The Anti-Relationship Thread

Az, there will be no looking for a heart to match mine. Just girls that like to party. Toobs just wants to party. There will be none of that hoaky L-word nonsense in my life for a while.

So no to lipstick lesbians it is then?

Actually having spent a summer in Salvador and Rio de Janeiro, I cannot disagree with the above statements about Brazilian women being endowed with extreme beauty.

Az, there will be no looking for a heart to match mine. Just girls that like to party. Toobs just wants to party. There will be none of that hoaky L-word nonsense in my life for a while.

Hence my statement.. not to break too many hearts. And as you may have found.. you can not control your heart when it wants someone. For you it may not be the right heart as much as timing.

And i never mentioned endowment in the beauty of Brazilian women, they have other assets you know..

Brazillian women are hot (I bet you even Toobs would approve)

Actually having spent a summer in Salvador and Rio de Janeiro, I cannot disagree with the above statements about Brazilian women being endowed with extreme beauty.

Actually, then you just met a side of Brazil. I'm no example of beauty.

Rachel.. WOW.. you really seemed to have picked a real winner who seems to want his freedom but not let anyone have you while he has his thrills.. kick him to the curb and I would not say he is worth going back to.. But our ignorant hearts tend to play us when it comes to what would be logical sometimes. i hope your heart isn't tied into him to wait until he comes around. I hope you instead, have fun searching for someone to sweep you off your feet.. and remember it doesn't have to be serious to run into the right one. Just never let anyone control you by letting their jealousy hinder your happiness again.

Thank you, and I'm actually doing that... No waiting, no crying... I have one ignorant heart, but he's tired too, finally.

He's now thinking of getting back with me, and now I'm the one escaping. lol

Rachel.. WOW.. you really seemed to have picked a real winner who seems to want his freedom but not let anyone have you while he has his thrills.. kick him to the curb and I would not say he is worth going back to.. But our ignorant hearts tend to play us when it comes to what would be logical sometimes. i hope your heart isn't tied into him to wait until he comes around. I hope you instead, have fun searching for someone to sweep you off your feet.. and remember it doesn't have to be serious to run into the right one. Just never let anyone control you by letting their jealousy hinder your happiness again.

Thank you, and I'm actually doing that... No waiting, no crying... I have one ignorant heart, but he's tired too, finally.

He's now thinking of getting back with me, and now I'm the one escaping. lol

Good for you.. stay strong. Let your mind do the thinking for a while and you may find that one man who is so much better one day. For now, have fun let life lead you where you need to go and don't miss a beat of it. If the man for you is there, you will find him in the perfect way for you. I keep getting told that person is out there so don't settle for someone who may or may not change. Life is tooo short.

And BTW beauty is in the eye of the beholder so you should never claim to not be an example beautiful .. you should never think yourself being less than perfect for who you are .. and with that knowing you have beauty can be confidence worth having. And that can be so much more beautiful than the images we even see even here.

Actually having spent a summer in Salvador and Rio de Janeiro, I cannot disagree with the above statements about Brazilian women being endowed with extreme beauty.

How about Brazilian Men and their endowment?

:x I didn't need to know that last post :|

:x I didn't need to know that last post :|

A lot of passion +

small

pepe = great sex?

don't think so

just kidding .. REALLY :| KIDDING.

I'm no longer posting where Ire posts :x

I'm no longer posting where Ire posts :x

So i've spent most of the day again thinking, as I have nothing else to do.

And the more i think about maybe being in a realationship the more it scares the crap out of me. :| The whole idea of being tied down to one person, getting really close to that person and possibly spending the rest of your life with them, it's a scary scary thought. I don't think I can get close to anyone cause i have major MAJOR trust issues.

Go no realationships.

And ire, i joke i joke

So i've spent most of the day again thinking, as I have nothing else to do.

And the more i think about maybe being in a realationship the more it scares the crap out of me. :| The whole idea of being tied down to one person, getting really close to that person and possibly spending the rest of your life with them, it's a scary scary thought. I don't think I can get close to anyone cause i have major MAJOR trust issues.

Go no realationships.

And ire, i joke i joke

I have trust issues, too. And the person that i really connect with is my bestfriend and he's great. We are so mutual about a lotta things but there's a downside to it, cuz we don't verbally state where we stand, so that's a bit ...

But anw, had a lengthy chat with a couple of friends last friday and i sort of hated the idea of love at this moment, so i think i shall hold out for now.

