Do guys really care about weight?

I think for Girls its ALL about the number game, i'd DIE to be back in my size 6 or 8's, but i had a alittle one, and well things do adjust, now im a 9/10, and its a struggle, BUT I really just want to be healthy, still even to be healthy its a struggle, i dont think men really understand the mental struggle alot of girls go through with their weight, you can say you udnerstand, but be in MY shoes for a bit and see, cause my hubby can diet for a month lost 10 to 5lbs, i can diet the same, and lose 2lbs, GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR, so not fair

i think that is ebcause you jsut don;t have that mnuch to lose, LMS. for the msot aprt, you will tone your body first, than the weight will drop, but if you are not really "overweight" than that will take forever to happen. The less you have to lose, the longer it takes.

I used to work out with a buddy of kine who was about 150 lbs over weight. that first year, he dropped about 130 pounds, than it started tog et tougher as there wasn;t as much to loose.

jsut hang tight and keep at it. your body is getting healthier and the loss will be coming.

I think there's bigger pressure on women to look good, men aren't judged that harshly. Women do everything to look attractive - fancier (more fancy?) clothes, jewelry, make-up... Men don't really care about their big bellies (at least I don't care about mine that much - BEER FOREVER! ...although it keeps bugging me from time to time), but big hips, thighs and a big butt can be a real tragedy for a woman...

What about big bellies? This problem seems to affect men rather than women because a man's organism tends to store fat primarily in the belly. Most women get fat on the hips and butt first. Is that really the case? I'm not totally sure about that, it's just what I've learned so far.

With Women, alot depends on genenics, some get it in the boobs, arms tummy, will others highs & hips, just DEPENDS, as for men, a belly never bothered me, the hubby as little bit of one, but then again, i NEVER DUG SKINNY guys, preferred them with meat, mine was 190lbs in highschool, YUKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK, he looked awful, i like him around 200, 220 looks the best, just FEELS right to me lolllllll, ok sorry enough GUSHING

someone once said, and it was on some tv show that i cn't rememebr, Men become distunguished with age, as women are viewed as just being old.

Same can be said about weight. if a guy carries it well, it is overlooked. But someone like Britney Spears or Jessica Simpson goes up in weight a bit, they are cows.

With Women, alot depends on genenics, some get it in the boobs, arms tummy, will others highs & hips, just DEPENDS, as for men, a belly never bothered me, the hubby as little bit of one, but then again, i NEVER DUG SKINNY guys, preferred them with meat, mine was 190lbs in highschool, YUKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK, he looked awful, i like him around 200, 220 looks the best, just FEELS right to me lolllllll, ok sorry enough GUSHING

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

someone likes to ahve a soft teddy bear, i think. lollllll

(hear comes the slap now, lollll)

BRAVOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, GOD i couldnt have said it any better than that :hell yea!::hell yea!::hell yea!::hell yea!:

With Women, alot depends on genenics, some get it in the boobs, arms tummy, will others highs & hips, just DEPENDS, as for men, a belly never bothered me, the hubby as little bit of one, but then again, i NEVER DUG SKINNY guys, preferred them with meat, mine was 190lbs in highschool, YUKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK, he looked awful, i like him around 200, 220 looks the best, just FEELS right to me lolllllll, ok sorry enough GUSHING

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

someone likes to ahve a soft teddy bear, i think. lollllll

(hear comes the slap now, lollll)

*raising brow* :persuazn::persuazn::persuazn:

thank you. thank you.

jsut unfortunate that it is true though.

With Women, alot depends on genenics, some get it in the boobs, arms tummy, will others highs & hips, just DEPENDS, as for men, a belly never bothered me, the hubby as little bit of one, but then again, i NEVER DUG SKINNY guys, preferred them with meat, mine was 190lbs in highschool, YUKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK, he looked awful, i like him around 200, 220 looks the best, just FEELS right to me lolllllll, ok sorry enough GUSHING

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

someone likes to ahve a soft teddy bear, i think. lollllll

(hear comes the slap now, lollll)

*raising brow* :persuazn::persuazn::persuazn:

don't try anything, lollll

:jimmy: :jimmy:

i could KICK YOUR ASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS out of the park MR, NOW DOWN ON THOSE KNEE'S, and KISS MY FEET

Women need to quit listening to what society thinks they should look like.

Not everyone is built the same inside, a bigger bone structure or a small bone structure is a main factor in what your outside may look like.

The rest is up to each person.

If your 5'4" and a size 10/12 or a size 0/2 but you are healthy, fit and happy, then good for you and who cares what everyone else thinks or says.

Sorry Wolf, well said, thanks again

Your welcome.

Help anyway I can.

thanks Wolf, before she ended up kicking my ass. she is such a bruiser. lolllll

:evil: :evil:

The good ones are, glad to help

lolll. very true

For me and I think most will agree, if it's just because they are lazy and don't take care of themselves then weight is a issue, it shows they don't care and

if they don't care for them how can they care about someone else.

Well what you said applies to the majority of cases. I think for majority of people who are having weight issues, the cause is not something they can't control, like a health problem or something like that.

Please if your going to quote me include all the quote and not just a part of it. Above that sentence I also asked a question if the weight

is due to health reasons or just being lazy.

I agree there are exceptions to everything and that applies here. When there is a reason due to health or medical issues

then women need not worry about weight and if someone has a problem with it, then it's too bad for them

But if it's not, then my above statement still stands.

amen Wolf