Open-Relationships

I think personally if someone would have a threesome, they don't believe in love. But I also happen to think if someone has had sex with a few people they also don't believe in love. You should only have sex with 1 person your whole life IMO.

Oh ... well I guess I'm damned for life oh dear, along with a whole bunch of others as well..

oops. I think I'm just a tiny bit past the '1' limit. just a weency bit.

but I'm hoping the next partner will be the last one. can I get a do-over?

Ahh there you are sweet-cheeks

you'd like a do-over wouldn't you ... well, I want a triple do-over

not my kind of thing honestly I know I can't handle that

I think it depends on the people. I don't think I ever could have an open relationship ( polygamy? ), but lately, I've been anti-relationship, so who knows? It works well for some people.

not my kind of thing honestly I know I can't handle that

holy crap, your sig is SO HOT!!!!

I've always thought the definition of an open relationship was "you're cute, but not really cute enough to hold my attention. I'm totally hotter than you. but just between me and me, I'm really not THAT hot, so I'd better hold onto this sucker while I go sleep around."

so, in other words, open relationships rule.

that was really funny rhett!!!

but no, I don't see the point. seriously, I'm not so insecure that I think I can't get someone hotter than the person I'm with that isn't satisfying me. if she's not doing it for me, then why are we together?

oh rhett you are so wrong here. why must you think in either/or terms? why must we choose? i had one teacher, a tough old guy, who said, (very-un p.c.), that the american dream was "to have one on the side."

i agree!

and of course, it is every man's dream, not just americans. two girls are better than one, simple as that. having two girls available to choose from brings much more satisfaction than being stuck with only one flavor, even if it is your favorite flavor.

and when i have been able to pull off the open relationship, it made my sex life *and* my emotional relationship stronger, because i was happier, more satisfied, more grateful, and more alive!

oh... just discovered this topic

i couldn't live in an open relationship. First, i am too jealous - i mean, if my bf looks at boobs, that's alright, all men do that. even if he would look at porn . alright, if hee needs it

but if he touches, kisses etc i would go on the barricades. and i need someone by my side, someone, who holds me all day and not only when he has time for me besides his other girls. even if loves me... it wouldn't be the same

I'll have what rouge is nhaving please lol

I totally agree, I'm jealous too

so we are naughty AND jealous ^^

No offense to anyone, the following is just my opinion.

I don't think in an open relationship exist truly love ... or at least not that deep.

If you love someone and that someone loves you, why do you have to share him/her?

I'd like having one of them though

I don't know, it's complicated - but i get the butterflies and go all funny whenever i see her does that count?

i'm so confused!

and of course, it is every man's dream, not just americans. two girls are better than one, simple as that. having two girls available to choose from brings much more satisfaction than being stuck with only one flavor, even if it is your favorite flavor.

Every man's dream eh? Oh no my dear boy, as much as you'd like to think so, you're not speaking for every man out there. There are real men capable of handling relationships and you're not one of them.

Hate to break it to you but your girlfriend* wants a man on the side every bit as much as you want another woman. If I were in her shoes and were sleeping with a deeply insecure and perverted man with a penchant for hitting on strangers on the internet, you'd better believe I'd be looking elsewhere. Sure the guys here lust after the women whose pictures are being posted, but this message board is one giant attempt at a cybersex session for you. A bit pathetic, no?

*That is if you even have a girlfriend, which I seriously doubt.

Just saw this topic! Oh how fun to read all of this. Hmm, I certainly cannot live with my bf having a girl on the side. I don't want to share. When I have a guy, he's mine and noone elses. That doesn't mean I'm the all jaleous and untrusting type of gal. I mean, I'm fine with him wanting to go out by himself with his friends and doing his own thing (as long as he lets me do the same) as long as he keeps his paws of other girls. If he wants other girls, he needs to break up with me first.

I must say I don't have the desire of going out with two men at the same time either.

And as long as there are still enough people like mameha walking around here, I guess I don't hafta be afraid that I'm the only one with such an opinion

coming from a straight guy,i dont do open relationships or friends with benefits kind of stuff, i personally dont think you could even call that a relationship, to me if youre with somebody its because you are getting everything you look for and need from that person, there for you shouldnt even consider such kind of thing, its like cheating, i think its low to cheat, if you cheat is obviously bcause youre not getting what you need from the person you are with, so instead of cheating just be honest and stop fooling yourself and playing with the other person feelings, its stupid, so damn NO to open relationships plus i like to be somebodys property

Id never do it... all or nothing everytime.

People need to realise that this is just what the people involved call it... open relationship is basically used as an alternative to casual no strings attached Sex with an aquaintance... not even usually a friend.

deleted... finally, i don't really like this message. XD

it was a big "mess", really not clear.

^ I'm not reading all that.

I don't like open relationships its not for me. whatever floats your boat go for it