Would you sleep with someone for money?

You know, money brings material joy, but that isn´t real joy is it...

That's just being politically correct. Everything can be joyful, depending on whatever makes you happy. But I'd rather be happy with money than happy without.

There are people that believe in real love with one person and one person only, and then there are just those who want to screw.

Sorry but I really don't think that's a valid statement. Again: there is a difference between having sex (or screwing as you're putting it) and making love. Don't confuse love with sex. One can lead to another but that doesn't mean they don't or shouldn't excist seperately.

they should be one in the same, but our promiscuous world doesn't work that way.

Humans are complex, therefore their relationships are complex. Whether or not does a "screw" or "fuck buddy" becomes more, varies from situation to situation.

I personally cannot sleep w/ someone I did not have genuine feelings for, let alone for money.

I also have a genuine feeling for money

You know, money brings material joy, but that isn´t real joy is it...

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if it weren't for money.. I would be out of a job (I'm an accounting student) ... in reality money has become somewhat of a necessity, it's evil and it makes the world go round. It's not the biggest joy but in our world, it is one of many joys althought it's definitely not the most important. I'd rather be rich and happy than just poor and happy, as Ack said. Then again I would rather be happy than rich.

I'm going to answer the real question again: I'd have sex for money if the guy was bone-able .. I stand by my answer there is actually a condition. If I had had to choose without knowning whether the person I am suppose to sleep with for money is repulsive or not... I wouldn't gamble on it and I would take my business else where . You do realize that this thread is just for fun, a game if you will, it's not like this is real or anything .. no one is actually prostituting themselves... yet

Sorry but I really don't think that's a valid statement. Again: there is a difference between having sex (or screwing as you're putting it) and making love. Don't confuse love with sex. One can lead to another but that doesn't mean they don't or shouldn't excist seperately.

Women, stereotypically, tend to do that. I say this, not trying to offend anyone, I happen to be a woman. Just because you sleep with someone because you love them doesn't mean they love you back. So it might feel great while you're doing it but if you're the type of person who would get all worked up about it after the guy/girl tells you that they don't love you afterwards ... that is when love is a pain in the ass and you feel used, like shit.. wtv.

In a way I'm glad love and sex aren't the same ... imagine only being able to sleep with someone you love and has to feel mutually towards you. That would be like finding a needle in a hay stack or having a penis shaped as a key that would only fit with the right lady :|.

I am so weird.

Sorry but I really don't think that's a valid statement. Again: there is a difference between having sex (or screwing as you're putting it) and making love. Don't confuse love with sex. One can lead to another but that doesn't mean they don't or shouldn't excist seperately.

Indeed. So.. in the tittle of this thread should be specified if it's having sex or making love. Or sleeping with someone is having sex and not making love?

so so CONFUSED!

No the title is ok. I just disagree with Aeneas.

I don't agree either... I've been in love and wanted to make love and I've been in lust and wanted to fuck... you can't over generalize.

Well..that's one way to put it

I don't think she's saying any big deal. I mean.. what I understand is: there are people who believe in sharing your sexuality with only 1 person in your whole life, but ALSO there are people who you only want to fuck and nothing else, just fucking and bye. Isn't it was she's saying or my bad english is betraying me?

Now.. making love is a very different thing from having sex. Making love is like.. there go the feelings, and everything, having sex is.. just sex; you know... just the horney feeling haha

It's not a big deal to me either, but I just happen to disagree with it. But everybody is entitled to their opinion.

I know.. what Im trying to say is that, if the same I posted was the same I said? Because Rogue said the same. Or am I wrong?

Probably not

Anyway.. Rogue said it good.. or I could undertsnad her better? <_<

I meant you were right

BUT, if you had really been in love, you would still be in it, doesn't just come and go. Besides, choices you make now will affect you later when you really do fall deeply in love. You may regret not saving yourself.

I don't think she's saying any big deal. I mean.. what I understand is: there are people who believe in sharing your sexuality with only 1 person in your whole life, but ALSO there are people who you only want to fuck and nothing else, just fucking and bye. Isn't it was she's saying or my bad english is betraying me?

Now.. making love is a very different thing from having sex. Making love is like.. there go the feelings, and everything, having sex is.. just sex; you know... just the horney feeling haha

quize decire que no toda la gente que se revolca con alguien que no ama siempre hace lo mismo con todos. Hay unos que hacen el amor con una persona que aman pero tambien son capazes de pasar la noche con alguien solo por sexo.

forgive my spanish

BUT, if you had really been in love, you would still be in it, doesn't just come and go. Besides, choices you make now will affect you later when you really do fall deeply in love. You may regret not saving yourself.

It does go away with time and when the person treats you like shit, sometimes it doesn't go away and it all depends or circumstances and the type of person you are and at which intensity you loved or how deep in love you are with a person. I know from personal experience and I am absolutely sure that I was in love with this person. Have you ever heard of there being a "love of your life" ... as in you can love more than one person in different stages of your lifetime (even at the same time, rarely) but with different intensities and in different ways. Love isn't just one thing, it's a very broad and complicated emotion, people still to this day don't understand completely how it works and that is why we still suffer because of it.

It sounds like you are referring to religious "ethics" and I'm sorry to say that you may think I'm lost but I don't swing that way. Everyone is entitle to their own opinion, I respect yours and I'd respect mine to be respected as well.

nope, not religious. I don't believe in god, but I believe in the one i'm with.