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I think some people don't see what sex actually is. It's a product of love, nothing more, nothing less.Love & sex belong to eachother, if love isn't there, there is physical sex, but the mental aspect is lost.
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I totally agree with you
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i think the main problem is that so-called "sacredness" of sex... i think making love should be sacred but sex...I'm not saying ppl should sleep with anybody all the time, of course not, but i think ppl should stop making a big deal out of sex...
You fancy someone, they fancy you, you have casual sex... everybody's happy in the end, i don't see where's the problem... And about the male/female difference, most of the girls i know are pretty straightforward when it comes to sex and i can tell you a lot of them enjoy casual sex, and that doesn't make them sluts
AMEN TABEN!!
I'm so sick of people making a big deal out of sex too. If I have to wait until I fall in love with someone to have sex (which actually made for better sex in my case) then I would have only slept with one person. I hate that guys and girls sometimes think that girls are sluts if they enjoy sex or if they have had a one night-stand. It's your choice what you do with your body and people should call you a slut unless you go on the street and hustle that way for money, and even then, they are called "prostitutes" not sluts. The word slut is just a degrading term that I would only use as a joke or to cuss someone off.
I enjoy sex! I'm not scared of it! ![]()

i think the main problem is that so-called "sacredness" of sex... i think making love should be sacred but sex...I'm not saying ppl should sleep with anybody all the time, of course not, but i think ppl should stop making a big deal out of sex...
You fancy someone, they fancy you, you have casual sex... everybody's happy in the end, i don't see where's the problem... And about the male/female difference, most of the girls i know are pretty straightforward when it comes to sex and i can tell you a lot of them enjoy casual sex, and that doesn't make them sluts
AMEN TABEN!!
I'm so sick of people making a big deal out of sex too. If I have to wait until I fall in love with someone to have sex (which actually made for better sex in my case) then I would have only slept with one person. I hate that guys and girls sometimes think that girls are sluts if they enjoy sex or if they have had a one night-stand. It's your choice what you do with your body and people should call you a slut unless you go on the street and hustle that way for money, and even then, they are called "prostitutes" not sluts. The word slut is just a degrading term that I would only use as a joke or to cuss someone off.
I enjoy sex! I'm not scared of it!
I'm not making a big deal out of sex or something like that, you know it's part of our everyday life, but let's be honest, sex is at its best when there's love involved ![]()
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Haha
I don't judge anybody to be sluts if they enjoy sex or if they had an one night-stand. A couple of my friends had an one night-stand and it's just their life. Sometimes I fantasy that I sleep with an unknown guy who I meet in a club but I'm not confident enough to do it
Yeah, it's just my fantasy and I just don't want to sleep with somebody in reality who I'm not in love with. I know some people(including my friends) think it's boring ![]()

yeah but as much as i love myself ... sex by myself isn't too tempting lol
Oh... I wasn't refer to you BubbleBubble, I was referring to some people in general. I totally respect the making love business stuff. When I was in love the sex was better, no doubt, but I don't hold back for that.

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I don't judge anybody to be sluts if they enjoy sex or if they had an one night-stand. A couple of my friends had an one night-stand and it's just their life. Sometimes I fantasy that I sleep with an unknown guy who I meet in a club but I'm not confident enough to do it
Yeah, it's just my fantasy and I just don't want to sleep with somebody in reality who I'm not in love with. I know some people(including my friends) think it's boring
You're not boring; they are empty ![]()
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stop being judgmental ![]()

... who's empty, I'm full of pride and joy just as a lot of people are whether they sleep with people they love or not.

