Ejaculation on the face

you think it's awful but i know a lot of ppl who love it

and it IS proved that you can catch shit when you swallow but that's not the point of that topic.

i personnaly don't think a blowjob with a condom is that horrible... of course it's better without but i can deal with the condom... and i'm only 19 but i've known that since i'm 16, it ain't a question of age

it doesn't bother me to swallow it but ejaculation on the face..it'd feel like a porn star,really.

... swallowing has never been an issue to me, sometimes I mind sometimes I don't. As long as my partner respects that, which he should because I'm giving him a little treat.

Latex isn't a sexy thing to have in your mouth and I find that even the flavored kind don't help at all.

I don't like it. I, personally, find it degrading and disgusting. Now, I don't really have a problem if my partner wishes to ejaculate on my breasts or whatnot ( though I prefer to keep the man-juice off my body, period ), but not my face. That is just gross.

I do not know if it's a matter of age, my last boyfriend was the only guy who has even mentioned it, so... I'm not sure how the rest of the male population feels.

great stuff here guys.

i was trying to get a survey going as to changing sexual tendencies, per my theory on facials, the trendy new sex act (facials, it's the new black!).

but mostly what i am hearing is the debate of whether facials are cool or dirty or disgusting or whatever.

let me reply, and try not to offend. but here goes anyway:

if you are saying facials are "disgusting" then i am sorry to say, i don't think you've ever had really hot sex.

when you have really hot sex, you get nasty, you get dirty, you say nasty things and do dirty things, and you love it. you sweat, you grind, you lose your inhibitions and really just f*ck like an animal.

seriously.

at that point, if and when you get there, hot cum is really kinky and very much a turn-on. and hot cum on your face, well, it's the ultimate.

if you think i am bullshitting you, then keep on believing that. those who know, know. i hope others who know will jump in and agree with me and not keep this little secret hidden for fear of being judged.

it's okay to be a woman, a strong feminist female, and enjoy dirty, kinky sex. sex by nature is about power. power and indulgence. facials are the ultimate sign of power, the ultimate indulgence, that is why they are so hot.

if you still are so puritanical or shy or ashamed or close-minded to believe what i just wrote, i can understand that. sexual values are very hard to change. it took me so many years!

oh well, at least i tried.

i don't agree on every single thing you said but i agree on what you said as a whole

I know so many girls that are inhibited in bed because they fear their boyfriend might think they are right sluts... I don't see why someone would consider a girl who is a "freak in the sheets" with the man she loves a SLUT. I think when you're in a serious relationship you have to alternate "making love" and... "fucking". Otherwise, don't complain when you boyfriend starts cheating on you

I think it's a lot less of an issue for guys because most ppl agree on the fact that guys are animals at times lol.

On a semi-related note, i think lesbians are even dirtier haha. Like seriously i have a lesbian friend that tells me everything and um... she sometimes makes me blush haha (and i'm not easily impressed )

if you are saying facials are "disgusting" then i am sorry to say, i don't think you've ever had really hot sex.

when you have really hot sex, you get nasty, you get dirty, you say nasty things and do dirty things, and you love it. you sweat, you grind, you lose your inhibitions and really just f*ck like an animal.

hahaha i loved those lines ! it's so true that some ppl think they're sexual freaks when actually they really never had really hot sex...

great stuff here guys.

i was trying to get a survey going as to changing sexual tendencies, per my theory on facials, the trendy new sex act (facials, it's the new black!).

but mostly what i am hearing is the debate of whether facials are cool or dirty or disgusting or whatever.

let me reply, and try not to offend. but here goes anyway:

if you are saying facials are "disgusting" then i am sorry to say, i don't think you've ever had really hot sex.

when you have really hot sex, you get nasty, you get dirty, you say nasty things and do dirty things, and you love it. you sweat, you grind, you lose your inhibitions and really just f*ck like an animal.

seriously.

at that point, if and when you get there, hot cum is really kinky and very much a turn-on. and hot cum on your face, well, it's the ultimate.

if you think i am bullshitting you, then keep on believing that. those who know, know. i hope others who know will jump in and agree with me and not keep this little secret hidden for fear of being judged.

it's okay to be a woman, a strong feminist female, and enjoy dirty, kinky sex. sex by nature is about power. power and indulgence. facials are the ultimate sign of power, the ultimate indulgence, that is why they are so hot.

if you still are so puritanical or shy or ashamed or close-minded to believe what i just wrote, i can understand that. sexual values are very hard to change. it took me so many years!

oh well, at least i tried.

