Limerlight

:| What in the hell are you doing around here? :| Let alone posting in my thread? I'm so confused.... But.. nevermind... So many questions...

The more the merrier .

How can it annoy you? you must share when you figure this out as I LOVE DRAGONBALL it was an amazing show Dragonball Dragonball Z to a point GT..... but not really

I think it has to do with the glorification of geek culture and how women who fit into are only deemed sexy because it's seen as something 'guys like' and so 'rare' and where as when a woman likes shopping or make-up it's eye-roll worthy. annoying, and obvious. Geek women are viewed as a commodity or an archetype not really as a general person who shares an interest. Not saying that all men see it through that lense, but I just thought I'd bring up the negative since we already covered the positive.

I'm debbie-downer after all.

*pisses on tha parade*

LOL !

A list of things that Bellazon would not be the same without:

Superfans/superhaters (Kate Upton): I used to like her a lot more before but then the Cat Daddy video came out (her legs looked bad IMO) and the constant bitching in her thread she's not a model she should do playboy she's too big this and that and this and that I even saw some double of not triple dipping from the Bar/Candice people to defend their girl(s) Let me remind some people, KATE IS YOUNGER THEN I AM by almost a year, and I'm only 20. She's going to be around for awhile live with it, and if you think she's too fat or should do playboy or whatever, I think for a lot of women doing Playboy would be an honor so you're really bashing her

Superfans/superhaters (Candice division): One day she's fat, then she's skinny then she's perfect then someone says she has no ass and they get attacked one person posts a picture and 20 people go OMG SHE'S PURRRFECT <333 I WANT HER BABIES Then one person says one thing that she doesn't look perfect and superfans gogogo into attack mode.

Superfans (Bar division): OMG HER BODY IS AMAZING! "I think her body is amazing but her face is kinda meh" HER FACE IS AMAZING TOO EVERYTHING ABOUT HER IS AMAZING SHE DATED LEO I LOVE LEO TOO I think this part of the forum has been brought up enough so we'll end that there.

Superfans (Nina division) I have to admit i was quite enamored with her for awhile until i found how tiny she really was and how much she gets photoshopped BUT WAIT SHE'S PERFECT TOO lets only talk about her and say how amazing she is and wonderful and si doesn't appreciate her and everything else

Joe > Average: I think this speaks for itself, imagine Bellazon without Joe. I know you can't right? How boring it would be without our admin to post with and see his thoughts on the world, though we still have yet to see him (JOE) it's all good.

Prettyphile: Again i think this one is self explanatory, mind you Pretty might be to "literal" for some and she's a big mean scary lady I've heard (she's a real softy ) Or people have said other nasty things which I won't repeat because they're so god dam silly And she's my WoW buddy whenever she plays again!

AnaBBarrosFan: Much like Pretty too real/literal for some people, and people will view her as mean, cynical and not nice. Oh a strong willed woman has an opinion about something she's such a bitch right? Last time I checked it's 2012 not 1950 get over it women are people too that have a mind and can speak if they want to, much like Pretty as well, they're not being bitchy.

Last but certainly not least: Si Swimsuit superfans (Pretty/Pheno are not included as they mostly do scans for people who steal them and say it's their own or people say it's not good enough or aren't thankful just to clear that up) This is an odd group to me, SI comes out once a year and there's atleast oh.. 25-30? i'd say people that year round are obsessed with SI "IS SO AND SO IN THIS? DOES THIS LOOK LIKE NINA? IS BAR COMING BACK? OMG IT LOOKS LIKE BAR!! MY MODEL'S NOT IN SI THIS SUCKS"

Thanks for the shout out, honey.

Didn't know people felt so strongly about me though. Mean and cynical. Shit.

AWESOME! :chicken: :chicken: :chicken: :chicken: :chicken: :chicken: :chicken:

Well thanks for the shout out . Its all better for having your green Canadian arse around too .

I was too busy laughing on the nerd thing to throw my two cents in. Although what you say is unfortunately probably true overall, you forgot one obvious fact :morning: . That is that most nerdes lack social skills in general even when talking to the average guy and naturally aren't the smoothest in talking to women. As a result, a girl that's into what they're into is naturally a comfort to them as it makes the lines of communication easier. Of course, I'm referring to the true nerds, not the average man that really isn't a nerd but just dabbles in some nerd type things because that's 'modern man' thing to do.

