Would you feel insulted if someone very ugly was trying to get with you?

To azgirl. I didn't consider your post to be offensive. blahblahblah

Well at least you didn't say something like... "you must be PSMing" Uggh..

And SS, I am beginning to see why you are single too.......lol... just kidding... blahblahblah

And as to physical unattractive, I guess you would have to not be the best looking to understand the criticism that comes with it.

Are you calling me ugly?

I am not calling you ugly ... I have no idea what you look like ...

Though I will say my wording sucks on that sentence.. I need to pay more attention to how I write some things...

To azgirl. I didn't consider your post to be offensive. blahblahblah

Well at least you didn't say something like... "you must be PSMing" Uggh..

And SS, I am beginning to see why you are single too.......lol... just kidding... blahblahblah

I hanestly wouldn't offended if an u natractive guy were hitting on me ... for me it would more be about how he hit on me.... if he came up and was a total jerk it doesn't matter if he is cute or not, I would be very offended and upset by his horrible actions... if that makes sense ... As far as I can see, it doesn't matter how they look, they find you attractive for some reason... and for that you should take some pride ....

I don't think that post made any sense ... anywho... I'm off to bed before I make myself look like anymore of an idiot

TR.. you have me laughin'..

pero debo decir....que?

why are you laughing? Are you laughing AT me? :trout:

I hanestly wouldn't offended if an u natractive guy were hitting on me ... for me it would more be about how he hit on me.... if he came up and was a total jerk it doesn't matter if he is cute or not, I would be very offended and upset by his horrible actions... if that makes sense ... As far as I can see, it doesn't matter how they look, they find you attractive for some reason... and for that you should take some pride ....

I don't think that post made any sense ... anywho... I'm off to bed before I make myself look like anymore of an idiot

haha you're so cute

I hanestly wouldn't offended if an u natractive guy were hitting on me ... for me it would more be about how he hit on me.... if he came up and was a total jerk...

If he just walks up and hits :lullaby: girls he doesn't even know, then he is a jerk . j/k .

Uhhhhhhh ... I think your post made less sense than mine did

I hanestly wouldn't offended if an u natractive guy were hitting on me ... for me it would more be about how he hit on me.... if he came up and was a total jerk it doesn't matter if he is cute or not, I would be very offended and upset by his horrible actions... if that makes sense ... As far as I can see, it doesn't matter how they look, they find you attractive for some reason... and for that you should take some pride ....

I don't think that post made any sense ... anywho... I'm off to bed before I make myself look like anymore of an idiot

TR.. you have me laughin'..

pero debo decir....que?

why are you laughing? Are you laughing AT me? :trout:

YES I am laughing at your lack of spell check... and I think this time you made less sense than me,,,LOL

Remember one thing. If you believe that God is around and He making you and put you in this world. Then no word is such king of ugly. What you know about beauty and ugly ? I don't believe that anything like ugly thing exist in this word. Someone looking good we think that he or she is beautiful because of our eyes, our minds. Think for a second. If you are ugly then ?

Remember one thing. If you believe that God is around and He making you and put you in this world. Then no word is such king of ugly. What you know about beauty and ugly ? I don't believe that anything like ugly thing exist in this word. Someone looking good we think that he or she is beautiful because of our eyes, our minds. Think for a second. If you are ugly then ?

we all live in a beautiful world

I have no problem with ugly guys asking me out or hitting on me... what I do have a problem with is the stupid pretty boys coming up and asking you out... then talking to you for hours on end every dya up to the date and then completely standing you up with no reason!!!

Not that this has ever happened to me personally

^ :knives:

Remember one thing. If you believe that God is around and He making you and put you in this world. Then no word is such king of ugly. What you know about beauty and ugly ?

There are ugly people, but they tend to be in the behavior and not the looks ..

To believe that God made everyone beautiful does not change when all live in the mind set God wants us to be in .. but everyone doesn't live there .. So there are people that even God doesn't see as beaustiful, even if the person has beauty skin deep.

I think ugly exists in the mind .. and if you get into the doctrine of God.. ugly exists in the choices we make.

I don't believe that anything like ugly thing exist in this world. Someone looking good we think that he or she is beautiful because of our eyes, our minds. Think for a second. If you are ugly then ?

If you go into what we see is beautiful.. Unattractive exists. there would not be so many different models even here that people like and dislike, if you talk about physical beauty there is preference for everyone.

I chose not to answer if I were ugly.. then I would have to be honest, but i think everyone has thought of that at one point. Even the gorgeous people tend to question things, especially as the beauty seems to fade.

I have no problem with ugly guys asking me out or hitting on me... what I do have a problem with is the stupid pretty boys coming up and asking you out... then talking to you for hours on end every dya up to the date and then completely standing you up with no reason!!!

Not that this has ever happened to me personally

So does this mean you will be picking the unattractive guys.. or .. does this mean you just are annoyed by the "pretty boys"?

I would say to who ever you mentioned should call it learning experience .. not everyone seems to know respect or courtesy, but remember never give someone like that anything more than they have already taken with the disrespect. As cold and as easy as it is said, move on .. go out anyway, who knows you may find the right one you would not have issues like this with as you enjoy the evening .. That is my thoughts of rejection and being stood up. Not that I know anything about that myself ..

