First dates

shopping, going to my hairdresser, going to my therapist, listening to my fav artists or reading some book (type of book depends on what caused stress)

i didnt kiss on my very first date.

i was talking to some male friends & they said:

1st date - kiss but NO SEX.

2nd date - kiss and maybe blowjob

3rd date - sex.

they said NEVER have sex on the first date but the 3rd is the best as after that they think it wont happen.

i dont know if thats true or not but thats what they said.

i'd wait past the 3rd date in some situations.

sex. on. the. first. date.

that's the way to go

Damn right, my european brother

Lol, the girl I'm seeing right now, we just got into a conversation on the metro, started texting. She misunderstood one of my text messages and said "Yeah, and FYI I did want to fuck you, but no way in hell now." Once she realized she'd misunderstood me, our first date was at her home

I remember reading a magazine article about this woman who was 28 and had never kissed.

She said she had dated but never kissed.

She also thought it would be really romantic if the first guy she kissed she ended up marrying.

FYI - she wasn't really disgusting looking.

She wasn't really hot but around average.

it doesn't matter if you're good looking or not, as long as you have a personality and sex appeal that attracts people

yup what Wild rose said

I have to say.. I got to go on a date .. actual its been a few now..

yup what Wild rose said

I have to say.. I got to go on a date .. actual its been a few now..

i know

and you haven't been on much since it started

it doesn't matter if you're good looking or not, as long as you have a personality and sex appeal that attracts people

Sex appeal usually wouldn't mean that to be good looking "doesn't matter".

why not sex on the first date ?

Please, I really beed help!!

yup what Wild rose said

I have to say.. I got to go on a date .. actual its been a few now..

i know

and you haven't been on much since it started

I am sorry and now I am in your time line and I still can not reach you .. where are you? right back there buddy... hehehe

I have so much tot tell you.. hehehe

I am sorry and now I am in your time line and I still can not reach you .. where are you? right back there buddy... hehehe

I have so much tot tell you.. hehehe

:|

i know. Now I'm the busy one for once :brows:

With two guys. lol

i guess we really need to talk

p.s. and my computer is shit. i will get a laptop though but not this year anymore i think... let's just hope my old computer makes it that long lol

I am sorry and now I am in your time line and I still can not reach you .. where are you? right back there buddy... hehehe

I have so much tot tell you.. hehehe

:|

i know. Now I'm the busy one for once :brows:

With two guys. lol

i guess we really need to talk

p.s. and my computer is shit. i will get a laptop though but not this year anymore i think... let's just hope my old computer makes it that long lol

we do need to talk my friend.. two guys.. wow we may have something in common.. lol

I seem to be cursed with two .. and seeming to choose.. well you know the history..

If you get a laptop make sure you keep it well cooled .. they are not made like they used to be.. and VISTA sucks big time.

Where are you my friend? this timeline is yours and we spoke more off of it.. and there is so much to say about France..

girl girl girl

i didnt kiss on my very first date.

i was talking to some male friends & they said:

1st date - kiss but NO SEX.

2nd date - kiss and maybe blowjob

3rd date - sex.

they said NEVER have sex on the first date but the 3rd is the best as after that they think it wont happen.

i dont know if thats true or not but thats what they said.

mmm interesting! That explains why my current date is getting a lil' desperate! hehe Sorry, but he's got a girlfriend.

the first time i went out with Nick was a couple of weeks ago on a Monday night or Tuesday morning rather. He picked me up at 1am we went to a bar and drank, ate and then he drove me home at around 4 but i only got out of the car at 7am because we talked for 3 hours. To mysurprise, we didn't kiss or do anything intimate until the 3rd date.

To mysurprise, we didn't kiss or do anything intimate until the 3rd date.

Hmm, out of interest, how did you feel after the first date (when none of this happened, particularly kissing?)

i like to pretend it doesn't bother me cause my mother says it's trashy to kiss on the first date. in this occasion, although this jerk off choose his

fat & ugly

ex girlfriend over me

(i swear, i'm usually a lot nicer of a person, but it's just the way he lied to me when he broke things off that has me twitching with rage)

, i thought it was strange because i could tell by the way he was looking at me throughout the night and the things that he would say signaled that he was attracted..

(why wouldn't he be cause his ex is fat and i am better looking than her i have pictures to prove this)

. so in reality it was strange but refreshing.... i thought maybe he respected me

(but he actually didn't, he was just a dirty lying scumbbag)

. <_<

i like to pretend it doesn't bother me cause my mother says it's trashy to kiss on the first date. in this occasion, although this jerk off choose his

fat & ugly

ex girlfriend over me

(i swear, i'm usually a lot nicer of a person, but it's just the way he lied to me when he broke things off that has me twitching with rage)

, i thought it was strange because i could tell by the way he was looking at me throughout the night and the things that he would say signaled that he was attracted..

(why wouldn't he be cause his ex is fat and i am better looking than her i have pictures to prove this)

. so in reality it was strange but refreshing.... i thought maybe he respected me

(but he actually didn't, he was just a dirty lying scumbbag)

. <_<

if it helps you: i got all my guts together and asked this hot guy for his name and mobile number in a club yesterday

he was a bit weird and arrogant and i'm pretty much 100% sure that the email adress he gave me is false.

i know i did like everything wrong you could do wrong when asking him but still

i'd rather have him tell me to fuck off than playing hard to get and then giving me a wrong email

hm, yes... that would have helped if this particular guy hadn't been the one chasing me. talk about mixed signals. so at least i'm not broken hearted. my ego however, is a different story. I'm a very vengeful person - so i hope for this guy's sake that i'm over this in 2 weeks or that my anger doesn't come back the moment i see him in class again.