Dude, different people enjoy different things. You can try to pass off your own sexual preferences and tastes as the norm, and you can call me a prude or someone who never had real sex or whatever. I've had enough sex to know what I like and don't like, and I just don't see the appeal in ejaculation on the face.

Now, do you like it? Good for you. I hope it brings you enjoyment many times. But don't try to pass it off as a universally titillating act. Like I said before, DIFFERENT PEOPLE ENJOY DIFFERENT THINGS. You might not like some of the things I enjoy during sex. I'm not going to tell you don't enjoy that stuff because you never had real hot sex. That would be arrogant.

*Rant over*

i might be wrong but i don't think reticent was saying that facial ejaculation is a must-do and that sex without is isn't hot sex... the way i understood it: if you really wanna enjoy sex you have to forget your inhibitions and stop thinking about what ppl would think and somehow if you are shcoked by facial ejaculation it shows that you are not that inhibited. Sex sucks you into another dimension: you can be authoritarian in life and really submissive in bed, it's just a game...

i might be wrong but i don't think reticent was saying that facial ejaculation is a must-do and that sex without is isn't hot sex... the way i understood it: if you really wanna enjoy sex you have to forget your inhibitions and stop thinking about what ppl would think. Sex sucks you into another dimension: you can be authoritarian in life and really submissive in bed, it's just a game...

This was his original statement:

if you are saying facials are "disgusting" then i am sorry to say, i don't think you've ever had really hot sex.

It seems to me that brush he is painting with is mighty wide.

What he is disregarding is the fact that some people might not find them disgusting, but just not enjoy them that much.

The way he is presenting it, is that you either like ejaculating on someone's face, or your sex life sucks/you never had real hot sex. I'm calling BS on that. In fact, I'm calling BS on anyone that claims that any one sexual act is universally titillating. Sex is a broad spectrum of acts, and within that spectrum, each and every individual has their preference.

To me, if you enjoy it, then that's fine by me, and good for you, but don't try to sell short the people who enjoy it less than yourself.

taben, you're the man. thanks for helping me out here.

let me quickly clarify, because i need to go. will post more soon, as this is a favorite topic of mine

TRUE: if you say facials are disgusting, then you've never had hot sex.

it might initially sound like a bit of a stretch, but let me explain:

if you say you are not into facials, that's one thing. fine. to each his/her own. but if you say they are *disgusting*, well then, my hunch is that you are in a bit over your head.

why?

because if you're saying that facials are disgusting, that means that you are really passing judgement that in no way are they exciting, to anyone. never. disgusting is a really powerful word. it's a flat-out rejection. that is, under no circumstances.

that makes me tend to believe that you just don't know the mindset necessary to appreciate a facial, or something equally as kinky. that is, you've never been in that animalistic/hot sex mindset to see where we are coming from with this sex act.

did that make sense?

it reminds me of when i was in junior high, i was thirteen or fourteen, and an older student asked me what i thought of eating a girl out. i was honest, i said, i think that's disgusting. i was thinking of all the juices, and the hair, and gross!

now i know better! it is fucking hot!!!

was that a decent analogy?

when you are having hot hot sex, all the inhibitions go out the window. just like taben said, it sucks you into another dimension. and it is just a game. you can do role-play, dominant, submissive, fantasies, i've talked about the craziest things in bed, and i've had girls say the craziest things because they got so hot, you have no idea.

and that is just the hidden side everyone has. just like everyone has a primitive side that, if thrown into the jungle, would kill and hunt and attack -- a la lord of the flies -- we all have that primitive sexual side that is very kinky and raunchy and dirty.

just my opinion. again, i don't mean to be an arrogant prick. just trying to open up some eyes and throw away these puritanical views. trust me, i used to be sooooo shy and intimidated by girls and had so many body hangups, i was terrible in bed, and it was all because i couldn't get in touch with that primitive animalistic confident side. i didn't know how to *fuck*. fucking takes letting go. i was way too uptight and cerebral and worried about the whole thing.

so let me make my point another way, by asking a question: what *are* you into in bed?

because if what REALLY turns you on is "candles and barry white", then my hunch is that you are just having sex, going through the motions, which is fine i guess, but trust me, you are not really FUCKING.

and there's no shame in that. i didn't really start fucking until i was about 25 i would say. it takes a while to learn, improve, and get confident! but you also need an open mind, the desire to want to improve, and the belief that few things in bed are "disgusting."

shit now i am late to my appointment!

Candles and Barry White?

You must be a child of the 70s.

