Unlucky in Love

but baby that's only your side of the story...

there is more to life than what you make up in your mind right now

and there is definitely a lot more to love than "something nice and blablabla"

and yes you seem very typically scared like 99.999999999999999% of all the girls out there.

but what the heck? what is so scary about that? if girls give such a guy a try they will make him more happy than anything + someone who does not get love so easily / early might put a lot more value to that than just the regular blabla relationship. but maybe in the end 99.999999999999999% of all girls don't deserve to be treated that good...?

WTF you guys talking about?

I don't know

it seems like this is something about the "adorable egomaniac" and the shyness disease"

boys, you're scaring!

means, love, yes, that's something nice and blablabla but when i read it, i have the feeling that you expected to find the "perfect love" and in the end, you look very desperate... like you were the kind of guys who need love and can't flirt and have fun with a partner. as you expected someone could change your life and that's really creepy because when you fell in love with someone, you love him for what he actually is. i couldn't fell in love with someone who's already ready to change his life because of me, who will be "obsessed" by me. for me it's a kind of mental masturbation maybe i can sound rude, but it's a kind of parasite.

people really should stop to be so serious and expected something "incredible" from love because A : their life won't be better and B : they could be really disappointed.

Miss Baby,

I think what was discussed was teenage relationships or just 'first loves', which are always kind of intense (and silly, in retrospect).

As for perspective- you seem to be occupying a flexible & privileged position in the relationship or dating market- not everybody has the physical form, individual pedigree, time resources, human capital & monies, emotional availability, or the desire, for instance, to engage (with a high level of liquidity) in long term relationships, frequent affairs, or enjoy regular casual sex.

For instance, I am quite time poor, which affects my ability to maintain active long term relationships.

well said, cult!!! (Y) (Y) (Y)

can't find a guy who is willing to commit

On 2/7/2011 at 6:38 AM, Cult Icon said:

Miss Baby,

I think what was discussed was teenage relationships or just 'first loves', which are always kind of intense (and silly, in retrospect).

As for perspective- you seem to be occupying a flexible & privileged position in the relationship or dating market- not everybody has the physical form, individual pedigree, time resources, human capital & monies, emotional availability, or the desire, for instance, to engage (with a high level of liquidity) in long term relationships, frequent affairs, or enjoy regular casual sex.

For instance, I am quite time poor, which affects my ability to maintain active long term relationships.

Money is not all in love relathionship, there are a lot of people who only want the money of their partner, and it is sad. 

i always fall in love with the man, not their things. Of course I love Christian Grey and Ana love story, but not only the luxurie mood: I think my "Christian Grey" is not billionarie, but I prefer a worked man with university studies and work, than the rich man who pay to have sex with girls, models or beauty women

And, why a woman can't send some flowers a man, and some men can rape a woman wih shor skirt? Sorry, I don' understand it

I wouldn't say I'm unlucky, I just dont go out much, and don't even try, my brother though. He doesn't even try either, its not even a thought on his mind, but boy is he blind. I've seen his  friends clearly be interested in him, and he just doesnt notice it when its so obvious.

I am tired msn I want, man who tries to let me for another one. Not always prettier o nicer, no. Or not always  are in love or have good love relathionship. The question I lose my interesting in them, they always prefer more or another ones, and maybe they are nothing (that men, some women too, of course, when I saw they have bad styles or ugly hair...). Last month I felt really really sad, summer time and always alone, or not the mutual love. Well, I hope they enjoying their decissions.

I still feeling unlucky in love, because people think be 2 is easier, and not. But I am till living my life, alone since 2008, happy in a lot of ways, hopefull, and knowing what I am and want. Life is not only a couple or social status, cook or make love to me, and well, it is good have platonic love to love, and think in what you want... Better live and think in that way than stay with anybody, marry in bad way... The best: I still happy to still happy 😁🥰😺😍

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On 4/24/2022 at 2:50 AM, Tania82 said:

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do you think your standards for men are too high?

8 hours ago, Cult Icon said:

 

do you think your standards for men are too high?

I think it is possible, but it depends how is the person with the other one. Maybe with 1 person is not feeling, but with another one more compatible.