I wanna see AnaBB's response before I comment Joe and no problem Plus you never got back to me about what we discussed :persuazn: I would like to know

I didn't think you'd feel that strongly about what others thought about you hun But i know the truth And how you really are. :evil:

Well thanks for the shout out . Its all better for having your green Canadian arse around too .

I was too busy laughing on the nerd thing to throw my two cents in. Although what you say is unfortunately probably true overall, you forgot one obvious fact :morning: . That is that most nerdes lack social skills in general even when talking to the average guy and naturally aren't the smoothest in talking to women. As a result, a girl that's into what they're into is naturally a comfort to them as it makes the lines of communication easier. Of course, I'm referring to the true nerds, not the average man that really isn't a nerd but just dabbles in some nerd type things because that's 'modern man' thing to do.

I leave you with this:

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Gaming/pop culture nerds have no fucking problem talking to women, they just don't respect them. Their social skills are just fine.

The nerds you are referring to are a rare species. They exist in movies and television shows. I have yet to meet a single one who doesn't fall into at least one misogynistic pattern.

That's why i let her go first. I do see your point Joe, but as one of those people who used to not at all be able to talk to women unless they were exactly into the same thing I was it's a little off from my experience Any guy can usually go talk to any woman (unless it's me and I see the cute girl from my high school who oddly enough is super skinny and I don't like those type of women but she still drove my mind nuts I don't know why) while some (again like me) act like idiots it becomes a comfort thing. I myself surrounded myself with a lot of female friends, some I had interest in some I didn't to be able to better talk and relate to women, even if it sounds like I'm trying too hard But it all comes back to the old think about what you're going to say before you say it and a lot of men STILL do not do that (or women just look at my job ) So I don't know it's hard to say really.

Also let the record show the first time I ever skyped with AnaBBFan i couldn't talk to her for some of the conversation because my jaw dropped at her looks

This picture also doesn't help us males out too much Joe:

That's why i let her go first. I do see your point Joe, but as one of those people who used to not at all be able to talk to women unless they were exactly into the same thing I was it's a little off from my experience Any guy can usually go talk to any woman (unless it's me and I see the cute girl from my high school who oddly enough is super skinny and I don't like those type of women but she still drove my mind nuts I don't know why) while some (again like me) act like idiots it becomes a comfort thing. I myself surrounded myself with a lot of female friends, some I had interest in some I didn't to be able to better talk and relate to women, even if it sounds like I'm trying too hard But it all comes back to the old think about what you're going to say before you say it and a lot of men STILL do not do that (or women just look at my job ) So I don't know it's hard to say really.

Also let the record show the first time I ever skyped with AnaBBFan i couldn't talk to her for some of the conversation because my jaw dropped at her looks

This picture also doesn't help us males out too much Joe:

Men aren't the only ones that do that. I live doing that.

If you mean your pm, I answered it right away :persuazn: .

I meant the nerds I've met although a different kind of nerd. The term itself has really been cheapened by modern pop culture as advances in technology have made computers easier than ever to use (as in the people who used them a lot twenty years ago were considered smart whereas the dumbest people even use them now as is evident by Youtube comments). On top of that, the popularization of super hero movies has even lifted some of the stigma of the comic geek somewhat. I can't refer to TV or movie nerds because I haven't seen enough school movies or TV shows to know that many. Interrestingly enough, the few that I've seen (House Party,

Bring it On

) don't have any. Well, the others are spoofs (Scary Movie and Not Another Teen Movie), but since they're spoofs I wouldn't judge teen movies by those. On the television side, I somehow skipped the teen shows in my development. I went right from cartoons to regular shows and then back to cartoons again .When I refer to nerds, I mean the academic kind. The majority of those that I know have below average social skills becaus they literally spent the time the average kid spent playing and developing those skills with their heads in a book or paper. I'll also throw out there that below average social skills isn't necessarily the same as being 'shy' although some are. Some can have below average social skills and be very outspoken. On the side of the average gaming guy, its no surprise that a lot of them may not mind exploiting women as there are hundreds of games that exploit women by nature and whoever makes them seems to be targeting them.

