Bleeding after loosing virginity

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#21
I got my period on 23.05 and we had sex on 28.05, so after 5 days and immediately after period when it was totaly finished, and chances to get pregnant are the least(although we wouldn't do anything without condom, of course)...why?

I heard that it would be better to have sex at least 7 days after the last day of your period

And agree with NYBella, if the problem is still unresolved, go to the doctor

UUUMMMM.. are you trying to increase the risk to be pregnant? beginning 7 days after your period is best for that...

Having sex just after your period in the first 7 days? Or continually having sex for 7 days after your period? Lol, I'm lost. But I do think that having sex after your period in the first 7 days is safer, as you wouldn't have ovulated yet.

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#22

Me too, I don't get your point?

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#23
Me too, I don't get your point?

I think what az meant is that the week after your period marks the days which give you the biggest chance/risk of getting pregnant

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#24

Ya, that's why I said "after" that 7-days to have sex would be safer

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#25

Bleeding when losing virginity ?? Are we really going to be bothering about it ?? Depends on the person itself if they will, so girls who are not virgins could still bleed and virgins could also have their first time without bleeding. It says nothing !

Furthermore....bleeding or not should not be the issues people should be dealing with when having their first time. Questions such as "are you sure you want this ? Are you ready ?? Will you not later regret it ??" are much more important

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#26

^well not all of the people are "enlightened" like you, so thats why the girl came here to ask for some help,for already DONE things,not to be asked stupid questions,which doesnt really help anyone <_<

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#27

The best time to get pregnant is half time between your menstrual cycles during ovulation. if you wait 7 days after your menstual cycle you are closer to the time in whihc you can have get pregnant. Safest time to have unprotected sex is a few days before, a few days after or during menstrating but .. well.. not everyone is a vampires so during isnt popular.

A day or two after cycle should not cause more than minor bleeding if any.

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#28

^ I see

Btw, I know a lot vampires who love sex during menstruation lol

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Bleeding when losing virginity ?? Are we really going to be bothering about it ?? Depends on the person itself if they will, so girls who are not virgins could still bleed and virgins could also have their first time without bleeding. It says nothing !

Furthermore....bleeding or not should not be the issues people should be dealing with when having their first time. Questions such as "are you sure you want this ? Are you ready ?? Will you not later regret it ??" are much more important

Yes, because that's the reason midnight lady started this thread.

And if you've read her posts in this thread, you'd see she made the decision she doesn't regret.

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#30

likka and Layla - I meant in general with regards to myhts and stuff related to bleeding after losing virginity. I wasn't aware we ALL had to focus on the story of the topic starter. That had already been responded to in excess. Other girls who might be facing this situation PRIOR to having engaged in sex itself would find YOUR type of advice, which is only usefull for this one particular girl, on their part, to be quite useless.

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likka and Layla - I meant in general with regards to myhts and stuff related to bleeding after losing virginity. I wasn't aware we ALL had to focus on the story of the topic starter. That had already been responded to in excess. Other girls who might be facing this situation PRIOR to having engaged in sex itself would find YOUR type of advice, which is only usefull for this one particular girl, on their part, to be quite useless.

WTF.... The name of the topic is "bleeding after losing virginity". Why come here and point out how what they talk about is in no way helpful to the girls who are virgins and are bleeding on daily basis without intercourse. Or bring up whether you are ready or you regret it. Or if premarital sex is a sin or not. That's not what the thread is about.

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#32
Bleeding when losing virginity ?? Are we really going to be bothering about it ?? Depends on the person itself if they will, so girls who are not virgins could still bleed and virgins could also have their first time without bleeding. It says nothing !

Furthermore....bleeding or not should not be the issues people should be dealing with when having their first time. Questions such as "are you sure you want this ? Are you ready ?? Will you not later regret it ??" are much more important

+ of what Russebl said, if i'm not wrong there are already many topics about these things and as i said yes sometimes girls don't bleed because masturbation become more and more "popular" and this is not because they don't bleed when they have sex with their partner that they never bleed...

and yes this is important to talk about it. there are few month ago we had talked about vaginimus and lost virginity can created a vaginismus because if the girl didn't know about the hymen, she can be shocked because of the pain and then scared and make a mental blocking. so maybe it could be good to inform her this is something absolutely natural and with time sex can be better.

there is a topic called "your first time" : http://www.bellazon.com/main/index.php?showtopic=11480

"What are your thoughts on Virgins that want to wait till marrige" : http://www.bellazon.com/main/index.php?showtopic=10658

"How old were you when you first had sex?" : http://www.bellazon.com/main/index.php?showtopic=22918

there is also a thread about "How did you learn about sex ?!!" : http://www.bellazon.com/main/index.php?showtopic=17513

and even one about "your first KISS" : http://www.bellazon.com/main/index.php?showtopic=18837

so i think with all this nobody waited you to talk about ""are you sure you want this ? Are you ready ?? Will you not later regret it ??" "

i have nothing against the fact to talk about something else. a forum is not a school and a thread is not an homework and always follow the subject sometimes can be frustrating. it's like you were at the supermarket, you met someone you know at the grocery store and you were obligated to only talk about fruits or vegetables but talks about only other things is not respectuous and here it's more a spam than a conversation. just don't be so aggresive because she asked questions and if you wanna speak about all the questions you talked about, just go on the right threads.

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#33

^exactly the point :" if you wanna speak about all the questions you talked about, just go on the right threads."

its like your history teacher wants u to discuss the roman empire,but u begin with the egyptians...

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#34
^exactly the point :" if you wanna speak about all the questions you talked about, just go on the right threads."

its like your history teacher wants u to discuss the roman empire,but u begin with the egyptians...

Out of fear of sounding like an uppity cunt.....history always DOES need to be seen in perspective. So the roman empire did have certain links with the egyptian empire.

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#35

and your off topic again ....

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#36
and your off topic again ....

As is that response of yours <_<

We both know that this thread was dead already prior to this whole argument thing

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#37

^^^^ any topic can be kept alive as long as there are people who are creative enough to post.

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