again

And that guy is so lucky :trout:

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I bleed for like a week after I lost mine. But for like 3 years, after having sex I would bleed for a few days. My doc said it wasn't common but it does happen

welcome to the club. you're not sure it wasn't your uterus ? i lost my virginity there are 12 years old and i still lost blood. 2/5 of time after when i have sex i bleed after 1 or 2 minutes (or sometimes just 30s) and my boyfriends' penis are cover of blood so we must stop or i could make a bleeding. fortunately it often stops few minutes after sex. it hurts a little but that's ok. just need to be careful but my vagina is a bit strange. when i was 13/14 years old i had my mentruations during something like a whole year and contraceptive pills changed nothing. i made bleedings all the time and when i felt the bed after few seconds the floor of my bedroom was covered of blood, so i was obligated to stay at home and stopped school.

are you hemophiliac ? because i am.

lady, now girls are more and more turned toward masturbation. i mean, girls often use sex toys even before to have sex. that's why now girls' hymen are "often" torn before their first time.

anyway, just be careful, avoid sex during few days because "wounds" faciliate sexual diseases development. after few days everything should be ok.

Good point baby

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Thank you guys very miuch for the replies...actually I was reading that everywhere in internet that it's normal and everything, but today in the morning when I wake up I literally freaked out because there was so much...I didn't even eat or even go to school I came straight to internet and started searching deeper...then I calmed down a little bit and opened this and went to my room...and slept for the rest of the day. and when I woke up like an hour before it was much much much less, like maybe seventh day of period like a light brown color.

I really hope it passed, but I'm not that worried anymore. Actually I wasn't these past few days ago neither, except this morning when I was really scared because I went to sleep last night with the thought that it would pass.

Again, thank you very very very much for the replies

Genta Haven't seen you on BZ since forever and then you back with this

Can't answer u since... hm

I'm sorry Edith, but what can I say.. it was unplanned for me to find in this strange universe someone that actually hase the same freaky mind like me hahahaha and that I'd start to love him...

I'm so happy for u to see someone make u really smile again

And that guy is so lucky :trout:

yeah I'm happy too and believe me I\m much more lucky

I bleed for like a week after I lost mine. But for like 3 years, after having sex I would bleed for a few days. My doc said it wasn't common but it does happen

welcome to the club. you're not sure it wasn't your uterus ? i lost my virginity there are 12 years old and i still lost blood. 2/5 of time after when i have sex i bleed after 1 or 2 minutes (or sometimes just 30s) and my boyfriends' penis are cover of blood so we must stop or i could make a bleeding. fortunately it often stops few minutes after sex. it hurts a little but that's ok. just need to be careful but my vagina is a bit strange. when i was 13/14 years old i had my mentruations during something like a whole year and contraceptive pills changed nothing. i made bleedings all the time and when i felt the bed after few seconds the floor of my bedroom was covered of blood, so i was obligated to stay at home and stopped school.

are you hemophiliac ? because i am.

lady, now girls are more and more turned toward masturbation. i mean, girls often use sex toys even before to have sex. that's why now girls' hymen are "often" torn before their first time.

anyway, just be careful, avoid sex during few days because "wounds" faciliate sexual diseases development. after few days everything should be ok.

Good point baby

Actually somewhere I read in internet that one women's bleeding lasted like until the second time she and he bf had sex and after that everything stopped and seemed normal. But that seemed to me very strange and not really solution of my problem(though actually it isn't any problem). So it obviously depends on a women's body in the end.

Anyway, we wouldn't do anything again before at least a week passes We thought it was better too, untli everything with me is normal again..But I also read in a lot of places that second time hurts too? I really hope not because that first night I wanted to get it over with everything, so he penetrated all the way.

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yes, this is absolutely normal. i forgotten to say that now, people use condoms, so boys penis are often more lubricated and i think that's why now hymen problems get less important.

anyway, it can be painful if your hymen has not correctly been torn, i mean your hole is not completely open. you should buy vaseline or lubricant with water. it could be helpful but if your hymen must be tear it won't stop the pain.

by the way it also depends of your boyfriend. if he f*ck like super mario and has a big penis it's can be really worst and painful. when i was 19 years old i had barbarian sex with a guy who has a very big penis and this idiot had totally torn my commissure. during 2 weeks i walked like lucky luke and i've been obligated to pee like a boy because urine hurted my wound. so be careful and don't make the same. maybe you should check if it's just your hymen or whole package who have been torn.

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^ That was a really bad exp for u baby, but sorry I couldn't stop laughing on "Super mario" thingy XD

@Gen, tell me more about that when we get to chat next time

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Hahahah I will

Baby that must have been really painful, I just can imagine it

Today when I woke up there was again a little bit more blood then I got use to two last days, so I started worrying again...but then later it stopped again.

I feel like I'm having period for like 2 weeks now, because we waited untli I ended my period to sleep, and then after that I have again bleeding...great...

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When was your last period?

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I got my period on 23.05 and we had sex on 28.05, so after 5 days and immediately after period when it was totaly finished, and chances to get pregnant are the least(although we wouldn't do anything without condom, of course)...why?

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If you're so worried, why not go to the doctor? It's better to be safe than sorry. You can research on the internet and everything, but you cant really diagnose yourself. Better to ask a professional. Just my opinion. I know if that happened to me, I'd go to the doctor ASAP. Anyway, hope you feel better.

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I got my period on 23.05 and we had sex on 28.05, so after 5 days and immediately after period when it was totaly finished, and chances to get pregnant are the least(although we wouldn't do anything without condom, of course)...why?

I heard that it would be better to have sex at least 7 days after the last day of your period

And agree with NYBella, if the problem is still unresolved, go to the doctor

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I got my period on 23.05 and we had sex on 28.05, so after 5 days and immediately after period when it was totaly finished, and chances to get pregnant are the least(although we wouldn't do anything without condom, of course)...why?

I heard that it would be better to have sex at least 7 days after the last day of your period

And agree with NYBella, if the problem is still unresolved, go to the doctor

Really? 7 days? I usually just get intimate with my boyfriend as soon as my period finishes, plus being on the pill the cycle is a lot more predictable.

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I got my period on 23.05 and we had sex on 28.05, so after 5 days and immediately after period when it was totaly finished, and chances to get pregnant are the least(although we wouldn't do anything without condom, of course)...why?

I heard that it would be better to have sex at least 7 days after the last day of your period

And agree with NYBella, if the problem is still unresolved, go to the doctor

UUUMMMM.. are you trying to increase the risk to be pregnant? beginning 7 days after your period is best for that...

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