Looks vs. Personality

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#122
definitely looks when it comes to one night stand... I mean, i don't wanna TALK to you, i just wanna... so yeah... but it doesn't mean they have to look smokin hot, sometimes flaws are exciting however for a more serious relationship, personnality and charisma are more important than looks but i wouldn't date someone ugly as a pug unless they're wealthy and close to die

well said man, well said

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#123

a person is a whole : looks and personality.

hmm....... anyone watched that film, "the truth about cats and dogs"?

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#124

yes.

and I wouldn't go for Uma.

I would go for the dog for sure.

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#125

i think that looks and personality are equaly important

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#126

I think personality is more important!

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#127

Personality is the most important, but I'd be lying if I say Looks doesn't matter. To me, of course it maters, you need to feel attraction too physicaly. The only thing I really see on a guy are the eyebrows. I ahev a crush on nice eyebrows. I don't care about the rest that much.

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#128

I think it's essentially a balance between the two, they just play different roles, but I think that personality has the edge. Often it's the looks that get the attention, but personailty gets the heart. It's important to look healthy, of course - as humans we are programmed to respond to soft, even skin, shiny hair etc. because it means we can have strong and healthy children with that person - but an amazing personality can easily make someone seem more attractive. And I don't mean mentally, you physically see them as nice to look at, and it isn't them who've changed, but you. It's the personality that wins you over. Someone may capture you momentarily with beauty, but if there's nothing underneath, the attraction will fade.

And that's just referring to sexual attraction. It's the same story between friends too, even more so. Would you be more envious of a beautiful friend or maybe a plain but stylish, confident and sorted friend? I don't know many people who choose their friends on looks alone. It's the people that make you laugh that matter in the end.

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#129

Pshhhh.. pussies.

I'm shallow and I'm not afraid to admit it.

Nah... just kidding. I don't really care what a potential mate looks like... AS LONG AS SHE CAN COOK.

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#130

I mean if you look like Guntars or Novak and have razor blades for breakfast every day, yeah chances are I'm not gonna stay with you. But hey I'll stick as long as I can. :|

In the end personality, really though.

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#131
I think it's essentially a balance between the two, they just play different roles, but I think that personality has the edge. Often it's the looks that get the attention, but personailty gets the heart. It's important to look healthy, of course - as humans we are programmed to respond to soft, even skin, shiny hair etc. because it means we can have strong and healthy children with that person - but an amazing personality can easily make someone seem more attractive. And I don't mean mentally, you physically see them as nice to look at, and it isn't them who've changed, but you. It's the personality that wins you over. Someone may capture you momentarily with beauty, but if there's nothing underneath, the attraction will fade.

And that's just referring to sexual attraction. It's the same story between friends too, even more so. Would you be more envious of a beautiful friend or maybe a plain but stylish, confident and sorted friend? I don't know many people who choose their friends on looks alone. It's the people that make you laugh that matter in the end.

Nice post. I also believe that a balance factor is most important. Like I said before, I do take looks into account, but from what I've observed, looks can only go so far if you're with a bitch or a jerk.

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#132

Personality is the most important to me, but i do have to have some sort of attracted to him as well. If he has nice eyes, nice smile, and a good personality i'm hooked.

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#133

For me is necesary the look !! but if he is a stupid idiot boy i will kick he ass and find anotherone !

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#134

I'd take an amazing personality over a stud-muffin any day. No joke.

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#135

fucking A right, miss moiselles

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#136

Love your avatar and signature! Mmmm, vampires!

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#137

Sweetest guy ever...

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Guy who using you like some sort of toy and likes to be naughty with his step sister

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#138

boku, easy.... pretty boys are boring he can keep going on fucking his step sister

ill poke my eyes out and keep the gnome

specially if hes funny... even more so if he knows how to lick some snatch

btw... :trout: to you, smart ass

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#139
Love your avatar and signature! Mmmm, vampires!
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#140

Good Choice.

Quasimoto actually has a six inch tongue and can breathe through his ears.

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