First dates

This is pretty irrelevant but that girl keeps calling me to hang out with her.

Weirdo

So you wanna get rid of her ??? The other thread didnt teach you anything ?? :persuazn: ... Try to FART on her and if she still sticks with you, come here, i'll advice you further steps....

Hopefully you won't fart out cinnamon scented air

Hopefully you won't fart out cinnamon scented air like i do

I see the "like I do" you added at the end :persuazn:

technically, it's true so I'll let you go this time

mmm cinnamon

they're not farts, they're your personal, portable air fresheners

hahahaha .. ick

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I'd like ym next first date to be in the bedroom

Maybe you could use that as a selling point.... tell him you want to skip the first 6 dates... and go straight to the "meet up go straight to bed" 7th date... and depending on his performance, you can start at date 1. Kind of testing the wine so to speak??

well you know .. I did go out with this guy and after a couple of months we had sex and i had to break up with him because it was bad... literally .. that's a deal breaker right there. If you're not good in bed I can't look at you the same again.

Questions

So how common are girls who just categorically don't kiss on a first date, even if they're interested in the guy?

I think it's cute but if it's that rare, I should probably just assume this gorgeous girl I took out is just not interested.

How soon after a first date should a second one be sought after?

I've heard that movies are a bad idea because you can't really talk - thoughts?

True about the movies.

I don't kiss a guy on the first day, even when I'm very interested in him, because then he'll think we'll have sex soon. That's why.

hmm I've kissed on first dates ... but never ended up sleeping with them. it leads them to think you'll sleep with them in the near future (depending on the guy) and you have to set those little f*ckers ... i mean lovers... right. You say, "Look... when I want to sleep with you I'll do it... my way and my time, not urs."

well you know .. I did go out with this guy and after a couple of months we had sex and i had to break up with him because it was bad... literally .. that's a deal breaker right there. If you're not good in bed I can't look at you the same again.

Absolutely agree

... about this first date business, I usualyl hesistate at doing this but me and this guy might go see a movie on friday. It's not for sure, but we're considering it. I met him at a club and he didn't remember until I reminded him but it was a crazy party and I was probably the only simi sober person there. Anyways, we'll see how it goes. I'm probably only physically attracted to him and there are a lot of things you can do in a dark room with a bright screen.

Eating my words, I have kissed on the first date. If I liked the guy, why not? Didn't really care if he thought I was gonna sleep with him or not, cuz everything I wanted was kissing him.

Honestly, I wouldn't just kiss a guy on the first date. If I like him, obviously, I wouldn't mind being kissed, but he would have to make the move. If I didn't like him, which is stupid because I know you can't always tell, I would rather he ask first. So on the whole, I guess I would rather the guy ask me first. I think it's sweet to ask before doing anyway.

Asking for a second date... I would do it later that next week, scheduling ahead about a week.

And movies aren't the greatest date. I think it would be best, for the first month in the dating process, so first four or so dates, to get to know each other better by going to dinner and playing games at an arcade or something. Then sometime after that, you can start doing the movie thing, but not ALL the time.

No , i dont kiss on the first date !

No , i dont kiss on the first date !

My vote is that 0% girls kiss on 1st date. Its not happen in some cases like you already talk about many thing like sex, love etc on internet before (If you and your friend meet on internet 1st) Then you just close herself to discuss these things and making plan in on 1st date.