Not meaning to intrude on your thread of course .

Actually it was about the PM after that of when it can be done if you can let me know so I can get started any more discussion just pm me

And don't worry Joe it's an open thread anyone can come in as long as they're nice I will not stand for trolls :persuazn: And Ah.. I see what you mean, but even some of those ones have odd realities of what women can or can't be, I had one of my friends exactly like what you described and he was a sick sick man Anyways..

Men aren't the only ones that do that. I live doing that.

I know you do about me Kanye

Semi related to what we were discussing before:

As well my fear insomnia has kicked in.. whenever something important happens I can't sleep the night before, for the better or worse just over 7 hours til the ear specialists and I doubt i'll see any sleep til 2-3

Doctor said ears are fine just super sensitive so that's why i get a ton of pain all the time which I guess is good and bad? No hearing loss just sensitive ears idk but i'm happy i ain't going deaf

You will go deaf once you get married soon enough.. I think they call it tone deaf.. the tone of the wifes nag voice. hahaha.. jk

i dropped in to say hi.. in an awnery way might I add.. hehehe

Nice to see you around Limey.

Who's talking about marriage :| I don't wanna be married yet I need my space :morning:

And nice to see you round too

My taste in music during middle school was weird:

I actually used to know how to sing Numb off by heart I thought i'd try for some tv show that Wayne Brady was doing at that time I was an oddball shut up.

And AnaBB my dear and Joe and whoever else, to the women/nerds/social awkward discussion (shush I have insomnia again so I'm thinking about stuff) I've always been socially awkward around women, back in middle school (why i remember middle school I don't know, it was some of the worst years of my life >_<.) One of the cutest girls in the whole school for some reason took a liking to me and due to not knowing how to interact with women I made myself look like an idiot everytime she came near me But that was also cause I was amazed such a pretty girl wanted to talk to me But I also knew she was up to something she always would walk away her and her friends would laugh. This was before the whole mother/hating/anger issues really arose so it was kinda weird. Looking back I wish I took her offer up to hang out or w/e the hell she wanted to do, I guess that was due to my friends having no interest in women at that time but I did, and didn't wanna look like the odd one Plus I had no clue what to say I'm too young with no girl ever interested before (mind you 2 of them faked interest so I would buy their lunches and then call me sweet and kind and gentle and then start "dating?" If you can call it that in high school) Anyways

High school was slightly better/worse at least my friends were into girls, but a lot of them just viewed women as something to mess around with or have an excuse not to chill with the guys, now only one? of my friends has a girl the rest all complain and go to bars and clubs and complain I don't go/won't be the wingman when they get nothing but rejected and as we now know my ears can't handle it I went to a bar/club once that all my friends love, I couldn't hear the next day but they just sat in a corner of the bar/club and said it was an amazing time Only one of them talked to a woman and that's cause our other buddy had 2 girls on him and the rest of my friends all were eyeing up one of them when they left him alone. And from what I hear that is about average I fail to see the enjoyment in this? I mean ya it's nice to go meet people AND MAYBE meet a nice lady, but I have no desire to go make my ears hurt like hell so I can watch my buddies try to get some and then say I'm lame for not helping them get any and I was being selfish (that's what I was told after I bought beer for them and helped them out) I don't have the greatest friends either they won't invite me to anything but complain I never come out and if I make the effort to I get told nothing then more complaints about making no effort

But irregardless, I still don't know why i'm saying all this but it's helping me to think about sleep and getting to sleep.... That's my story for the day/week/month

Well after that.. that's one way to say your not getting .. uumm... married anytime soon.

I do say though you need to find someone with the same insomnia problem. Then if you have a good connection you can talk all night and day together . Or now that I think about it.. if you talk online you can talk to someone in the same time zone during the day and someone in a country that has daytime hours during your night time. It might help with possible over thinking things all night long. NOT that I know anything about all that or am qualified to professionally help here.. just saying ...hehehe

I hope to see you around limey