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There was actually a really beautiful girl in there, but even without my new self-imposed rule, I probably wouldn't have approached her. Way, way Waaaaaaaaaaaaaay out of my league.

You don't smoke cigars, you just sample their flavour in your mouth Was she swarmed by lots of hot guys?

Désolé, for irrupting your discussion, but THIS BUGS ME! I hate it when a guy says " she's way out of my league" Ahhhh! why are guys like that ? pourqoui?! Nvm, something I will never understand, and probably because of that general thought, never find genuine love.

I'll never find true love...

Well, she was out of my league. I'm a guy who talks to strangers! A freak of nature! How could she not have been out of my league?

Neither me well supposedly if they think that she way out of my league

What do you mean ? I have never understand a guy like that. One time I approached a guy and he said the same thing, and I was bitterly left confused by his comment. EXPLAIN it to me, because I don't understand. what does that mean? You haven't even met the girl, known her personality, and you already think she's out of your league ? I don't understand.

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Désolé, for irrupting your discussion, but THIS BUGS ME! I hate it when a guy says " she's way out of my league" Ahhhh! why are guys like that ? pourqoui?! Nvm, something I will never understand, and probably because of that general thought, never find genuine love.

Sometimes it's reality....kind of like how Liverpool isn't in the same league as Chelsea and Manyoo

Neither me well supposedly if they think that she way out of my league

What do you mean ? I have never understand a guy like that. One time I approached a guy and he said the same thing, and I was bitterly left confused by his comment. EXPLAIN it to me, because I don't understand. what does that mean? You haven't even met the girl, known her personality, and you already think she's out of your league ? I don't understand.

It means subjectively, he doesn't believe he is as attractive as you. Do you notice how people with things in common tend to hang together? Whether it be by race, socioeconomic status, or whatever? Well generally speaking, the same applies for attractiveness, that is people of approx. the same attractiveness tend to become couples So it's sensible to assume that anyone that is out of your league will probably not be interested in you Anyway, psychology lesson over

In your case, I'm not sure what happened though because from what I read you practically served yourself up on a plate, non? Was he a complete stranger or someone you knew? Maybe he sensed a crazy vibe Have you tried approaching more males?

Sometimes it's reality....kind of like how Liverpool isn't in the same league as Chelsea and Manyoo

I thought Reds fan don't live in reality ? OOOOOOOOOO, caught you.

It means subjectively, he doesn't believe he is as attractive as you. Do you notice how people with things in common tend to hang together? Whether it be by race, socioeconomic status, or whatever? Well generally speaking, the same applies for attractiveness, that is people of approx. the same attractiveness tend to become couples So it's sensible to assume that anyone that is out of your league will probably not be interested in you Anyway, psychology lesson over

In your case, I'm not sure what happened though because from what I read you practically served yourself up on a plate, non? Was he a complete stranger or someone you knew? Maybe he sensed a crazy vibe Have you tried approaching more males?

Non, I know that. It's the circles of life. But I don't what someone who is along the same lines of who my friends are. I want something different. And it's not all about good looks. I don't mean I don't look for a guy who I don't find attractive, but he doesn't have to be off an Armani ad. Well, ok here's my question, if you are in a different league then the others, can you go down a league ? Aha oh man now I am just thinking football: relegation. Boo that sucks. NVM, ignore that question.

He was my friend's girlfriend's coworker. But I don't talk with his girlfriend, just him. So technically, yes he was a stranger. Aha blah! You don't even know me to say that statement. Anyways, my friend's girlfriend then called me and started bitching at me for blowin g him off and not giving him a chance. And I was like wtf ? And the funny thing is that she just kept on going, with all this bullshit how he's shy and all, and blah blah. How is that my fault for him being shy ? It's not, exactly. But finally she got the full story and apologized to me. Yea, crazy bitch. My friend is no longer with her, because she was serieuse a nutbar. Ahh! I dislike guy's who are shy.

I thought Reds fan don't live in reality ? OOOOOOOOOO, caught you.

touche!

Non, I know that. It's the circles of life. But I don't what someone who is along the same lines of who my friends are. I want something different. And it's not all about good looks. I don't mean I don't look for a guy who I don't find attractive, but he doesn't have to be off an Armani ad. Well, ok here's my question, if you are in a different league then the others, can you go down a league ? Aha oh man now I am just thinking football: relegation. Boo that sucks. NVM, ignore that question.

He was my friend's girlfriend's coworker. But I don't talk with his girlfriend, just him. So technically, yes he was a stranger. Aha blah! You don't even know me to say that statement. Anyways, my friend's girlfriend then called me and started bitching at me for blowin g him off and not giving him a chance. And I was like wtf ? And the funny thing is that she just kept on going, with all this bullshit how he's shy and all, and blah blah. How is that my fault for him being shy ? It's not, exactly. But finally she got the full story and apologized to me. Yea, crazy bitch. My friend is no longer with her, because she was serieuse a nutbar. Ahh! I dislike guy's who are shy.

