What's your Beauty formula?

Beauty=  physical attractiveness + character/personality + intelligence/cultural level + talent

Beauty = Intelligence, Personality, Humor, Kindness, Discipline, Confidence, Self Awareness, and Looks.

My recent spats highlighted the importance of integrity and extroverted communication.  I wasn't sufficiently in touch with my feelings and my actions (which confused her), and she displayed too much fake charm, submissiveness, and was too dishonest.  The result of this is we no longer see each other as highly as we once did. 

Beauty=  physical attractiveness + character/personality + intelligence/cultural level/talent

1.00 (Beauty)= 0.50 (PA) + 0.35 (CP) + 0.15 (ICT) 

I've always rated character and personality far more than intelligence.  I see this was fundamental, and intelligence is something that can be developed.

After this drama (two weeks of having a thorn on my side), it was so refreshing to go on a date with a woman that was very extroverted, tough yet feminine, and very thorough/honest with her feelings. I found her very attractive and was struck with an epiphany afterwards:  

I don't think I should grow crushes and date women that are too feminine/introverted anymore.  All the most annoying drama I've had has been due to my inability or unwillingness to accept or care about small details of life and get into annoying "psychoanalysis" games.   It always starts with some sort of 'blow up' and then I am reduced to a firefighter who performs damage control.  

Intelligence is the most important part of my formula.

A women can have all the other things I listed, in my previous post ITT, if I can't carry on a conversation without having to explain things 4-5 times, talk over their head, and feel like I'm talking down to them it won't work out. I've been in conversations with women that aren't very intelligent and it's mentally exhausting, I want to kill myself.

15 hours ago, Stromboli1 said:

Beauty = Intelligence, Personality, Humor, Kindness, Discipline, Confidence, Self Awareness, and Looks.

How would you assign weights to these elements?

8 minutes ago, Cult Icon said:

How would you assign weights to these elements?

Beauty (1) = Intelligence (.35), Personality (.15), Humor (.5), Kindness (.5), Discipline (.5), Confidence (.5), Self Awareness (.5), and Looks (.25).

Here's a quick thought experiment, based on theory and the model's projection:

Beauty=  physical attractiveness + character/personality + intelligence/cultural level/talent

Constance: 0.5+ 0.35 + 0.1 = 0.95

Nimue: 0.45 + 0.35 + 0.15= 0.95

Edita:  0.5 + 0.30 + 0.1 = 0.90

Hedvig: 0.4 + 0.30+ 0.15 = 0.85

Eniko: 0.5 + 0.25+ 0.1= 0.8

Frederikke: 0.45+ 0.2+ 0.5 = 0.7

Candice: 0.45+ 0.15 + 0.0 = 0.6

Vita: 0.4 + 0.1 + 0.0 = 0.5

It can be emphasized that my formula is too strict (obviously Vita is attractive).

6 hours ago, Stromboli1 said:

Intelligence is the most important part of my formula.

 

A women can have all the other things I listed, in my previous post ITT, if I can't carry on a conversation without having to explain things 4-5 times, talk over their head, and feel like I'm talking down to them it won't work out. I've been in conversations with women that aren't very intelligent and it's mentally exhausting, I want to kill myself.

I just ignore things that I don't agree with and move on to things that we both can understand.  It doesn't really bother me.  

I am definitely a lot more prone to talk about my feelings with women than with men.

On 8/6/2016 at 8:58 AM, Stromboli1 said:

 

Beauty (1) = Intelligence (.35), Personality (.15), Humor (.5), Kindness (.5), Discipline (.5), Confidence (.5), Self Awareness (.5), and Looks (.25).

Humor, Kindness, Discipline, Confidence, self awareness are part of personality, no?

1 hour ago, Cult Icon said:

Humor, Kindness, Discipline, Confidence, self awareness are part of personality, no?

I'd say yes & no.

58 minutes ago, Stromboli1 said:

 

I'd say yes & no.

I would say that integrity and communication are the lynchpin of character/personality.  The rest fall on that foundation.

You rate looks just 0.25.  That means a person who rates zero but is perfect else-wise would be a 0.75!

54 minutes ago, Cult Icon said:

You rate looks just 0.25.  That means a person who rates zero but is perfect else-wise would be a 0.75!

My revised beauty formula based on yours...

Beauty (1) = Intelligence (.35), Personality (.25), and Looks (.40).

On 8/6/2016 at 8:58 AM, Stromboli1 said:

 

Beauty (1) = Intelligence (.35), Personality (.15), Humor (.5), Kindness (.5), Discipline (.5), Confidence (.5), Self Awareness (.5), and Looks (.25).

I'm trying to make my formula more granular (with your help).

Personality (1) = Kindness (0.1 ) + Confidence/Charisma/Humor (0.2) + Discipline (0.3 ) + Integrity/Communication/Self-awareness (0.4)

Will revise later.

I feel that individual charisma is fundamental.  I'm on the fence with 'group' charisma- while fatally important in life, it's also where the most phony and shallow type of social exchange occurs.  Leadership and managing is decisive for inspiring and motivating people for good.

Confidence/Charisma/Humor (1.0) =  Individual (one on one) charisma (0.6 )+  Group charisma (parties, get together, socials) (0.1 ) +  Leadership/Managing charisma (both on oneself and on others) (0.3 )

I think having her girl who can dry her and get ready  that fast is also to take in consideration

Less time in the bathroom, more time in the kitchen.

6 minutes ago, frenchkiki said:

I think having her girl who can dry her and get ready  that fast is also to take in consideration

 

Less time in the bathroom, more time in the kitchen.

This is part of "discipline" 

I think you should start a 'handsomeness formula' thread.  I was actually about to start one myself, and even rate myself for that matter..

Oh you know, as long as a guy is taking a shower & brush his teeth everyday he almost got the perfect formula.

And to be honest i don't really get your formula?

Is it in %?

Bitcoins?

10 minutes ago, frenchkiki said:

Less time in the bathroom, more time in the kitchen.

I never understood that, I'd rather have more time for foreplay and sex.

4 minutes ago, frenchkiki said:

Oh you know, as long as a guy is taking a shower & brush his teeth everyday he almost got the perfect formula.

And to be honest i don't really get your formula?

Is it in %?

Bitcoins?

 

Based on personal experience.  Analyzing your feelings.

Yes, 100% is the full weight. 

Don't ^^ Embrace them (feelings)

9 minutes ago, Stromboli1 said:

 

I never understood that, I'd rather have more time for foreplay and sex.

That was my sexist comment of the day ^^ do not mean it. I'll kill myself if I was thinking that kind of retrograde things about women.

And u can have sex in the kitchen and also with the things in the kitchen

I have the same glasses and I also have a bed in my kitchen. Truth.