Anal Sex

My wife doesn't like it, we tried it a few times but she just did not enjoy it.

20 hours ago, AnatasiaSteele82 said:

What age is ideal for anal sex for you?

18+  

7 minutes ago, AnatasiaSteele82 said:

There are a lot of types of anal sex, I think gays know more than me but It is not only anal penetration after a lot of wine and/ or another drugs.

 

And some people care about sizes.

Size does matter. :D

On 29‏/7‏/2011 at 19:04, frenchkiki said:

How are you guys? Are you old? 

I love gentle, friendly, soapy fingers in the shower.  Just a little way in.  Giving and getting.  Best: embracing with deep mouth kissing while gently fingering each other.  The shower is great because soap is a natural lube and cleans it.

Anal play is wild because it's one place where men and women are exactly the same as each other.

Tried anal intercourse once but we didn't have enough lube and had to give up. 

On 1/11/2024 at 6:47 PM, justwastingtime said:

I love gentle, friendly, soapy fingers in the shower.  Just a little way in.  Giving and getting.  Best: embracing with deep mouth kissing while gently fingering each other.  The shower is great because soap is a natural lube and cleans it.

 

Anal play is wild because it's one place where men and women are exactly the same as each other.

 

Tried anal intercourse once but we didn't have enough lube and had to give up. 

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hmmm... lost my virginity some 45 years ago now, and in all that time, i've just never grown tired of the vagina.

Lol i tried it several times... I have a hard time reading this thread though... When i return to the first pages i read comments of girls being raped so to say. When you have sex with a girl for the first time it's not normal to penetrate her anally without her knowing or having her consent. This is borderline rape and it's sad that some girls have to deal with such mentally ill perverts that only think about themselves. Also a bit of the fault of the girl as well, if she dates type of guys that are short minded, and isn't aware of their intellectual shortcomings... It's really pathetic to be honest, and at the same time i can't blame anyone lol.

But to continue with my experience, the first time was a miss. I tried it with a girl, she was too tight, had no lube, didn't work out. She liked a finger around her asshole and in it when we made love though i could tell that's why i eventually tried to go all in but it didn't work out. She was too tight and i was too big. Second time i tried it with another girl, before getting first acquainted with her. We had plenty of sexual intercourse with each other but no anal. After a certain time i wanted to try her asshole, so i decided to try it with plenty of lube, and to be honest anal in doggy position was meh compared to vaginal, but anal in cowgirl and missionary position is omg...

I fucked my brains out and literally got addicted to her asshole in no time. Every time we started fucking i had to finish with her asshole. Until she started to complain after 5 times that she started to feel hurt when she walked or sat down the day after. It started to feel a bit humiliating for her as well, she felt degraded, and dirty. Although i tried to talk into her that anal sex is nothing to be disgusted about she told me she prefers not to do it anymore and repeated that my penis was too big and it hurts... So i was kinda bummed as a reaction because i found something that i enjoyed the most which she couldn't handle anymore.

So i let it rest for some time and only did vaginal but quickly it started to become boring because i had to adapt and it was less intense. After a while i tried it again with her, with her consent of course, she let me because she loved me, and i was needy for it... But it didn't feel the same anymore... I guess because of the argument we had about it... I suddenly started to feel disgusted as well for loving to be in her asshole so much, yet at the same time, it felt so good...

If you think about it, it's partly right: it's not hygienic to penetrate a woman's asshole all the time with your penis. A woman is not made for that, she received a vagina and that's what sexual intercourse is made for, not her rectum where shit passes through... And yes we all know we can clean it but that doesn't mean it's a good thing to do. Also to all the ladies trying anal intercourse: please wash yourself before profoundly because the slightest odour might really put your partner off and give off the shittiest image of yourself for life lol. Something i wish i will never encounter again, because poopoo of women can really disgust me xD.

By definition a woman's back door is not made for sex but due to the fact that her anus nerves are so close to her vagina women are aroused by it. But before they reach that level they need to go through the first step of penetration. Some women, that can't stand any type of pain, find anal penetration too painful and are turned off by it, so they drop it. Others find it painful but can stand it or even get aroused by it, while others don't mind at all. It is clearly a matter of personal preferance. For men, on the other hand, anal is a sign of absolute acceptance or domination. Not to mention that no vagina is as tight as the butthole which gives great pleasure. Extra bonus in pleasure for both parrties is that, if hygene measures are taken, man can finish inside the woman without the stress of an unwanted pregnacy. The biggest mistake men do in anal is that they don't prepare their partner and even when they do, once they enter her, they start pumping without giving her time to adjust. If things are done properly it is a sensual practice that both can enjoy.