Why check me out now but not before when nothing's changed?

How come some guys act like they don't notice you like you're vapor or completely unattractive after taking a glance to see who you are...and then all of a sudden when you see each other again (like the next day or week or so), they start checking you out?!? Nothing's changed- your looks, personality, mannerisms, charm, whom you were with at the time, how well you know each other, etc.

Do you guys know what I'm talking about? If so, why do you do this? It's confusing as hell.

Maybe they were preoccupied. Maybe they were dating someone else at the time. There could be lots of reasonable answers.

Sometimes... when you haven't been with a woman for a long enough time... you change your standards. heheheh....

what a lame topic.

The same thing could be said about women.

Sometimes... when you haven't been with a woman for a long enough time... you change your standards. heheheh....

and to stay on-topic... I don't know maybe they didn't get a good look the first time around? or maybe you are wearing something a lot sexier the second time around

what a lame topic.

Back it up.

As for the others, I do mean "nothing", same five pairs of clothes a week. Oh, and it is meant more of a poll and to see why personally.

Back it up? The answer is simple, they weren't intrested, now they are. People change their minds. One day you like a person the other day you don't its pretty simple. And that's why I think this is a lame topic.

Back it up? The answer is simple, they weren't intrested, now they are. People change their minds. One day you like a person the other day you don't its pretty simple. And that's why I think this is a lame topic.

Your logic oversimplified and juvenile. We are generally much more complex than that. Some of us mask ourselves, whether it be verbally or bodily; some may not and have other circumstances; or some are plainly fickle-minded. I'm polling to get it out in the open from at least a crowd. Plus initial attraction should be determined if you're not completely distracted.

I guess everybody has it once in a while. The first time your mind might be wandering and you're actually looking through him/her instead of looking at them. But the second time you might have a more careful look and find him/her attractive.

hey! it's not that we havent noticed you the first time...it's just that the second time we see you, we have an excuse to approach you (hey! i've seen you before...time/date/month/year)

am i right

Some good points there.

I think the only time I didn't obviously check out a guy that I'd always been attracted to was b/c he was an interviewer for a job I was very interested in and I didn't want to chance hurting a good first impression. So, for me it depends on whether or not it's professional circumstances. Of course, this is an obvious reason for many people.

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As someone said before, there could be lots of plausible reasons but isn't it good just to know that you'll always be the centre of attention the second time around? :evil:

I think the only time I didn't obviously check out a guy that I'd always been attracted to was b/c he was an interviewer for a job I was very interested in and I didn't want to chance hurting a good first impression. So, for me it depends on whether or not it's professional circumstances. Of course, this is an obvious reason for many people.

Sometimes that might even get you that job.

Edited for being total nonsense...

Back it up? The answer is simple, they weren't intrested, now they are. People change their minds. One day you like a person the other day you don't its pretty simple. And that's why I think this is a lame topic.

yeah i can totally agree wiht you. it's quite simple, really.

i mean i'm the same way with guys. like one week i'll think my guy friend or a random gyu is really hot, and then later it's like nvm. and the other way around too.

they're still the same people, just feelings change. point blank. that's all it rweally is

Back it up? The answer is simple, they weren't intrested, now they are. People change their minds. One day you like a person the other day you don't its pretty simple. And that's why I think this is a lame topic.

What a lame answer.

Sorry, I misinterpreted your question the first time around...

To answer your question, perhaps that person had other things on his mind the first he met you.