Why are you single?

I have a friendship as well that has been as much work as my marriage, and in the end both of us came to a compromise, so that our friendship would flourish, not desolve into dislike, hatred, and a disheartened spirit. In the end any "adjustments" ive made in the name of love or friendship have been worth it. Life in any aspect is about change and adjustment, I spent to many years trying to change myself and my mate, to the overly preached soulmate or perfect mate theory, and in the end it caused more heart ache than happiness. Sometimes we simply need to be happy with the little things, In the end, some find it better to be single, that way the don't have to make changes, but I find the changes made were done for love and thinking of the bigger picture, and not just for my selfish wants, needs, or desires

I dunno.

Because guys are not interested by me.

I can hardly imagine it comes from me because i'm not the type of saying "no". I just can't, even if I know the guy is an asshole.

Hun have you considered talking to someone about this, seems you have some MAJOR self esteem issues. Heck i know from past experiences, its hard not to think bad about oneself, but after that last "friend" i had that was a MAJOR DICK WAD, taught me a ton, and after that very very harsh lesson, ive learned sticking up for myself, come hell or high water, is BETTER that letting someone walk all over you, even though you want so bad for someone to "like" you

I dunno.

Because guys are not interested by me.

I can hardly imagine it comes from me because i'm not the type of saying "no". I just can't, even if I know the guy is an asshole.

You're too beautiful and intimidating. They believe that their chances of winning this game of social Darwinism is slim for they know that they cannot even begin to fathom that frontal lobe of yours and satisfy your needs. It is the masses of men that have an inferiority complex!

Hun have you considered talking to someone about this, seems you have some MAJOR self esteem issues. Heck i know from past experiences, its hard not to think bad about oneself, but after that last "friend" i had that was a MAJOR DICK WAD, taught me a ton, and after that very very harsh lesson, ive learned sticking up for myself, come hell or high water, is BETTER that letting someone walk all over you, even though you want so bad for someone to "like" you

Oh hun thats quite nice of your part. Well, I guess you're right. I do have self esteem issues. But when no one is there to boost your self esteem, its kind of hard to think otherwise, when no one needs or really appreciates you. I always think other people despise me. Of course it's also about me, but everybody needs to feel being loved i guess.

No ive never considered it. Have no one to talk to.

You're too beautiful and intimidating. They believe that their chances of winning this game of social Darwinism is slim for they know that they cannot even begin to fathom that frontal lobe of yours and satisfy your needs. It is the masses of men that have an inferiority complex!

Well you know how to talk to girls.

Well Alot of times, self esteem starts with YOU, no one can tell you how good you are BUT YOURSELF, who the freak cares what others think, granted easier said than done, and I myself, spent TO MANY freaking years, worrying about what others thought of me, and in the end, the only person i'm held accountable to for how i feel, am, or act, is Me & God, no one else. Im sure if you looked inside yourself, you can See YOUR WORTH IT, and no Man, Woman or Child can say that can contradict that

YOU sister girl, are WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR, and YOU are STELLER, dont let anything or anyone tell you diff

You're too beautiful and intimidating. They believe that their chances of winning this game of social Darwinism is slim for they know that they cannot even begin to fathom that frontal lobe of yours and satisfy your needs. It is the masses of men that have an inferiority complex!

Well you know how to talk to girls.

Wait, so did that improve your self esteem?

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Lighten up!

And really Arielle, looking for love and friendships is all about where you put yourself and how you can communicate & present yourself. You got to put in your own work. Everybody does. You have no one to talk to? You just put in a little work posting on BZ and people are talking to you already!

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LMS: You are so right !

CI: Hum, in fact, I was more like answering the question "why are you single?" than looking for I-dont-know-what. But thank you, you guys are soo nice I'll try to do my best.

CI: Hum, in fact, I was more like answering the question "why are you single?" than looking for I-dont-know-what. But thank you, you guys are soo nice I'll try to do my best.

Ms,

I was just teasing. Taking off an edge of that melodrama, if you will. You'll be fine. :>

I don't want to be in a relationship, I'm not any good at them.

I don't want to be in a relationship, I'm not any good at them.

What aren't you good at in them? just the whole idea or?

Stupid right here bought tickets to Hawaii to be with HIM after another freakin' fight. What the hell am I doing? At times I think I should throw in the towel and at other times I think I should stick it out regardless of who gets hurt.

I don't want to be in a relationship, I'm not any good at them.

What aren't you good at in them? just the whole idea or?

I guess I like being single to much. Who needs a boyfriend? Not me

Well...personally I choose to be single.

It is much easier to plan your life the way you want it to be and not having some boyfriend to consider in your planning. I'll much rather play sports, do a bit of studying, hang out with my friends then be with some boyfriend. Maybe I just haven't met Mr.Right or whatever but I personally do not feel like I am missing out on something.

Rather work :morning:

Rather work :morning:

What do you mean?

Stupid right here bought tickets to Hawaii to be with HIM after another freakin' fight. What the hell am I doing? At times I think I should throw in the towel and at other times I think I should stick it out regardless of who gets hurt.

as the saying goes, love stinks.

and it makes us do crazy things at times

Stupid right here bought tickets to Hawaii to be with HIM after another freakin' fight. What the hell am I doing? At times I think I should throw in the towel and at other times I think I should stick it out regardless of who gets hurt.

as the saying goes, love stinks.

and it makes us do crazy things at times

God yes it does!

Stupid right here bought tickets to Hawaii to be with HIM after another freakin' fight. What the hell am I doing? At times I think I should throw in the towel and at other times I think I should stick it out regardless of who gets hurt.

as the saying goes, love stinks.

and it makes us do crazy things at times

God yes it does!

i am with ya.

what ever you decide to do, i'm behind you