... who's empty, I'm full of pride and joy just as a lot of people are whether they sleep with people they love or not.
Good for you then

i think the main problem is that so-called "sacredness" of sex... i think making love should be sacred but sex...I'm not saying ppl should sleep with anybody all the time, of course not, but i think ppl should stop making a big deal out of sex...
You fancy someone, they fancy you, you have casual sex... everybody's happy in the end, i don't see where's the problem... And about the male/female difference, most of the girls i know are pretty straightforward when it comes to sex and i can tell you a lot of them enjoy casual sex, and that doesn't make them sluts
...and that would be the reason half the people are running around with herpes.

i think the main problem is that so-called "sacredness" of sex... i think making love should be sacred but sex...I'm not saying ppl should sleep with anybody all the time, of course not, but i think ppl should stop making a big deal out of sex...
You fancy someone, they fancy you, you have casual sex... everybody's happy in the end, i don't see where's the problem... And about the male/female difference, most of the girls i know are pretty straightforward when it comes to sex and i can tell you a lot of them enjoy casual sex, and that doesn't make them sluts
...and that would be the reason half the people are running around with herpes.
have you ever heard of that wonderful thing called CONDOMS ?

i think the main problem is that so-called "sacredness" of sex... i think making love should be sacred but sex...I'm not saying ppl should sleep with anybody all the time, of course not, but i think ppl should stop making a big deal out of sex...
You fancy someone, they fancy you, you have casual sex... everybody's happy in the end, i don't see where's the problem... And about the male/female difference, most of the girls i know are pretty straightforward when it comes to sex and i can tell you a lot of them enjoy casual sex, and that doesn't make them sluts
...and that would be the reason half the people are running around with herpes.
have you ever heard of that wonderful thing called CONDOMS ?
They aren't a 100% guarantee though...

I would not b/c the sacredness of sex is lost then. It not about the money but the meaning of sex to me. If I was paid for sex, I would feeling I am doing b/c of some material reward, not so much I am doing b/c I sincerely want to. Also, I am not the type who can have sex w/ someone I had no romantic feelings for.I also think there would be an obvious difference b/t how the male would answer versus how the females would answer due to societal standards
That's a good point. I never had sex with someone I didn't love either, but I'm not sure I wouldn't be capable of it. It's just that I never had the desire to find out.
i think the main problem is that so-called "sacredness" of sex... i think making love should be sacred but sex...I'm not saying ppl should sleep with anybody all the time, of course not, but i think ppl should stop making a big deal out of sex...
You fancy someone, they fancy you, you have casual sex... everybody's happy in the end, i don't see where's the problem... And about the male/female difference, most of the girls i know are pretty straightforward when it comes to sex and i can tell you a lot of them enjoy casual sex, and that doesn't make them sluts
Took the words out of my mouth...

I dont think I would. But who know? I'll answer when I get to be in this situation right in front of my nouse.

i think the main problem is that so-called "sacredness" of sex... i think making love should be sacred but sex...I'm not saying ppl should sleep with anybody all the time, of course not, but i think ppl should stop making a big deal out of sex...
You fancy someone, they fancy you, you have casual sex... everybody's happy in the end, i don't see where's the problem... And about the male/female difference, most of the girls i know are pretty straightforward when it comes to sex and i can tell you a lot of them enjoy casual sex, and that doesn't make them sluts
...and that would be the reason half the people are running around with herpes.
have you ever heard of that wonderful thing called CONDOMS ?
They aren't a 100% guarantee though...
no but when you cross the street it isn't 100% sure that you aren't going to get hit by a car and die either

Sex means different things for everyone. All I can do is speak for myself. I personally cannot sleep w/ someone I did not have genuine feelings for, let alone for money. If others can, so be it. It is not my business nor my place to judge.
There is nothing wrong w/ enjoying sex. It is a very natural thing. If it wasn't most of us wouldn't be here ![]()
But I think the question here is would you sleep with someone just for money or not, and why/why not? It not whether sex is right or wrong or whatever.
I personally cannot sleep w/ someone I did not have genuine feelings for, let alone for money.
I also have a genuine feeling for money ![]()

I personally cannot sleep w/ someone I did not have genuine feelings for, let alone for money.I also have a genuine feeling for money
You know, money brings material joy, but that isn´t real joy is it...
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So do I and most people , but when you combine the 2, it sometimes causes difference in opinions and feelings.
I have an excuse to Sex, Money, and Greed b/c I work in advertising
SMG is the course code for the School of Management, but whatever ![]()