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I wouldn't say porn is not completely a bad thing but I will say it is very influencial .. If you look at the trends and likes in sexual subjects .. you may find they move with porn.. in my experiences, things that once were considered tabboo became popular when porn started to do it more... which should also give you an idea how many people watch it.. lol
Anyway, the influence sometimes (not always) has on people can make them see sex as an act.. which can be hurt those who look at sex as a reaction to love and not just an act of relief or a performance to please. Some people may say that watching this may not have any influence on how they choose things or how they think.. but I would bet these are the same people who think the media has no impact on their lives as well.. and they would be lying to themselves. Porn, in the end,is as someone wants to make it in their lives.. as anything else.. some may find it to be good couple therapy while others may find it can cause of desires that end to seperate them.. as a conclusion, porn can be as bad as the person watching it makes .. or as good as the person watching can make depending on how it infleunces them.
I do however feel it is bad for women.. a lot of the times .. especially for the women in the movies.. they are viewed as objects to play with not real people who love and have feelings. I just thought to bring that point.
lol @ digging up old threads.
Of course pornography could be beneficial to women. Those who voted no are clueless.

I voted no.. lol
It is not really benefitial if everyone goes with the trend of it.. which trned seems to only make women more and more a tool..
the benefit can be for performance if someone can learn new moves to make a love life better.. It depends even with that though.

I think porn makes guys have unrealistic expectations of women and of sexual acts.

I think porn makes guys have unrealistic expectations of women and of sexual acts.
I have seen that too..

I can't imagine that the cum shot or swallowing was popular before modern porn came into existence

I can't imagine that the cum shot or swallowing was popular before modern porn came into existence
Actually a lot of the acts became popular from more modern porn.. porn used to be movies with sex in them.. with horrible plots but there was more than just watching several people have sex and do all these different moves in ways you can see them. And the acts were simple most of the time.

I do have to say that I am a fan of the lack of pubic hair though. I know that came from porn
It is not really benefitial if everyone goes with the trend of it.. which trned seems to only make women more and more a tool..
Well first of all, I think we're forgetting that pornography isn't just about women. There is transsexual porn, there is gay porn.
I don't exactly know where you were going with the trend bit. I would have thought women being perceived as a tool was more a concern then a trend.
I voted no.. lol
the benefit can be for performance if someone can learn new moves to make a love life better.. It depends even with that though.
Well there's two contradicting statements right there. First of all you're disagreeing that pornography could yield some measure of benefit to women. Then you give me an example of performance as a possible benefit.
If you ask the question: could pornography be beneficial to women? The answer has to either be yes or not sure. I don't see how you could possibly vote no. It's rather short-sighted. First of all, there is a definate financial benefit in porn. Secondly, it can give you greater success like Jenna Jameson. Or people like Sasha Grey who have just landed a movie role. Secondly, the poll question asks "could" not "is". The inclusion of "could" asks if there is some degree of benefit to be had from pornography; some instance where it is beneficial. There are a whole host of benefits. If the question asks could, and there are benefits, the answer is yes. That does not mean you're saying there are always benefits, or that there are no downsides either.

i'm agree with you Sky.
i think this question is sexist, as women were "things" and weren't humans. i already talked about it in the feminist thread but i will repeat : "women can have pleasure with pornography!"
as women were just allowed to have pleasure in a bed with their boyfriends... that's a wrong vision of women's sexuality.
women can enjoy to film a porno movie, can take pleasure to play in a porno movie or watch a porno movie.
after boys didn't wait the pornography to discover the sodomy, treesome etc...
boys don't need to see a movie to try "new experiences"... you know, boys talk together... girls too
and sometimes they talk about sex... friends can influence too!
by the way people didn't need pornography to be pervers or exibitionists...
after yes, girls like Jenna Jameson has money... but there are so much girls (and boys) in this industry... it's exactely like modeling.

It is not really benefitial if everyone goes with the trend of it.. which trned seems to only make women more and more a tool..Well first of all, I think we're forgetting that pornography isn't just about women. There is transsexual porn, there is gay porn.
I don't exactly know where you were going with the trend bit. I would have thought women being perceived as a tool was more a concern then a trend.
I voted no.. lolthe benefit can be for performance if someone can learn new moves to make a love life better.. It depends even with that though.Well there's two contradicting statements right there. First of all you're disagreeing that pornography could yield some measure of benefit to women. Then you give me an example of performance as a possible benefit.
If you ask the question: could pornography be beneficial to women? The answer has to either be yes or not sure. I don't see how you could possibly vote no. It's rather short-sighted. First of all, there is a definate financial benefit in porn. Secondly, it can give you greater success like Jenna Jameson. Or people like Sasha Grey who have just landed a movie role. Secondly, the poll question asks "could" not "is". The inclusion of "could" asks if there is some degree of benefit to be had from pornography; some instance where it is beneficial. There are a whole host of benefits. If the question asks could, and there are benefits, the answer is yes. That does not mean you're saying there are always benefits, or that there are no downsides either.
I would vote no because even if it harms one woman .. it is not benefitial.
And I may seem contradicting since I see it help couples who had boring sex lives. It has pros and cons just as anything.
And as for trends.. those who do not know the history of it would never see what changes in society has occurred as porn changed.
FOr an example.. shaving was not a trend until it became more popular in porn .. and I would be refering to the first pornographic films.. you should check some out some time.. it is nothing like the ones now days and you may find what partners want in each other now tend to go along with what is seen in porn. And lastly, I know there are other videos that show more the just woman .. might I remind you this subject was does it benefit women.

