What are your thoughts on Virgins that want to wait till marrige.

it's true, plus with her I didn't really see it coming haha

Please tell me you at least said no the first few times she tried to jump on you. You had a real good chance to really fuck with her brain. lol. That's the best dude. The good old "first one to admit he or she wants to have sex looses game". Damn it's hot. Like "jizz in my pants" hot.

...shit. My mouth is watering. :|

*looks at above ramble* Geez, that's reaallly long. Uh well. I'll shut up now

Keep going. You make sense.

jizz

I guess I could have messed with her head, but I wasn't thinking about that at the time haha

well i suppose it's hard to think about messing with someone;s head when they serve themselves on a silver platter.

weak.

lol. yeah it is hard. you're first thought isn't "yes! let's have some fun with this". you're usually caught off guard and it's "i think i'm gonna get lucky"

rather than "I think i'm going to brain-fucky" ... wow i'm so ashamed at how lame of an attempt that was to rhyme with the previous post. I apologize.

They have my respect.

I'm waiting. I like the concept on many levels, but I'm tired and can only think of two reasons that I can really define at the moment:

1. Exclusive experience or familiarity. I know many people would say that a lack of prior experience is a bad thing, but I do not think so. Yeah, it'll be awkward at first, but it allows for one to tailor one's expectations, techniques, etc, to one's spouse without previous experiences with other partners coloring one's views. And who really cares if one isn't any good at it at first? Just means that more practice is needed. On a related note, I think this "sexual compatibility" thing is overblown. In all likelihood, sex isn't going to be anywhere close to perfect to begin with. That is where doing it a lot to get more experience as well as discussing what one desires with one's partner come in to play. In other words, experimentation and communication will make things go much more smoothly. And really, if one goes into a sexual relationship searching for perfect "compatibility" and thinks that everything should be perfect immediately and that no work will be required, one really deserves to have one's relationship fail.

2. Love. Primal sex with no love involved is distasteful to me. One might as well just service oneself, if you get my meaning. With the reproductive aspect removed, sex requires a function beyond the satiation of basic primal urges IMO. With nothing beyond hormones, sex really has no point. Thus, I have attached emotion to it. When this occurs, sex becomes more than just bodies grinding together: it becomes an expression of a very unique love. That is what I want from sex. I want the emotional and spiritual connection that two people in love have to become intertwined within the very nature of the acts themselves. Flowery language aside, this silly sounding romantic perspective doesn't mean that sex can't be hot as hell. It just means that when one says "I love you" as one cuddles with one's partner after putting away the strap-on and whip, those words should mean something. In regards to people who say that their first time was underwhelming or that sex isn't really special, it may not be to you, but if one applies meaning to it, it can be a transcendent experience.

I'm waiting. I like the concept on many levels

People should be able to live their life they way they want. If this is one of their beliefs then I will support them.

It's people live, it's not of my buisness to be honest. I mean, if it's their decision and they aren't choosing that way because someone else put it in their head. I'm all fine with it.

I won't say that I understand, but I don't really have to either, their business.

If she is willing to blow me while i wait, I could live with that, but if nothing at all, not sure if I could. But to each their own, so no judgments here, just something I wouldn't do.

That is called virtue.  Nowadays there are only very few who do not engage in premarital sex and I really salute them.

I think it is stupid, you need practise sex with your girlfriend/boyfriend, but when the two persons want it.

I thought that the guy who i will lose virginity with will be my husband but then we broke up.. so now im just dont worry about this that much, Love doesnt care if you have ever fucked with somebody or not, thats it

You are not alone, a lot of people breaks with the partner because they want more, it is sad, but you can find the perfect to you.

But I don't like a bigger number, there are a lot of people who think it is easy to make love with anybody, but I don't think so