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I have been in love one time and he cheated many times. I finally ended it a year and a half later. So I have been very unlucky
Why would you let him do this to you? Isn't that a reason to get rid of someone once you know for the first time?

I know its not an excuse but I was trying to make it work and I was blind and for the most part, stupid beyond belief. I really thought he could change that part of himself and make a commitment but he never will

since you were in love, you don't have to excuse it.
I also was blind for a girl, that in retrospective, did not deserve such attention.
I even wrote her a song... regrettably.

Well Pierre, one of these days we will find someone worthwhile

I think I've been very lucky to have been in a loving relationship at 19 and especially lucky in that she was an intelligent, uniquely fascinating woman 6 1/2 years older than me. We learned a lot from each other, and
I gave her all my come for a year..
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. Some of the happiest moments in my life was spent with her, especially since at age 19 everything one experiences is intense and vivid in the brain. I haven't seen her for many years and she is married now.
I believe in retrospect that this particular experience will continue to be a important period of my life even though it has faded and I have a mental block whenever I happen to stumble upon it in my thoughts. The past is the past, and insights have been extracted so what is left is to live forward. It was truly lucky for I to have met her, as at a relatively early age I loved someone genuinely, passionately, and with all the willpower I could achieve at the time so forever more I will have known.

Well Pierre, one of these days we will find someone worthwhile
I have found her, finally ![]()
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it just took so damn long.

Good hun!

I hope my gushing doesn't bother anybody :l

Not at all Cult

Not at all Cult
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It's been many years since then but whenever I think of her I can't help but..yeah, you know, remember. It's that first one that seems to sink in really deep. The later relationships are more predictable, they kind of...fall a bit more and more predictably in place.

Same as usual with this new girl.
She has a BF never told me. blah blah.
Moving on.

I met my very 1st girlfriend one day after my 31st birthday, beat that you so called unlucky ones![]()
Holy crap!
Does this mean you didn't lose your virginity until then either? ![]()

Same as usual with this new girl.She has a BF never told me. blah blah.
Moving on.
You're a kid Limer!
I'm still in this boat ten years later. After a while getting dumped or rejected gets old...
In retrospect, the girl I was with for a long time back in college was my best relationship to date. Of course it ended with her dumping me for another guy as well.
Ever since then, nothing has lasted beyond a couple of months.

Y'all do realize i'm 19 now not a kid <_<

Y'all do realize i'm 19 now not a kid <_<
Once you get to be my age, you'll realize that 19 years old is still a kid. ![]()

Y'all do realize i'm 19 now not a kid <_<Once you get to be my age, you'll realize that 19 years old is still a kid.
Why do i suddenly get a picture of this 50 year old Belgian man with way too many candi photos in his man cave? ![]()
Kidding ![]()

Y'all do realize i'm 19 now not a kid <_<Once you get to be my age, you'll realize that 19 years old is still a kid.
Why do i suddenly get a picture of this 50 year old Belgian man with way too many candi photos in his man cave?
Kidding
I'm not that much older than you!
Just a decade... ![]()

Y'all do realize i'm 19 now not a kid <_<Once you get to be my age, you'll realize that 19 years old is still a kid.
Why do i suddenly get a picture of this 50 year old Belgian man with way too many candi photos in his man cave?
Kidding
I'm not that much older than you!
Just a decade...
But you still have a man cave no? :morning:

Well I'm guessing any sort of bachelor pad will be considered a man cave, no? ![]()

and the prob comes when u r single for too long,u go ard and see couples cuddling here,kissing there making u feel like so lonely and started asking urself,where is "she"?this feeling not gd man.