FOr an example.. shaving was not a trend until it became more popular in porn .. and I would be refering to the first pornographic films.. you should check some out some time.. it is nothing like the ones now days and you may find what partners want in each other now tend to go along with what is seen in porn. And lastly, I know there are other videos that show more the just woman .. might I remind you this subject was does it benefit women.
i'm a silent movies lover... i LOVE old movies. my favourite actor is Lon Chaney and he is dead in 1930... there is long time ago... so i know old movie and cinema and everything was different... not only porno and many things weren't allowed/legalised too... and technology wasn't as good as now XD
sorry if i don't know the hair's history XD i will stop to read my book about holocaust (Hanna Arendt "Eichmann in Jerusalem: A Report on the Banality of Evil") and i will read "the hair's evolution! become a pro in 10 days!"
but in same time it's just a "hair's style" fashion... (as the afro hair style or the punk periode) and it prouves women watch the porno movies too and they enjoyed it. ![]()
by the way this is a benefice when the positif is superior at the negatif. <_< don't need an absolution.
I would vote no because even if it harms one woman .. it is not benefitial.
That's ridiculous. That's akin to saying that if public transport kills one person then it is not beneficial.
And I may seem contradicting since I see it help couples who had boring sex lives. It has pros and cons just as anything.
That's just it; pros and cons - so why vote no?
The only thing I am drawing issue with in your post is that you are failing to recognise that the question is conditional.
If someone is on a train that has some sort of mechanical malfunction and it ends up derailing and killing the person, then it was obviously not in the slightest bit beneficial to the person or anyone on the train. If however, another person is on a train that is on schedule and arrives at their destination early or on time, then it has been beneficial. For people who don't have their own cars public transport is beneficial. It's beneficial for those who do as well. Could [is there a scenario or instance where] pornography be beneficial to women? Lets acknowledge the elephant in the room: financially, yes! That doesn't follow that in every instance it will be beneficial, but there is no doubt that it CAN be.

I would vote no because even if it harms one woman .. it is not benefitial.That's ridiculous. That's akin to saying that if public transport kills one person then it is not beneficial.
And I may seem contradicting since I see it help couples who had boring sex lives. It has pros and cons just as anything.That's just it; pros and cons - so why vote no?
The only thing I am drawing issue with in your post is that you are failing to recognise that the question is conditional.
If someone is on a train that has some sort of mechanical malfunction and it ends up derailing and killing the person, then it was obviously not in the slightest bit beneficial to the person or anyone on the train. If however, another person is on a train that is on schedule and arrives at their destination early or on time, then it has been beneficial. For people who don't have their own cars public transport is beneficial. It's beneficial for those who do as well. Could [is there a scenario or instance where] pornography be beneficial to women? Lets acknowledge the elephant in the room: financially, yes! That doesn't follow that in every instance it will be beneficial, but there is no doubt that it CAN be.
Porn is not necesary devise.. of course public transport is.. is it a service that can be very needed and relied on .. so it is not the same. this scenerio is impressive but you are putting something of desire and entertainment with something that people may rely on and have little choice to use.
As for the answer to the question.. I like to see points of two views in most subjects .. however, i tend to favor one most times.. in this, I do not see it benefit a woman for what image it promotes for women .. but it may benefit couples whose sex lives were just too dull from lack of knowledge.. It can have benefits but it can cause hurt and a lot of false expectations. That is seldom from derailmant.. it tends to be the based in the purpose of watching in the first place.

I can't imagine that the cum shot or swallowing was popular before modern porn came into existence
Do you think that porn popularized facials? They sure existed in real life before porn came in... And I don't really think that more women are willing to try them just because they saw the act on screen and realized that a practice like that exists ![]()
I watch porn quite often, but I never made my girlfriend try anything she doesn't like. I never insisted on her doing this or that. I know that porn movies are kinda like fairy tales, you can't expect to be doing everything you see on screen. Unless you're one kinky couple ![]()

I think porn makes guys have unrealistic expectations of women and of sexual acts.
I concur.

I think porn makes guys have unrealistic expectations of sexual acts not woman. I like porn and I watch it often. Not every female porn star is blonde with huge boobs and a tiny waist. I see some kinda ugly girls doing porn and I see regular girls with regular bodies and all different size boobs doing porn. Most of the popular porn stars are blonde with fake boobs but their some normal looking girls as well. I do think that porn makes guys have unrealistic expectations of sexual acts. The guys that i know think every girl does anal sex or wants to have 3some. Which is so not true. But thats just my opinion. Btw I voted yes
The guys that i know think every girl does anal sex or wants to have 3some. Which is so not true. But thats just my opinion. Btw I voted yes
That might not be the effect of porn though. There are girls who do enjoy anal sex, and are happy to have a threesome. Maybe they're just naively painting all girls with the same brush, based on their past experience with their own girlfriends.

The guys that i know think every girl does anal sex or wants to have 3some. Which is so not true. But thats just my opinion. Btw I voted yesThat might not be the effect of porn though. There are girls who do enjoy anal sex, and are happy to have a threesome. Maybe they're just naively painting all girls with the same brush, based on their past experience with their own girlfriends.
True maybe they aren't getting the idea from porn. But I do see in porn alot of girl/girl/boy sex so they could be getting ideas from that.
But I do see in porn alot of girl/girl/boy sex so they could be getting ideas from that.