What are your thoughts on Virgins that want to wait till marrige.

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I think everyone should decide this for themselves. Personally, I don't see myself marrying someone I never had sex with, you do have to have some idea if you're sexually compatible. But that's just me. If you're comfortable with that, then there is really no reason not to wait until after marriage.

Somewhat related to that, and I made this point before, is that I don't think the other extreme necessarily makes the sex or the relationship better either. I believe longing for someone is very sexy, and waiting a little while before doing it can make the eventual sex and the relationship better. I'm not talking about waiting for years or even months, but perhaps waiting a little longer than the first or second date?

I had a girlfriend a few years ago who was no longer a virgin but wasn't all that sexually experienced either, so we took it slow, and it turned out to be very sexy. We gradually became more and more intimate until we actually did it. (The idea was to spread it out over the course of a month, but we didn't quite last that long before we went to the main event - lol).

The thing is, I think back a lot more fondly of those few weeks than I do about the girls I had sex with a lot quicker after hooking up with them.

1. ...Personally, I don't see myself marrying someone I never had sex with, you do have to have some idea if you're sexually compatible. But that's just me. ....

2. I believe longing for someone is very sexy, and waiting a little while before doing it can make the eventual sex and the relationship better. I'm not talking about waiting for years or even months, but perhaps waiting a little longer than the first or second date?

3. The idea was to spread it out over the course of a month, but we didn't quite last that long before we went to the main event - lol.

1. ...Personally, I don't see myself marrying someone I never had sex with, you do have to have some idea if you're sexually compatible. But that's just me. ....

2. I believe longing for someone is very sexy, and waiting a little while before doing it can make the eventual sex and the relationship better. I'm not talking about waiting for years or even months, but perhaps waiting a little longer than the first or second date?

3. The idea was to spread it out over the course of a month, but we didn't quite last that long before we went to the main event - lol.

1. no, it's not just you lol

2. i'm so for that too

3. hahaha

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I think anyone who waits is really great. I mean, that's tough in this world, and so it is quite the accomplishment to make it through to marriage. I would want to wait till marriage. Personally, I don't find the thought of sex all that appealing. I mean, I'm human, but at the same time, it deeply bothers me. I would rather not at all, then to do it and regret it for the rest of my life. I mean, for me, my past mistakes like to haunt me. I would not want to put myself in that position with something like that. For health reasons, I wish everyone would just sleep with one person their whole lives. Also for health, I think it makes more sense for two virgins to wait til marriage and have that special thing with one another. At the same time, if both are inexperienced, it might be hard to actually do it. I don't know. It just seems like that might not work well. I think in some ways, it might be "better" if at least one of them has had experience. But then you don't want them too experienced for the reasons said earlier. Guys probably don't always want to go somewhere someone else has been and vice versa. I think any guy who practices abstinence is amazing. But of course, that's kind of sexist[?] of me? It just seems like with what the media puts out there, guys are some sex-fiend gender. Maybe it's influenced me too much. And then again, media also portrays a lot of guys to be romantics who can actually fall in love. But I don't really believe that either. I think they can like a girl enough to marry her and put in the effort to stay with her forever - or at least til death, but I don't think they could ever be in love like girls fall in love.

I am planning to wait till I am married, don't know why, but I guess that if a guy really likes me then he would wait and respect me

that's totally true. if they respect you and you wanna wait, they'll wait, those are the good ones...

on a side note 8 days for me!

that's totally true. if they respect you and you wanna wait, they'll wait, those are the good ones...

on a side note 8 days for me!

What? A guy waited for 8 days only??? Or could you not resist?

that's totally true. if they respect you and you wanna wait, they'll wait, those are the good ones...

on a side note 8 days for me!

What? A guy waited for 8 days only??? Or could you not resist?

I think she meant that there are just 8 days left to the day of her wedding

^^ Ah ok!! Well, if that's the case then congrats!!

At th end ov th day it is their choice and if u like em or love em as much as u say then u wait 4 em... it shows u care more 4 em and it shows that u respect them for who they are... so yeah.. if they wanna w8 until marraige then so be em... why change 4 anyone? if you change then you arent th person they fell for or liked in th first place... so dont change.... but hey.. thats juz my opinion... every1 is entitled to their own..... bye

At th end ov th day it is their choice and if u like em or love em as much as u say then u wait 4 em... it shows u care more 4 em and it shows that u respect them for who they are... so yeah.. if they wanna w8 until marraige then so be em... why change 4 anyone? if you change then you arent th person they fell for or liked in th first place... so dont change.... but hey.. thats juz my opinion... every1 is entitled to their own..... bye

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I totally agree on that too

Hey Azgirl welcome here. Now I catch you again. I think this post is made for me lol because I already told that I'm virgin. I don't know but I'm shy and its not easy for me to getting nude 1st time in front of other person:$

Who isn't a little shy when they strip off naked for the first time? Don't you worry, you are not alone

I am planning to wait till I am married, don't know why, but I guess that if a guy really likes me then he would wait and respect me

I just think: Why? It will be a big disappointment anyways, it's not even that fun. It's like taking a vow not to eat carrots until you get married... And then: "Whoo I'm married, time for carrots....was THAT it? There's nothing special about them! WTF, this sucks!"

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