So to you it's a dichotomy: you either are into ejaculation on the face or you are a candles and rose petal romantic? There's nothing in between? I'm fairly sure some of the candle lovers also were into ejaculation on the face.

Did you read my original post? I argued that you cannot use a single sexual act as a measure stick to divide sexual experiences into "love making" and "fucking".

Oh, and I prefer no music at all, thank you very much.

you're right, i am over-simplifying.

i think i am reacting to the term disgusting. when i first reviewed the initial responses, i heard that a lot, and i was surprised by the ignorance (sorry to use such a strong word.)

i just thought of another example: cross-dressing.

now i am a guy, and i am not at all into putting on lacy panties and high heels, but i would never call that "disgusting". who am i to say? i would call that kinky. kinky meaning good.

i guess i feel that deep down we all have our sexual kinks. i read a lot of dan savage. and so far, with all the girls i've been with, i've been able to get out of them a certain amount of kink. so if even nice good girls have kinks, imagine all of us guys.

i guess it goes along with my belief that no one is boring. maybe i'm wrong. but i think deep down we all are interesting, creative people in some way, and that also means that in the bedroom we have strong desires, crazy kinks, and dominant and submissive tendencies.

often, religious upbringings get in the way of exploring our deepest sexual desire.

i probably should not have written that because it might screw up the whole thread, but that is where my argument had to go. so many of us are SEXUALLY REPRESSED. and a lot of times it is due to religion.

i should know. i was raised catholic, and i wanted to marry a virgin, and remain a virgin myself until marriage. nice.

so anyway, no, there is not one act that divides "having sex" and "fucking", but there are definitely different mindsets.

(i think "lovemaking" is a total different experience. so my barry white example was probably wrong and confusing.)

my first gf's friend had a theory: all women should know how to (1) make love, (2) have sex, and (3) fuck.

that scared the hell out of me because i thought (3) fuck could only mean one-night stands with strange men after grinding at a nightclub and sucking his dick in the bathroom.

but no, fucking is just ... ah, enough, you've heard it all already!

so let's all write down our sexual kinks.

you tell me you have none? none at all??? hmmm.

sexual kinks are like hobbies, like gardening. we have to nurture them, tend to them, and let them flourish.

seriously, name your sexual kink. do i have to start a new thread for this??

you're right, i am over-simplifying.

i think i am reacting to the term disgusting. when i first reviewed the initial responses, i heard that a lot, and i was surprised by the ignorance (sorry to use such a strong word.)

i just thought of another example: cross-dressing.

now i am a guy, and i am not at all into putting on lacy panties and high heels, but i would never call that "disgusting". who am i to say? i would call that kinky. kinky meaning good.

i guess i feel that deep down we all have our sexual kinks. i read a lot of dan savage. and so far, with all the girls i've been with, i've been able to get out of them a certain amount of kink. so if even nice good girls have kinks, imagine all of us guys.

i guess it goes along with my belief that no one is boring. maybe i'm wrong. but i think deep down we all are interesting, creative people in some way, and that also means that in the bedroom we have strong desires, crazy kinks, and dominant and submissive tendencies.

often, religious upbringings get in the way of exploring our deepest sexual desire.

i probably should not have written that because it might screw up the whole thread, but that is where my argument had to go. so many of us are SEXUALLY REPRESSED. and a lot of times it is due to religion.

i should know. i was raised catholic, and i wanted to marry a virgin, and remain a virgin myself until marriage. nice.

weren't you late for an appointment ?

and i must be uber-clever or mega kinky cause i had understood what you just said by reading your previous posts

so let's all write down our sexual kinks.

you tell me you have none? none at all??? hmmm.

sexual kinks are like hobbies, like gardening. we have to nurture them, tend to them, and let them flourish.

seriously, name your sexual kink. do i have to start a new thread for this??

i think that thread is enough

i could write down my kinks but i'm tired of always being the first

Exactly where did I call ejaculation on the face disgusting?

Exactly where did I call ejaculation on the face disgusting?

you didn't, moiselles did

I find having hot, sticky cum on my FACE to be gross. And believe me, I've had hot sex. I've role-played, been spanked, been called other girl's names ... just to name a few. But having a guy ejaculate on my face .. is not my idea of kinky.

I find having hot, sticky cum on my FACE to be gross. And believe me, I've had hot sex. I've role-played, been spanked, been called other girl's names ... just to name a few. But having a guy ejaculate on my face .. is not my idea of kinky.

This is my point. Liking of disliking one sexual act says nothing about your sex life in general.