Unlucky in Love

and the prob comes when u r single for too long,u go ard and see couples cuddling here,kissing there making u feel like so lonely and started asking urself,where is "she"?this feeling not gd man.

When you get older and your hormones die down you don't feel as passionate towards the opposite sex as you once did. I like this relaxed more mature feel and think it's a lot better than all garbage I went through over women as a younger man. :neo2:

I think what happens with knowledge and experience is that one's emotional wavelength adjusts and experiences significant decreases in volatility. Ups and downs..

Also, there is a lot of social pressure to experience a relationship for the first time.

Y'all do realize i'm 19 now not a kid <_<

Once you get to be my age, you'll realize that 19 years old is still a kid.

From 19 onward I was literally a different person @ 22, and a much different person @ 25. Heh..

My first girlfriend told me several times that 'You have a mind of 30 + year old man'. I believed that her opinion was accurate at the time. I think of that now and laugh..

When you get older and your hormones die down you don't feel as passionate towards the opposite sex as you once did. I like this relaxed more mature feel and think it's a lot better than all garbage I went through over women as a younger man. :neo2:

That scares me I enjoy my state of how i am not looking forward to it dying down.

When you get older and your hormones die down you don't feel as passionate towards the opposite sex as you once did. I like this relaxed more mature feel and think it's a lot better than all garbage I went through over women as a younger man. :neo2:

That scares me I enjoy my state of how i am not looking forward to it dying down.

I think it's different for everyone...

That scares me I enjoy my state of how i am not looking forward to it dying down.

Being 19 years old is (relatively) volatile time sink and a bunch of baggage. Haha! There's some ups to that, but seriously though, it's better for most to exercise some diversification (which will come, increasing with age). Can't have much of your emotional energy sunk into a relationship or one endeavor for the rest of your life..it's the equivalent of putting all your eggs in one basket.

I feel like joining in this discussion, but I'd hate to break up all the testosterone driven dialogue.

That scares me I enjoy my state of how i am not looking forward to it dying down.

Being 19 years old is (relatively) volatile time sink and a bunch of baggage. Haha! There's some ups to that, but seriously though, it's better for most to exercise some diversification (which will come, increasing with age). Can't have much of your emotional energy sunk into a relationship or one endeavor for the rest of your life..it's the equivalent of putting all your eggs in one basket.

I remember myself at 19 years old and being in "hormone hell" so too speak. Everytime one of my friends got a girl I became so jealous to the point where it felt like a knife being twisted inside me. Now at 39 a lot of life's questions have been answered and things are just at a simpler, slower pace than my younger years. My "big relationship" has been had as well as other ladies in my life. No I don't party till 4am on weekends like I used to in 1993 anymore but looking back, I didn't even really enjoy being young (although my life was tragic in youth) and I was the type who staying home with a good movie on TV was what I really enjoyed doing anyway. Yeah I think everyone is different in how they are and what they prefer.

I feel like joining in this discussion, but I'd hate to break up all the testosterone driven dialogue.

Can i have a hug while you're here?

That scares me I enjoy my state of how i am not looking forward to it dying down.

Being 19 years old is (relatively) volatile time sink and a bunch of baggage. Haha! There's some ups to that, but seriously though, it's better for most to exercise some diversification (which will come, increasing with age). Can't have much of your emotional energy sunk into a relationship or one endeavor for the rest of your life..it's the equivalent of putting all your eggs in one basket.

I used to but i don't anymore. I barely look past what's 10 minutes from now so

I feel like joining in this discussion, but I'd hate to break up all the testosterone driven dialogue.

Can i have a hug while you're here?

I want one too if she's giving free hugs!

I feel like joining in this discussion, but I'd hate to break up all the testosterone driven dialogue.

Can i have a hug while you're here?

Anyone who wants a hug is welcome to come up and snuggle in!

Anyone who wants a hug is welcome to come up and snuggle in!

I met my very 1st girlfriend one day after my 31st birthday, beat that you so called unlucky ones

Holy crap!

Does this mean you didn't lose your virginity until then either?

I met my very 1st girlfriend one day after my 31st birthday, beat that you so called unlucky ones

Holy crap!

Does this mean you didn't lose your virginity until then either?

exactly

I bet losing your virginity later in life is more common than one would think.

I met my very 1st girlfriend one day after my 31st birthday, beat that you so called unlucky ones

Holy crap!

Does this mean you didn't lose your virginity until then either?

exactly

I bet losing your virginity later in life is more common than one would think.

Based on a recent survey in Belgium, 15% of 24-year olds had yet to lose theirs. I was shocked the number was so high!

I met my very 1st girlfriend one day after my 31st birthday, beat that you so called unlucky ones

Holy crap!

Does this mean you didn't lose your virginity until then either?

exactly

I bet losing your virginity later in life is more common than one would think.

yeah, but I also read, the older you get the lower the chances will become

what vicious circle, but luckily I kind of broke out of that

I met my very 1st girlfriend one day after my 31st birthday, beat that you so called unlucky ones

Holy crap!

Does this mean you didn't lose your virginity until then either?

exactly

I bet losing your virginity later in life is more common than one would think.

yeah, but I also read, the older you get the lower the chances will become

what vicious circle, but luckily I kind of broke out of that

Well I was 30 when I lost mine and for a while I was on a hot streak with sex. Now the hot streak is over...to put it mildly.

boys, you're scaring!

means, love, yes, that's something nice and blablabla but when i read it, i have the feeling that you expected to find the "perfect love" and in the end, you look very desperate... like you were the kind of guys who need love and can't flirt and have fun with a partner. as you expected someone could change your life and that's really creepy because when you fell in love with someone, you love him for what he actually is. i couldn't fell in love with someone who's already ready to change his life because of me, who will be "obsessed" by me. for me it's a kind of mental masturbation maybe i can sound rude, but it's a kind of parasite.

and i think that's really scaring and unhealthy, as he was scared to be judged, make mistakes, take risks, say "i love you" because you really love a boy or a girl's personality and not because you would like to be married with this person. and when i meet this kind of partner, i just wanna lock the bath room's door, pretend i'm need to pee, open the window, jump by the window and run far away from him. really far away! because this kind of guy is not lead by his faith(religion), so he won't spend 6 month with someone and refuse sex... and maybe i'm totally wrong, but in my opinion this kind of situation can block the potential partner. by the way, more people wait, more they are desperate and in the end, they have no choice and have sex/date with the first person they could date/f*ck.

this kind of partner block me because i have the feeling they are not HAPPY... they create their own problem, they are not realistic, too serious and they often complain about the life they chose. i can date with someone who has troubles because of his health, money, family, organisation, addiction etc. i can deal with it because i HELP him, but i'm not his solution... and when his problems are over, he can be independante and he doesn't act like a lost puppet.

of course, after a while, this is normal to be "dependant" because you built your life with your lover. but at the beggining of a relationship, i wonder if this guy was really in love with my personality or was just in love with the thing i could represent and becasue i save him from his loneliness. and maybe i'm wrong, but i think i'm not the only one who's scared by the kind of situations...

people really should stop to be so serious and expected something "incredible" from love because A : their life won't be better and B : they could be really disappointed.