Why are you single?

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66Lucy's avatar
66Lucy
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#1141

Good lord ! Write to Auntie Agony then <_< but stop moaning on the forum

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russellb
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#1142
Dating a guy for a place to live? :yuckky:

Yes Russellb, 'Do not judge, and you will not be judged' Elin is a lost, young and naive girl. I think she has a lot to learn but still plenty of time and still a lot of laughs and tears to come.

Elin why don't you go and speak frankly to that person ? Be honest for once. And I really believe that you should not hang your shit here. People are mean they are not all as nice as Azgirl. Some of them even love to read about your suffering and take advantage of it. Please keep a bit of pride.

It's time to grow up girl.

Where in that post am i being judgmental?

I did this :yuckky: just to show that its not something i would do. But saying that, is not judging.

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66Lucy
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#1143

Somewhere it is but the girl won't be here for the next two weeks apparently so she won't be able to answer

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god speed you! black emperor
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#1144
I'm going on holiday tomorrow anyway

where do you live ? in Paris ?

i'm single since a couple of days and i super happy of it. just love my freedom!

by the way, Brad will be happy XD

he is always after me since months (more than a friend should be...) and seem to be jealous when he learnt i had a boyfriend. funny but not really healthy when we know he is 18 years older than me, he is married, has 2 kids and lives in Los Angeles... in same time he is drummer in a great rock band, is vegetarian, he loves math rock, krautrock, post harcore and hip-hop music, le loves old movies and we share the same opinion about politic.

by the way he is virgo and i the virgo is in my "top 3" when i don't date with pisces boys i always date with taurus or virgo. life is complicated!

the weirdest situations are always for me :yuckky: it s*cks!

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#1145

Baby is newly single but alas, there's already a rock star waiting in the wings. Story of my life.

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god speed you! black emperor
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#1146

frederick, you should play in a rock band!

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#1147

frederick, you should play in a rock band!

Be my Linda and I'll be your Paul!

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Randy The Ram
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#1148

I'm single because I'm unemployed. When you're unemployed in New York City you get treated like someone with leprosy. Sometimes I meet girls in a bookstore, subway, etc and lie to them about me having a job and I get a one night stand out of it. Whatever works y'know? :brows:

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russellb
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#1149
I'm single because I'm unemployed. When you're unemployed in New York City you get treated like someone with leprosy. Sometimes I meet girls in a bookstore, subway, etc and lie to them about me having a job and I get a one night stand out of it. Whatever works y'know? :brows:

Umm, I am pretty sure that a girl who'd go for a one night stand really couldn't care less about your job situation, or what you do for a living...

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#1150
I'm going on holiday tomorrow anyway

where do you live ? in Paris ?

No I don't

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#1151

I can't image Baby being single much longer..

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#1152
I can't image Baby being single much longer..

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Randy The Ram
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#1154
I'm single because I'm unemployed. When you're unemployed in New York City you get treated like someone with leprosy. Sometimes I meet girls in a bookstore, subway, etc and lie to them about me having a job and I get a one night stand out of it. Whatever works y'know? :brows:

Umm, I am pretty sure that a girl who'd go for a one night stand really couldn't care less about your job situation, or what you do for a living...

Here in New York they do...women want that money!! DEY WANT DAT MONEY!!! :neo2:

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#1155

It's really, really easy to become hyper-materialistic and elitist in NYC. There's so much visual stimuli going into one's brain as one walks around the streets every day..

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russellb
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#1156
It's really, really easy to become hyper-materialistic and elitist in NYC. There's so much visual stimuli going into one's brain as one walks around the streets every day..

Not true, I grew up in NYC, and do not consider myself materialistic, nor does anybody else. It's really easy to become hyper-materialistic anywhere if that is the way you were brought up.

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#1157

That's because you are poor :> jk

but hahah, yeah, I did kind of imply that a prerequisite would involve having budding roots- that type of tendency beforehand. Being in manhattan can easily push one even further towards that direction.

