General Discussion

2 minutes ago, PinkCouture said:

^ Ay-yi-yi...  

 

Maybe for now just let the dust settle and not engage with her unless you absolutely have to  Did she specifically say what about your posting she dislikes? I have no issues with her but sometimes she does get very upset over petty things  I remember for awhile she was passive-aggressive about other members getting a thread before her  

 

 

She say's I jump to conclusion's too much. She thinks when I point out a model is with him or at the same party group that I'm insinuating they are in a relationship, which is not the case. I also criticized Leo today because there was a report and a couple different tweets from audience members that Leo seemed disruptive at a Seth McFarlene show, and I said shame on you Leo you know better, and she said I am too quick to judge and that he's not perfect. She is one of those Leo fans that everything he does is right in her eyes. And it's not like I criticize Leo all the time, I rarely do but when he does stupid things like that or will fly private to an environmental meeting, I point it out. Leo was kind of seeing a 19 year old girl for about a minute and alot of people in the thread criticized him for it, and she said that she hopes he dates a 17 year old girl next just to show people how he doesn't care.  Like seriously?

I don't even quote her or post at her to begin with, ever since she sent me the first PM months back how she doesn't like me I just ignore her and don't address her in the thread at all until now which she posted in the thread that Leo isn't perfect, and then I responded it was still quite rude of him (It's all there in the recent posts if you want to see) then sent me the latest PM.

It just pisses me off that I'm over here apologizing to her that I'll try to control my posting (I guess) and she's not even acknowledging me asking her why she keeps being so rude to me, etc. 

So I guess she's done talking to me. I am furious right now. I am trying to keep my cool and not type fuck you.

From Fash:

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I never said I disliked you. I said we disliked eachother because I felt you didn't like me too. 

 

But whatever, I've already moved on from this. This  PM was to try and move on. Looks like we aren't actually moving on because we are still talking about it lol 

 

She isn't acknowledging or wanting to talk about any of the things that I've said. I am so upset I feel like crying right now I don't know why this is getting to me so much. I'm extremely sensitive and just her always shading me outside of Bellazon is just so upsetting and she isn't even admitting that she did anything wrong. I'm over here apologizing for how I post, which I shouldn't be, and telling her how I feel she is rude to me and she just keeps turning it back on me.

From me now trying to be cool:

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I want to move on, I really do. but I'm sick of apologizing and you aren't willing to apologize back. You have been terribly rude and unkind to me in the past, and when I would want to talk to you about Leo related stuff you would just ignore me until it was something you wanted to talk about. I'm just letting my feelings out right now but it was frustrating being ignored all the time.

 

I really hope that getting our feelings out will be good. Just because we are still talking doesn't mean that we can't move on, it's clear we've got some things to say, and it will be good I think  

 

I'm sorry to post this all here you guys, it's just really upsetting me/stressing me out.  

Now she sent this to me:

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"Im sorry you feel that way. Like I already said I felt you didn't treat me good either. So there are things about eachother, we both don't like... which makes sense. Just because you don't see it doesn't mean I don't feel the same way too. i notice you'll thank others and completely ignore me and that's been going on for years. You apologized? Ok, I apologize too. 

 

i don't know what else to say, I guess I should have never sent you this PM  Either way, whatever, that's been bothering us has been put out in the open and I think that's how it should be.

 

we don't need to talk in PM in the future or anything,, but atleast we just told eachother how we felt. "

 

I have told her (and others) as long as you are not bashing him there is nothing wrong with criticizing Leo. He is human like the rest of us---not perfect. He has flaws and does dumbass things like the rest of us. It is unrealistic to only point out the positives and ignore the negatives. Honestly I doubt he cares about being criticized. I sometimes think many of his fans don't get most guys don't care if they get ripped on.  Also, Leo didn't become successful without having a thick skin. He can take being made poked fun of and called out. If Leo was a member I seriously think he would say this to some of the members here:

^Truuuueeee.

I don't think people know this about me but I'm extremely sensitive, like I'm crying right now  I mean I am sitting there trying to talk to her and she's not willing to admit that she's done anything wrong or that she is not to blame in all this. All her responses are like "Whatever"

I know it's stupid and just internet stuff on a stupid fucking forum, but I'm really sensitive and that shit gets to me and makes me sad, especially when she is so willing to say these things yet not take any blame or act like she did anything wrong. 