Of course you can downgrade, but why settle for less? Unless less is more

I know you enough to declare you clinically loco! What? So you approached him, got knocked back and then had to take crap for it? I'd kick that bitch's ass back to the days when Liverpool were ruling Europe I'm confused about this whole situation now

Neither me well supposedly if they think that she way out of my league

What do you mean ? I have never understand a guy like that. One time I approached a guy and he said the same thing, and I was bitterly left confused by his comment. EXPLAIN it to me, because I don't understand. what does that mean? You haven't even met the girl, known her personality, and you already think she's out of your league ? I don't understand.

I speak to strangers! That makes me a freak! She looked normal. It could have never worked.

All I could have said to her was "Me crazy, you sane!"

touche!

I know you enough to declare you clinically loco! What? So you approached him, got knocked back and then had to take crap for it? I'd kick that bitch's ass back to the days when Liverpool were ruling Europe I'm confused about this whole situation now

Suuure, it's all in your imagination. Well when you say approached, do you mean volunteerily go up to him or been asked to go up ? Knocked back, yes, but not as soon as you think, it was by the end of the night that it went blah! Well she gave me crap because apparently I didn't show enough interest in him wtf that ever means ? Ahahaha, this happened long ago. But you can kick her ass for me.

I speak to strangers! That makes me a freak! She looked normal. It could have never worked.

All I could have said to her was "Me crazy, you sane!"

Well that's normal, if you need directions, or you're searching for something. Everyone speaks to a stranger once in their life non ? For instance, you are talking to me, a complete stranger, I don't think it makes you a freak. Aha but appearance versus reality, looks are deceiving. It could have never worked. How can you say never, never is so definite, and it couldn't work ? You didn't give it a chance, so you cannot say that being 100 percent sure whether it would happen or not. That's predicting the future, and assessing it too early. But this is only my opinion of course.

I speak to strangers! That makes me a freak! She looked normal. It could have never worked.

All I could have said to her was "Me crazy, you sane!"

Well that's normal, if you need directions, or you're searching for something. Everyone speaks to a stranger once in their life non ? For instance, you are talking to me, a complete stranger, I don't think it makes you a freak. Aha but appearance versus reality, looks are deceiving. It could have never worked. How can you say never, never is so definite, and it couldn't work ? You didn't give it a chance, so you cannot say that being 100 percent sure whether it would happen or not. That's predicting the future, and assessing it too early. But this is only my opinion of course.

But people in the "approaching a female" thread told me I was a freak for striking up conversations with women I did not know. They told me girls don't want strange guys talking to them when they go out with their friends. (I should also mention that some of these women were by themselves, so I don't know how the "going out with friends" thing applies to them, but hey, what do I know... )

But people in the "approaching a female" thread told me I was a freak for striking up conversations with women I did not know. They told me girls don't want strange guys talking to them when they go out with their friends. (I should also mention that some of these women were by themselves, so I don't know how the "going out with friends" thing applies to them, but hey, what do I know... )

But who cares what people say. Believe nothing of what you hear and only half of what you see. Because everything is either an illusion or over exaggeration.

Well ok, I see the points they are making, but it depends where you are approaching them.

Best places:

Supermarche, clubs, bars.

What's so harmless in approaching a girl and asking a question ? Nothing. And if something else generates from that well it's neither of your fault, it's chemistry. No one is to blame. How do you think guys ask girls out for a date ? Obviously they are not going to do it themselves. I get their points, yea it can be really weird, but how do people meet other people ? By conversation. Regardless whether it's a male or female you talk to, you talk to make friends or girlfriends.

edit: if they're out with their friends and they have clearly no intention to converse with anyone but their group of friends, well then it is random to do so. And usually a girl will give you a dirty look. But also in a sense, a girl appreciates a guy who is bold and brave. Because it makes her feel important, like wow this guy went to talk to me, even though that theres all these other pretty girls. Exclusivity is power. Godly in a sense.

Those are the points I tried to make, but apparently I'm the only one who feels it's normal to talk to people in clubs and bars...

^ wtf?! Where is this thread, I am going to ring everyone OUT.

All I could have said to her was "Me crazy, you sane!"

"Me tart 'n' you sane" would've worked better

Well you're not...half of those girls giving advice in that thread are like 15 lalalalosers who have none to zero exprience in those situations.

They are 15 ? Well then, that for their case is accurate. I'd be the same if I was 15. But I am not, so it's not weird.