Why check me out now but not before when nothing's changed?

Sounds like Buck dropped the ball, like, majorly...

Speaking of mixed signals...

Why is that a guy doesn't usually pay attention when you show interest but if a girl ingores them they get all gawky and seem to gain interest?

I understand most men like to pursue but what 's up with them being too shy.. or not having the ba what it takes to go ask.. the future soul mate slips away because of lack of bal confidence.

My friend just told me about that but now She is the one that would like the attention back lol

guys are messed up.

I will say they are hard to read sometimes.... but in a way... and I am not necessarily defending them, but they have and can say the same about women... we are from two different planets...LOL... I guess sometimes we don't speak the language of man....

you want to talk about mixed signals????? I'm freaking confused... all I want is a fling so i don't understand why the guy isn't chasing me...

^ I didn't read nearly half of that before I gave up, but here's my two cents: the dude is gay. He likes

and isn't going to hook up with you because you don't have one. Give it up already.

rogue, why do you let this keep happening to you

Q: Hm.. I don't know, maybe cause i'm compulsive and obsessed. That and ... it's drama for when I get bored.

yeah, mbinebri, I'm sure he's got issues of that sort. Or, he's so cocky he doesn't care. Or he's got a girlfriend.

Assuming there's nothing about you that's a huge turn off (smelly socks, missing teeth, immense belly, sex-change surgery, et al.), which is exponentially unlikely, he's:

-- Gay (most likely.)

-- Religious (his behaviour sounds a lot like fundamentalist religious people I know)

-- Completely inexperienced or somehow out of business (ED? ), but bluffing (a possibility, but he doesn't sound much like that.)

-- Booked... taken. GF present? Wanting to impress someone he values higher than you?

But #1 or #2 sound most likely to me ... mainly #1.

And you ought to add me on facebook by the way.

here's a picture of me and the guy .. CLICK . It's a bad picture of him because he's an asshole. I can assure you i don't smell. I appreciate the support. No it's #1. or ... No, he thinks he's better than me - I think he's just making a fool of me because I'm not the type of girl that is coy. When i want something, I go for it... and when it comes to guys, I'm the same. I can't just sit there and play hard to get forever when it's just about sex. Nothing will ever happen.

OH ... i'll give you my name from facebook in ur inbox

He just called me :| omg... omgg.. i'm like a prissy girl now.

Not sure if I'm the best person in the world to give advice about this sort of stuff but...

I'd put him on the spot and tell him to make up his mind first and then let you know what he decides. He can lead you on like this for the next year or so, and you'll be miserable because of it...

Rogue I just saw your picture and let me tell you:

In my oppinion you're better than him and not the other way round. He should be happy to have your interest

Aw thanks M... honestly.. it's a horrible picture of him thankfully.

Yeah.. just cause the basketball boys have groupies, they think they are the shit.

nice ass.

Oh - SS. I appreciate it. On the phone.. he called with unknown name () so i didn't know it was him when I answered. He said hi and asked what i was doing. I kept asking him, "who is this, i don't like talking when I don't know who I'm talking to." I didn't want to say his name even though I was sort of sure it was him... that and I couldn't think. He told me he wouldn't call. (He acts like a child but he makes me feel like one too). He said he was a "friend" and then asked if I was home alone. I wonder if he was drunk ... or with a friend. My girl says he probably was with a friend or ... I don't know... cause when I said hi the first time, he didn't answer right away and I could have sworn I heard another guy's voice in the background. Ne ways, then he said that he'd talk to me later.. and bye. Weirdo.

I guess if I see him in school, I'll say hi at most but I'm not going out of my way to talk to him either. I'm not calling him. I told him what I wanted and it's up to him to come get it and if he doesn't want it, then too bad.

Sounds like Buck dropped the ball, like, majorly...

I still see him sometimes... with some girl who i would imagine is his 'girlfriend' or public cut-buddy...

I'm not mad about that ne more though.

Well, much luck in facing whatever happens with your dignity and happiness

dignity... it's disposable. You only live once.

Well, it was nice to meet you anyway .

note to self... losing dignity kills?

ahhh never mind... I finally hooked up with him twice. I'm sedated. I had been obsessing about him on and off since the end of september and it took up june to have gotten anywhere.