Cheating

cheating is only for people that are able to break away from the spell that their person has them under... how silly to suggest that someone could break away from mine

my ex's cheatd on me... Unfortunately they won't be able to tell their stories since they msiteriously died after that

seriously cheating is the worse thing in a relationship.

I've never cheated and I would never cheat again. Just Kidding

But it's exactly like you said. Actually, can we say "relationship"? If someone's cheating on you, it means you were the only one who believed in that "relationship" and assumed the compromise of being a couple.

If you are in love, you don't cheat. When trust and respect go to hell, it's time to walk away from that person. You don't deserve to be treated that way, anybody does.

Now, I wasn't that lucky. Neither my ex nor the lady in question came across a mysterious accident

Now, I wasn't that lucky. Neither my ex nor the lady in question came across a mysterious accident

what does this mean?

OH what about .. open-relationships .. is there a topic for that?

How far are you willing to let your partner go with someone else? (as in ... what line must he/she have crossed for it to be considered .. cheating!?)

I think you should start that thread.

I totally against those relationships if they involve me.

They make things oh so very weird... it's not a relationship, your just fuck buddies... it's that simple.

Provided you can have "no strings attached" ... no guilt involved, no questions asked Sex with someone and your not bothered about the other guy(s) then fair play... I couldn't do this.... ever !!

my bf chaet on me ..

I know the feeling.

I still don't understand why anyone would choose to hurt a gf/bf like that. If you fall in love with someone else, at least have the decency to fess up to your current partner. Sure, he/she might be hurt, but never as much as if you cheat on him/her.

my bf chaet on me ..

Define "cheat on me" your like... 8 or something how can you have a boyfriend less know he's cheated on you... I think we have a different view on the word cheat.

my bf chaet on me ..

Define "cheat on me" your like... 8 or something how can you have a boyfriend less know he's cheated on you... I think we have a different view on the word cheat.

She's 15. She can have a bf. And he could have cheated on her. Kids these days.

I think I've been cheated on before but I have no proof... it's most likely though. I just hope the one I have now will never make a move on one of those stupid groupies at school. What the hell, there are college basketball groupies that go to games and practices to try to pic up guys... how stupid is that. I pretend I'm not jealous

So you have girls openly flirting with your guy just because he's on the basketball team?

That sounds beleivable... SS, I didn't have Girlfriend till I was 18, I was too busy having fun to have a girlfriend... besides that I was a prick at school (no comments about that being also true today please).

Not trying to pick on the poor girl, but come on... my idea of cheating is sleeping with a girl when your with one.. a Kiss, Is quite easily forgivable especially if they tell you and they look upset about it.

I guess it all depends. I think I could be able to forgive a kiss as well. Sex is an entirely different matter.

However, a kiss could potentially be as threatening, if not more threatening to a relationship. It all depends on the circumstances.

However, 90% of the time, you can prevent stabbing your gf/bf in the back. Just fess up before you move on to the other person. You at least owe your current partner that much.

I don't know, that stuff really pisses me off since someone did it to me. When you have been on the receiving end of a treatment like that, you don't really tolerate it too well when people around you do the same to each other. As much as I love my buds, if one of them cheats on his gf and I know about it, I'm going to confront him with it, and if he doesn't have to balls to fess up to his gf, I'm going to do it for him. Because playing with someone feelings like that is just wrong.

Yeah, being the jealous person that I am.. kissing is still cheating to me. Although there are in some aspects different degrees of severity of cheating, when it comes down to the bottom line - cheating is simply cheating. It's betrayal ... it's disrespect, it's just wrong. Although there are more chances that I would forgive my partner kissing someone else, I wouldn't take forgiveness into consideration if things had gone any further. I've cheated on someone before and even though it was just a kiss, I still regret it to this day.

Yes, girls openly flirt with my b/f not only because he's on the team but he happens to be particularly attractive... I got pissed off one time when he told me about some stupid joke some girl made in an attempt to flirt with him, but I know he sugar codes the things he tells me and because of that - I'm not sure if it went further. I trust him, but I don't trust them (them = anything female)

That's the hard thing about having a particularly attractive partner.

It used to drive me mad when I was younger if I had a smokin girl at my side and guys would hit on her and she would openly flirt back even with me standing there. But now I'm a little older I don't care, I am now a beleiver in the philosophy of "It's your life, live it however you wanna".... It really is your life, do what you want... but think about the end result before you cheat.

I've been cheated on, many times... I seem to go for girls that have no morals. Because I've been through it, I would never ever cheat because I know how close I was to giving up completely.

I wish I weren't such a jealous person. lol I don't know how you set yourself up for disappointment with wild girls... I think I would give up dating all together if I had been cheated on many times. but then again I am a youngster and I never know what I am getting myself into anyways.

Jealousy is a hard one, some girls are far too jelous to the point where they wouldn't allow their partner to talk to another girl... and if they were pretty aswell... it's a massive deal, that results in a good shoeing when he gets home... that's too far.

Everyone gets a little jelous, I just preffer to think.... Look at all these people admiring MY girl... they are practically saying, look how great this guy is to keep a beautiful girl.

Cheating is Greed... there's no need for it, you just want to sometimes.... it's like junk food, you know it's bad you know there are alternatives but you still want it.!!

I know a married 30-something that Shags other men, cheating on her Husband... She does love her Husband and loves her life, she just wants this aswell... it is wrong, but you can't say more than it's just Greed.