I have no problem with ugly guys asking me out or hitting on me... what I do have a problem with is the stupid pretty boys coming up and asking you out... then talking to you for hours on end every dya up to the date and then completely standing you up with no reason!!!

Not that this has ever happened to me personally

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By the way can you give me his number? I still need to beat him up...

Even the gorgeous people tend to question things, especially as the beauty seems to fade.

Yeah. Most of the time ordinary people are much happier when they're around 40 but beautiful people get really stressed out about loosing the only thing people seem to recognize about them.

Oh my God I just add few lines and Az girl you wrote the hole thing ? Anyway right now I just reading thats all and think something about the creation of ugly and beauty.

Fact is, there are very few people that are VERY UGLY. Most people are somewhat average looking or less, then there are some ugly ones too. Besides, it all comes down to personal taste and stuff, some think the boys of that band Tokyo Hotel are superhot etc.

...wow, you guys are talking about ugly guys as if to be poked and prodded. It's pretty insulting, you know. It's pretty obvious the "Ugly" guys don't have much confidence and usually go for girls who "think" they can get or will get.

Besides, you ever heard of the expression, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"? A couple of years ago, this extremely beautiful girls was dating a pretty....as you say "ugly" guy and they were very much in love...or as love can be being teenagers. The fact is, everyone has there own tastes and interests but i consider people who categorizes people from ugly to beautiful are pretty high maintained and conceited. But i got no problem with that because most of my friends are like that...which kinda rubbed off on me...kinda.

Not insulted, but rather ashamed of myself for not wanting to get closer to them because I find them really physically unattractive.

with time, i realized i could date with beautiful or ugly guys, nothing change. when you're in love, you always think the lover is beautiful. that's why now, i don't really take care of their beauty. and as i already said, i think beauty is important only when you don't know what you want... or when you're a superficial person and interesting conversations are not your cup of tea. when you know what you're looking for (qualities), beauty is just a detail.

beautiful guys are just interesting for a "one night stand"... if they want more they need to be intelligent too.

there are few months ago (in april) i "dated" with a french model named Octave. he walked for fashion designer like Galliano, etc and he absolutely wanted to meet me and i wasn't very "motivate" but i accepted... many times i was near to cancel the date but i didn't.

at first, i knew he was friend with the best friend of my ex-boyfriend (the one who tried to choke me in a nightclub (at regine) when he saw me with another guy) so i told me, "oooh, he must be the same kind of boy..." BINGO! he was.

these kind of guys always think they came from an "elite" and the perfect life is a expensive car, a big apartment in an expensive district, party hard and be drunk everynight in famous nightclubs, take cocaine, smoke cigarettes, wear expensive clothes, date with sexy girls (but have a boring sexual life, that's reality), be famous, listen artist like Justice, Daft Punk, Phoenix and all this shitty stuff, they pretend they love music but they all listen the same music and have no real taste, same thing for the movies, photographer etc read Kerouac and Victor Hugo and everytime when you talk and if you made a "mistake" they are always here to tell you that you're wrong and play the teacher... i hate that! (and when he's left, i opened a dictionary and i was RIGHT and he was WRONG). these kind of boys interested me when i was 16-18 years old, but now i'm 23 years old and i just think they are pretty pathetic and boring. they are so a "stereotype" of their culture, of their lifestyle, they are all the same, like clones... as the society built their personality and they couldn't be someone else, themselves, take the risk to say "f*ck"

and understand life and people outside of their little world can be very interesting... but they must open their mind and i'm not sure they can...

when he opened the mouth it was always "me, myself and i" and "money, money, money". the perfect mix between a shopping channel seller and an escort boy.

and the worst was when we came back to my apartment. near to my building door there is often an homeless guy. he is adorable and i often talk with him. i tried to find my keys in my bag and he started to talk with us... oh my god, when octave learnt he was an homeless... he was so disgusting, and run in the bathroom to clean his hands. doesn't mean, people never wash their hands, but he didn't need to be so rude.

this homeless is always very clean, one of the cleanest that i ever met. i already meet and touched homeless people really worst than him, cover of grime and smelt the pee and garbage and i never react as he reacted. his behavior was very stupid and hurting. he didn't need to be so disgusted and contemptuous.

he certainly thought i would be charmed because he wasn't ugly and he was model (impossible to forget it, he repeated it all the time) but the result was the opposite.

finally, i just feel "insulted" because a cute guy tried to "get with me" just because of his beauty... please, i'm not so superficial. :yuckky:

i definitively prefer to be with an ugly be really interesting guy that to be with a guy like Octave don't have the feeling i lose my time

Well, there are a lot of ugly people who cans tells you ugly but they really are them.

This is an interesting topic. I have to say that there is a lot of bullshit in regard to this topic.

Everyone (or almost everyone) likes to claim that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but most of us still end up with the best-looking person we can drag back to our man- or woman-cave.

To claim that physical beauty does not matter in your choice or partner is almost always bullshit. That does not mean that it was the only factor, obviously.

Though being personally insulted because someone you are not attracted to tries to chat you up is a bit excessive. If they are respectful and not clingy once you have informed them you are not interested, what is the harm?

Well I know a lot of people who are really ugly and they pretend to say me ugly too, but therearen' t my style: I don' t like too much big men who don' t have pretty smile, men aren' t healthy and men like smoking, it is ugly!