Ejaculation on the face

i have a theory that in a culture people learn to screw from the porn they watch. because they imitate it. and that social values change as the media persuades the people to adapt to new behaviors.

for example, oral sex is now much more common now than thirty years ago. that is well documented. nowadays, most young people see oral sex as a a sex act that happens before actual sex, not after. in other words, it is less intimate than sex, not more intimate. (my parents were shocked when i told them this.)

there are a variety of reasons for this, but one of them i think is that blowjobs are now such a common part of our language and culture. it's been desensitized.

now, speaking with a female friends of mine in her early twenties, she complained that all the guys she dates, at the end of oral sex, it's no longer the spit or swallow debate, they all now want to finish with a facial, i.e. ejaculate on her face. see here for a funny illustration:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facial_(sexuality)

so i was wondering if this was a relatively new phenomenon. when i was a teenager it never even occured to me to do this! but now it seems all the porn videos finish with facial, and so now it seems the young guys are imitating what they see.

i'm in my early thirties, and of the girls i've been with in the past five years, some hated facials, some didn't mind, a few loved the kinkiness of it. but a good number of them had never done it before. they needed convincing and they were in the mid-twenties to early thirties as well.

i was thinking it would be interesting to hear women from different age groups respond to this question, as to the guys they are with (assuming similar age), how often they want to do facials.

that is, do younger guys want to give facials more than older guys? or do all guys want to do it now, but didn't five or ten years ago?

and as for guys reading this, what are your thoughts on facials? when did you discover them? when did you start doing them? do you love them? or dislike them? why?

this is a very pressing sociological issue so please reply!

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ew?? that's all you can say? this is a scientific endeavor, you need to donate more of your time and eloquence to this subject! it's for science for god's sake!

I think guys are so keen on facial ejaculation because it's safe alternative to cumming in the mouth (unless you get some cum in the eyes which is about as dangerous as having unprotected sex apparently ) and for the person receiving it there isn't the problem of the taste of cum...

As far as age is concerned i don't think it depends a lot on it... it's more a matter of sexual experience and self confidence if you ask me. i think older guys don't go by the old standards they were used to anymore...

umm, I've never been asked to do it. But it has happened once by accident, we had a good laugh as I went to go see myself in the mirror. None of the people I have gone out with have specifically asked me if I was willing to take it on the face lol. It actually wouldn't ever turn me on, I think it's rather humorous.

Never saw the appeal in it. I think it's hard to deny it's at least somewhat degrading to the receiving person. Like Rogue said, it can easily happen by accident while receiving a blowjob, but if it is the actual act of ejaculating on someone's face that gets you off, I think there are some other issues at play.

Anyone that has seen porn more than a few times knows what "Facial" means... It's a common fetish. I quite like it, go even further than that I really like it.

Many girls have let me do this before, and I love it.

It's dirty, I am dirty and that's that!

Never saw the appeal in it. I think it's hard to deny it's at least somewhat degrading to the receiving person. Like Rogue said, it can easily happen by accident while receiving a blowjob, but if it is the actual act of ejaculating on someone's face that gets you off, I think there are some other issues at play.

i think nothing is degrading sexually as long as everybody does it because they FEEL like it and not because someone make them do it or because they wanna please their partner...

I'm withg Ben on that... anyone who lets someone do it because they are happy to is not degrading at all.

Never saw the appeal in it. I think it's hard to deny it's at least somewhat degrading to the receiving person. Like Rogue said, it can easily happen by accident while receiving a blowjob, but if it is the actual act of ejaculating on someone's face that gets you off, I think there are some other issues at play.

i think nothing is degrading sexually as long as everybody does it because they FEEL like it and not because someone make them do it or because they wanna please their partner...

I suppose that's true. But that's pretty much my point, I think most of the time the receiving party does it to please their partner and not because they enjoy it themselves.

It's dirty, I am dirty and that's that!

this is a genius quote! brilliant.

ahahahaha!!!!

This place has the best freaking threads ever.

I don't really see the "sexual" appeal in creaming on my girls face at all. Now I would do it if she asked, or if she made me mad earlier in teh day...lol. I've yet to do it, and I'd rather have a mouth than an eye any day of the week.

I got some on my eyes lash that one time that it did happen.... it stings don't try this at home!

not to be graphic but the closest I get to a "facial" it will just drip off the side of my mouth... not a facial at all

that's the most disgusting thing ever.

we made this topic HOT!!!

s'ok.. I think it's a little gross too

i don't think it's gross i just don't do it cuz of the small risks it emplies but when i'm into a serious relationship...

i'm a freak

well girls.... just close your eyes and don't swallow... it annot do any harm then...

you know from the moment you give head to a guy without a condom it doesn't make a lot more difference if you swallow or not... all the more if you receive cum in your mouth and then spit it... ppl tend to believe that only swallowing can be harmful...

you know from the moment you give head to a guy without a condom it doesn't make a lot more difference if you swallow or not... all the more if you receive cum in your mouth and then spit it... ppl tend to believe that only swallowing can be harmful...

nope... swallowing is just awful... but when u spit it is much easier to dill with... but it is no harm if u swallow... but... still :yuckky: :yuckky: :yuckky: :yuckky: :yuckky:

P.S. blow job with condom... like licking plastic... so it is yuckky too! i am 24... trust me LOL