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god speed you! black emperor
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#1158

so true!

little villages are not better. shitty mentality too...

in france, when girls have kids and they are single, they receive an financial help and more than the half of my ex friends (should i say 3/4) were parents before to be 21 years old. they have kids just because of money, that's really creepy!

everybody know everybody, they spend their time to say stupid gossips, make stupid comparisons etc

when you have sometthing, everybody know it and they are all jealous. when you're different, you're a freak but if you have money they are all around you like real parasites. they are so hypocrites... i hate them since i'm teenagers and even when i insulted them they always tried to come back.

but everywhere that's the same problem...

Paris is not better too.

when i was teen (between 16 and 20 years old) i was all the time in famous parisian nightclubs. freaky!!!

i often was in a nightclub called "l'etoile" and it was full of arabian princes, business men etc

60% of girls were prostitutes and the rest weren't better... i think that's why boys often tried to date with me... i was one of the only girls who didn't try to make money and that's why they always failled with me :trout:

as usually i was in the VIP zone but i always danced on the "normal dancefloor" out of the VIP zone and because i knew the security guards,one night they made me a joke and when i left the VIP zone to go at the girls toilets all the security guards were around me and pushed everybody out of my way and followed me until the toilets. they made the same for the return. so people looked at me, wondering who i was etc...

and few minutes later, when i was on the dancefloor there was something like 15 boys around me. they all tried to speak with me, when i moved the right arm they made the same, when i jumped, they jumped too... they were so ridiculous!!! they were like "hey, watch me, i'm like you! please, be my friend"

now i just hate nightclub because of it. hypocrite and superficial places.

I can't image Baby being single much longer..

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you know, there is "single" and "single"...

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Grossly Incandescent
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#1159
Paris is not better too.

when i was teen (between 16 and 20 years old) i was all the time in famous parisian nightclubs. freaky!!!

i often was in a nightclub called "l'etoile" and it was full of arabian princes, business men etc

60% of girls were prostitutes and the rest weren't better... i think that's why boys often tried to date with me... i was one of the only girls who didn't try to make money and that's why they always failled with me :trout:

as usually i was in the VIP zone but i always danced on the "normal dancefloor" out of the VIP zone and because i knew the security guards,one night they made me a joke and when i left the VIP zone to go at the girls toilets all the security guards were around me and pushed everybody out of my way and followed me until the toilets. they made the same for the return. so people looked at me, wondering who i was etc...

and few minutes later, when i was on the dancefloor there was something like 15 boys around me. they all tried to speak with me, when i moved the right arm they made the same, when i jumped, they jumped too... they were so ridiculous!!! they were like "hey, watch me, i'm like you! please, be my friend"

now i just hate nightclub because of it. hypocrite and superficial places.

But Mz, Be compassionate to them! They may be too often be in a perpetual state of fear, for they know that their mind is impotent and that the slightest perturbation will knock them out of their unstable equilibrium of imagined security. Some of them may attempt to circumvent the practical and the competent, not knowing that such an attempt is doomed to failure.

Well, you can't blame most of them for, momentarily, following their social indoctrination and their genes. The Dream..it seizes them and won't let go. No matter how unrealistic or fleeting that dream, that piece of glory, may be. Their mind is anchored..it is too late. They forgot to judge these methods and the histories of the practitioners. They must have forgotten that reality of glory is tenuous, and its lifetime is fleeting.

I can only imagine that you're a charismatic Parisienne. I only wish to teach and be taught. Then let me dream now. A charismatic Parisienne is teaching me about art, freedom, and culture. Meanwhile I tell her all about about my will to power.

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#1160
I can only imagine that you're a charismatic Parisienne. I only wish to teach and be taught. Then let me dream now. A charismatic Parisienne is teaching me about art, freedom, and culture. Meanwhile I tell her all about about my will to power.

Take a cold shower, Lord Byron.

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