You all are young . enjoy life. It is far to short to settle .. especially now. Have fun and get to know as many people as you can. Don't take it so serious. Just have fun and enjoy life, when you are ready to settle the right person will come, trust me.

Ire and Limi I hope you do learn to trust someone. It is good to have someone to have your back. I understand not being able to trust.. I have found not to just hand trust to anyone as well. But you need to put some walls down to allow to trust in. It might benefit you in the long run.

I've let people in before and I got hurt pretty badly each time. So opening up to people is still a work in progress. Yes as you said don't just open up to anyone, but it's hard deciding who you can really trust and who you can't. I thought I could trust the people I had really opened up to, but that back fired majorly. It's not easy to build back up that confidence to be able to trust someone, or even for that matter people as a whole. I just don't see it happening anytime soon. That and the fact no-one I know really "gets me" and who I really am.

I've let people in before and I got hurt pretty badly each time. So opening up to people is still a work in progress. Yes as you said don't just open up to anyone, but it's hard deciding who you can really trust and who you can't. I thought I could trust the people I had really opened up to, but that back fired majorly. It's not easy to build back up that confidence to be able to trust someone, or even for that matter people as a whole. I just don't see it happening anytime soon. That and the fact no-one I know really "gets me" and who I really am.

i feel the same wayy!

AZ, but idk why i'm so keen on seriousness, i guess it's just part of who i am. Like, i don't wanna have "fun" cuz i don't wanna get hurt and indulge in "risk".

I've let people in before and I got hurt pretty badly each time. So opening up to people is still a work in progress. Yes as you said don't just open up to anyone, but it's hard deciding who you can really trust and who you can't. I thought I could trust the people I had really opened up to, but that back fired majorly. It's not easy to build back up that confidence to be able to trust someone, or even for that matter people as a whole. I just don't see it happening anytime soon. That and the fact no-one I know really "gets me" and who I really am.

i feel the same wayy!

AZ, but idk why i'm so keen on seriousness, i guess it's just part of who i am. Like, i don't wanna have "fun" cuz i don't wanna get hurt and indulge in "risk".

Ire i think we're the same person Cause that's exactly how I am I never really want to take a risk because I don't know what's going to happen, and I'm afraid of what could happen.

I've let people in before and I got hurt pretty badly each time. So opening up to people is still a work in progress. Yes as you said don't just open up to anyone, but it's hard deciding who you can really trust and who you can't. I thought I could trust the people I had really opened up to, but that back fired majorly. It's not easy to build back up that confidence to be able to trust someone, or even for that matter people as a whole. I just don't see it happening anytime soon. That and the fact no-one I know really "gets me" and who I really am.

i feel the same wayy!

AZ, but idk why i'm so keen on seriousness, i guess it's just part of who i am. Like, i don't wanna have "fun" cuz i don't wanna get hurt and indulge in "risk".

Ire i think we're the same person Cause that's exactly how I am I never really want to take a risk because I don't know what's going to happen, and I'm afraid of what could happen.

Wow, it's liQe.. you're the "Male" version of my "Not Telling"

I've let people in before and I got hurt pretty badly each time. So opening up to people is still a work in progress. Yes as you said don't just open up to anyone, but it's hard deciding who you can really trust and who you can't. I thought I could trust the people I had really opened up to, but that back fired majorly. It's not easy to build back up that confidence to be able to trust someone, or even for that matter people as a whole. I just don't see it happening anytime soon. That and the fact no-one I know really "gets me" and who I really am.

i feel the same wayy!

AZ, but idk why i'm so keen on seriousness, i guess it's just part of who i am. Like, i don't wanna have "fun" cuz i don't wanna get hurt and indulge in "risk".

Ire i think we're the same person Cause that's exactly how I am I never really want to take a risk because I don't know what's going to happen, and I'm afraid of what could happen.

Wow, it's liQe.. you're the "Male" version of my "Not Telling"

Fear is a huge enemy for living and can imobilize people. I am not saying to go out and have sex with everyone you meet or date. In fact I am not really saying to go on date, instead go out with friends as friends. Whether it is guys or girls or both. Just have fun and get of that rut we tend to put ourselves in. Having such serious relationships so young in life can result in good things but in several cases no one is really ready and it can turn out badly or be a strong struggle. I have learned to live less serious when seriousness and responsibility is not necessary. There is times to do what is necessary and there is times to relax and have some fun.

Ire, what is your "Not Telling"?

Toobs has a stalker...

Stalker? alright you have a fan now..

Uh yeah... fan I guess...

My phone has been getting texts like non-stop