Your Longest Relationship...
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6 days till the 1 year anniversary...im thinking about taking her back to this creek behind my house and having a picnic on these rocks at the base of a waterfall thats back there....and we would definately drink this special cool aid packet....i dont remember why but a long time ago when we first started going out she ended up owing me a surprise the next time she came over....so when she came over she brought a cool aid packet with surprise written on it....i never threw it out and i think its due time to drink it.
that so romantic 
8 months. Still sucks. She dumped me for another guy. The thing is, I could see it coming, but I decided to play it nicely and not act all jealous and stuff. Look where it got me... 
Funny thing is, around the time she dumped me was when Outkast released the song "Roses". And that song has the lyrics: "Caroline, she's the reason for the word bitch". And my ex gf's name was Caroline. So every time I heard that song on the radio, I was reminded of her.
8 months. Still sucks. She dumped me for another guy. The thing is, I could see it coming, but I decided to play it nicely and not act all jealous and stuff. Look where it got me...Funny thing is, around the time she dumped me was when Outkast released the song "Roses". And that song has the lyrics: "Caroline, she's the reason for the word bitch". And my ex gf's name was Caroline. So every time I heard that song on the radio, I was reminded of her.
roses really smell like poo ouu ouu
2 years. still looking for one to settle down with, but she hasn't presented herself to me yet.
8 months. Still sucks. She dumped me for another guy. The thing is, I could see it coming, but I decided to play it nicely and not act all jealous and stuff. Look where it got me...Funny thing is, around the time she dumped me was when Outkast released the song "Roses". And that song has the lyrics: "Caroline, she's the reason for the word bitch". And my ex gf's name was Caroline. So every time I heard that song on the radio, I was reminded of her.
Caroline :avada: Don't like her now 
that sucks
(is that like a group hug?)
(is that like a group hug?)
why not...?
shortest one: 1 week
longest one: 7 months and still counting...
crazy how love can change
that so romantic
psh...that aint nothing
oh and uh yea...a year now 
this will be a fun day
My longest relationship would be 4 yrs (HS) and 9 yrs if you count the 5 years of college+ that we keep calling each other randomly to indicate that we miss each other. I know it's weird.
I've had my heart broken by her (and vice versa) that I honestly don't believe in the sanctity of "love" anymore. Never thought I would be the one- night stand type of guy, but since my first "love" I'm ashamed to say I've had many. Even all my gfs include current, would never replace her. She wasn't my first, but she was my first love. Nowadays, I don't believe in "love" per se, when it's time for me to marry, I'll marry someone I have a great connection with, good looking and who I think would be a wonderful mother. Not looking for love anymore, afterall we marry who we're with when the timing is right.
In about 3 months, it'll be 2 years. I'm going with that length, even though my g/f was very undecided about this relationship. Through perseverance I finally got her to commit! 
My longest relationship would be 4 yrs (HS) and 9 yrs if you count the 5 years of college+ that we keep calling each other randomly to indicate that we miss each other. I know it's weird.I've had my heart broken by her (and vice versa) that I honestly don't believe in the sanctity of "love" anymore. Never thought I would be the one- night stand type of guy, but since my first "love" I'm ashamed to say I've had many. Even all my gfs include current, would never replace her. She wasn't my first, but she was my first love. Nowadays, I don't believe in "love" per se, when it's time for me to marry, I'll marry someone I have a great connection with, good looking and who I think would be a wonderful mother. Not looking for love anymore, afterall we marry who we're with when the timing is right.
I used to think like that. thing is, there are some people out there that are just really special, but the truth is, there are probably more than one of them. it's just in the timing of finding them when they're single. my advice is keep your eyes open and don't waste too much of your time 'settling' for something that's not right, or you'll miss your ship when it re-docks.
My longest relationship would be 4 yrs (HS) and 9 yrs if you count the 5 years of college+ that we keep calling each other randomly to indicate that we miss each other. I know it's weird.
I've had my heart broken by her (and vice versa) that I honestly don't believe in the sanctity of "love" anymore. Never thought I would be the one- night stand type of guy, but since my first "love" I'm ashamed to say I've had many. Even all my gfs include current, would never replace her. She wasn't my first, but she was my first love. Nowadays, I don't believe in "love" per se, when it's time for me to marry, I'll marry someone I have a great connection with, good looking and who I think would be a wonderful mother. Not looking for love anymore, afterall we marry who we're with when the timing is right.
I used to think like that. thing is, there are some people out there that are just really special, but the truth is, there are probably more than one of them. it's just in the timing of finding them when they're single. my advice is keep your eyes open and don't waste too much of your time 'settling' for something that's not right, or you'll miss your ship when it re-docks.
Well when I marry (not anytime soon, I'm 22) I don't mean "settling" 4 someone. It's just that I my definition of what "love" is is different than when I was younger. There's the "I can't live w/o you PASSION" that was my first love, but now I think who I marry would be a more "stable, deep, honest compatible" type of love. Not settling- just different forms, you know? 
I know. settling. it's a choice you have to make, either marry for love or marry for convenience. doesn't mean there isn't a lot of crossover, but if your woman doesn't get your blood on fire, then you'll look for it elsewhere. I think this happens with the majority of marriages. so I think it's important to keep looking for one that inspires you, not just seems like a good partner in many ways... that makes it sound more vanilla than it is, but still, you can't settle without knowing you're settling. I'm 27, I've been through those same thoughts you're having
5 years now, err, almost 6... I don't know the exact day we started, and that isnt counting the times we broke up for 1 day, lol. After a day it started to get to us too much. lol, she rules!
I think the key to a long lasting relationship is knowing where the other person stands. Honesty is the best policy, no matter how much the truth hurts. If you can't tell your partner the truth, then there is no reason to be together. As soon as a problem arises I make sure to bring light to the subject, and we talk about what is bothering us, and we work it out. I mean AS SOON as a problem arises. The longer you let it go, the worse it will get. I am brutaly honest, and she hates it, but at the same time she loves it, and me more for it! I do believe in love... I think I love her because she is pretty much my costar in the movie of life. I never fully realize how much I love her until I think about what it would be like if she were gone. Of course that leaves my mind after a bit, but then I think about it again. Realizing your partners down sides is also very important. Noone is perfect, and even if they are, they aren't perfect 100% of the time (Tiiu is the only exception). Trust is another key. She knows I'm a flirt, but she also knows I would never cheat on her. Out of the countless relationships I've had, serious and not, I have never cheated. I have a big issue with trust, and even if she were never to find out, I would feel like the biggest piece of shit on the earth! A lot of guys I know brag about how often they cheat, and I lose more and more respect for them. It sickens me to know that people think it's cool to cheat.... Ugh. Plus my girlfriend keeps me drained, so I couldn't cheat if I wanted to. 
pure arguing (who was recently my best friend) resulting in an awful split
pure arguing (who was recently my best friend) resulting in an awful split
Uhh that's what happened with my longest relationship - let's just say we haven't spoken since almost a year ago and that was to exchange pictures - very awkward - ... and we haven't spoken since
I'm hoping the relationship I'm in now will last a lot longer than my longest (1 year) especially since I wub him so much... (September 27,2005 - present)