That Time Of The Month
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I don't see how the doctor can tell if you had sex or not...the first time I had sex I didn't bleed...I don't think I even had a hymen...b/c I sure haven't bled unnecessarily 
I don't see how the doctor can tell if you had sex or not...the first time I had sex I didn't bleed...I don't think I even had a hymen...b/c I sure haven't bled unnecessarily<{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well, they have to actually go inside the vagina in order to take samples, so they are going inside because your laying down. When you have sex there is a wall back there or a film covering once it's broken your not a virgin while a doctor is down there if he's able to go all the way back inside without touching the wall he can tell, plus he'll ask before hand. Sex education haha. Alot of girls don't bleed after sex, but you did have a hymen, just because you didn't see blood doesn't mean it wasn't there.
That is a common misconception. You can have your hymen broken from things other then sex. General physical activity, using a tampon, masturbation and some women aren
That is a common misconception. You can have your hymen broken from things other then sex. General physical activity, using a tampon, masturbation and some women aren
"The hymen is a thinlayer of skin that partially covers the vagina. Its purpose is toprotect the vagina from bacteria and other harmful pathogens. This skinis very sensitive, and easily torn. Some girls are born without a hymen,and others have their hymens broken from sports, horseback riding, usingtampons, or during manual sex. While the hymen is often broken during agirl's first time having intercourse, there is a high possibilitythat the hymen will already be torn before that, or not fully torn afterthat. Every girl is different. So, the presence or absence of a hymen isno indication of virginity.
If the hymen does break during sex, mostoften there will be some bleeding, because the tissue has blood vesselsin it. However, some women don't experience bleeding, and of coursetheir hymen may already be torn. Also, some bleed the first few timesthey have sex. So if she doesn't bleed, it doesn't necessarilymean she has already been devirginized.
Hope this helps!
source:http://www.adviceforallages.org/articles/sexmythsexposed.htm
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Your hymen isn
Nah, I don't believe anything off of the internet unless it's coming froma doctors mouth to my ears, and my doctor has already proven to me that that's not possible, a tampon can't go up that far. Your hymen is towards the back a tampon once it enters your body is cotton it seperates and stays in one place until it is pulled out.
But that's just what I think everybody has their own assumptions on how you can loose your virginity riding a horse, and all that I don't find believable.
Dear Beth,
About a year ago, I had unprotected sex. I didn't get pregnant or anything, and I haven't done anything since then. My mom says that I need to go to the gynocologist soon, and I'm afraid that he will be able to tell that I've had sex. Would he be able to tell if I have? And if he can, is there a certain amount of time that I can wait before he won't be able to tell?
thank you,
Britt
1. Dear Britt,
To put your mind at ease, no one but you will know you have had sex. A doctor cannot tell you have had sex from an examination. Many people think a doctor can tell if a girl has had sex if her hymen, the thin skin that covers the vaginal opening, is broken. First of all many girls have their hymens "broken" other ways--riding horses, bikes, etc. Secondly, if not already "broken" the hymen does not always tear the first time a girl has sex.
However, it is to your advantage to tell the gynecologist that you have had sex. What you say is between you and your doctor. He/she should know so he/she can answer questions you have. Before your exam, talk with the doctor to make sure you feel comfortable with him/her, then when you have your exam it will just be you, the doc, and a nurse in the room. Your doctor is there to help you- not to tell your mother you have had sex or make any judgments.
Okay then, you're not a doctor hunny so don't misinform people.
I wasn't misinforming anyone, I was telling her what I was told by my doctor and don't call my hunny.
Wow if you obviously hold you and your opinion to such a high standard then I wouldn
Why don't we do that, I wasn't trying to start an argument, this board is about opinions am I correct? so she asked a queston and we were all supplying the answers as best as we could. But yes this is suppose to be board about that time of the month not loosing your virginity. So I think we can stay on topic yes?
Oh I was yikes like this is getting a little awkward LOL. So yes moving on, I think I'm a little late. =/
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Lol, so have you heard anything about this Yasmin pill? it's suppose to reduce cramps, I wanted to take that one pill that would make your period go away for four months, but my doctor said I couldn't have it because it didn't have hormones. 
I just want the fricken pill.
Yes I've heard about that! It sounds good but in a strange way I might miss my period. When I was younger I lost my period for a long while and it left me feeling kind of strange, alienated and defemininized (if that is even a word lol). But still my period is a pain in the fricken butt!
It is I'm on it as we speak, and it's killing me I've had pains in my lower back, and both my sides. This month is killing me. The more things I take for cramps the less they work for me. I don't think I'd miss my period too much though I'd be glad that it was gone, four months would be joy.
Yes that does suck, I didn't really think about that since I usually don't have much pain. But I would so go on it in a second if I had lots of pain. I can be a baby about stuff like that sometimes lol. I hope you feel better soon. =)
Yes that does suck, I didn't really think about that since I usually don't have much pain. But I would so go on it in a second if I had lots of pain. I can be a baby about stuff like that sometimes lol. I hope you feel better soon. =)<{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Your darn lucky:( My doc won't put me on it because he says that it doesn't have hormones in it, but he put me on the patch as well, and that worked for a week before it stopped. SO, he better put me on the Yasmin pill Lol. But thanks I'll try.
Aw your welcome. I've got plenty of hormones, the boys can testify to that. =D (I know that isn't exactly what you mean lol)
hmm...I actually lied to my doctor and said I hadn't had sex (like, 5 years ago)...and after she did the examination she didn't seem suspicious of anything. yuck what's worst is when they put their finger in you and press on your stomach *shudders*
I know I hate going to the doctor. The first time I had to go I was about 14 and I was TERRIFIED I almost cried. It isn't so bad once you know what is going on, not that it is enjoyable but you know. =P