I'm sorry you guys all had to read that, I know it probably sounds really stupid and childish. But I've had a really shitty couple of days and then logging on here and seeing that message was just the icing on the cake. 

I tried to leave things off on a positive note and told her that I hope we can move and I hope she has a nice day.  

2 minutes ago, katchitup said:

^Truuuueeee.

 

I don't think people know this about me but I'm extremely sensitive, like I'm crying right now  I mean I am sitting there trying to talk to her and she's not willing to admit that she's done anything wrong or that she is not to blame in all this. All her responses are like "Whatever"

 

I know it's stupid and just internet stuff on a stupid fucking forum, but I'm really sensitive and that shit gets to me and makes me sad, especially when she is so willing to say these things yet not take any blame or act like she did anything wrong. 

It's ok. Don't worry about it!  You feel how you feel and you can't help it. Emotions are very illogical so don't try apply logic to them. You could only control your actions and behaviors based on those emotions

With apologies, you could only give it if you think you did something "wrong." It is a personal and individual thing---you need to make that decision for yourself. With that said, the more you ask for an apology the less likely you would get it. And for some it takes time to be able to apologize. Not saying you will or will not get an apology from FD---I don't know. If she doesn't apologize you need to figure out a way to accept it and not let it affect you. As long as you did your part by owning up to your contribution and used your best judgement on handling the situation you should be fine

Please let us know if there is anything else we could do to better support you  Take care!  

14 minutes ago, PinkCouture said:

 

It's ok. Don't worry about it!  You feel how you feel and you can't help it. Emotions are very illogical so don't try apply logic to them. You could only control your actions and behaviors based on those emotions

 

With apologies, you could only give it if you think you did something "wrong." It is a personal and individual thing---you need to make that decision for yourself. With that said, the more you ask for an apology the less likely you would get it. And for some it takes time to be able to apologize. Not saying you will or will not get an apology from FD---I don't know. If she doesn't apologize you need to figure out a way to accept it and not let it affect you. As long as you did your part by owning up to your contribution and used your best judgement on handling the situation you should be fine

 

Please let us know if there is anything else we could do to better support you  Take care!  

Thank you very much for your kind words.

I'm not really asking for an apology just for her to admit in the slightest that she hasn't been the nicest or say something that she has done, but she won't. Sigh. 

Like I said life has been really shitting on me lately and when that happens I like to come here for solace, then to come on and see that just really upset me. Anyways I'm sorry I wrapped you guys up in this and posted all this  

Hun, I honestly suggest just ignoring her all together. You both have a right to say what you want as long as it's not "bashing", and she's clearly got some issues when it comes to Leo so at this point it doesn't matter what you say or do, she's going to be against it. If she has an issue then she can bring it up with us. 

11 hours ago, Prettyphile said:

Hun, I honestly suggest just ignoring her all together. You both have a right to say what you want as long as it's not "bashing", and she's clearly got some issues when it comes to Leo so at this point it doesn't matter what you say or do, she's going to be against it. If she has an issue then she can bring it up with us. 

Thanks. The last message I sent her  I just said I want to leave things off on a positive note (because I'm drama free as fuck and hate conflict) and said well I hope we can work through this and wouldn't mind talking with you again. And told her to have a nice day. She replied saying that next time she shouldn't wait months to tell me the issues she has with my posts and that she should just say it right away instead of just ignoring  I didn't respond and she left the convo..

So the guy in the Elsa Hosk thread is precious.

2 minutes ago, SympathysSilhouette said:

So the guy in the Elsa Hosk thread is precious.

 

He's going to be done soon so no it's all good  

He/she - is a special snowflake and you're all just being aggressive haters.

^ I am ok with that...and being an asshole

Just got a request from he/she to delete his/her account.

Oh dear.

BTW Pinky, your set is very distracting (in a good way).

Oh, that's too bad. He was only just starting to grow on me.

5 hours ago, SympathysSilhouette said:

Just got a request from he/she to delete his/her account.

 

Oh dear.

 

BTW Pinky, your set is very distracting (in a good way).

Yes, so he could start a new account and do the same BS again

As long as it is in a good way!

17 hours ago, Michael* said:

Oh, that's too bad. He was only just starting to grow on me.

I just checked to see how many followers and I went from 52 followers to 1? o.o

Edit it looks like every single person lost all their followers