Approaching a Female

I prefer jeans and a t-shirt, personally. I like it even better when he's a little dirty, like he's been working outside. For some reason, I'm very attracted to men who really work with their hands or muscles for a living versus sitting in an office all day.

Yeah, but the office sitting tends to pay more.

And we can't all be construction workers and mechanics, now can we?

how you dress kind of meters who you attract... a man in jeans will get a different person than a man in a suite...

Yes... the former gets a cool, down-to-earth girl; the latter gets a gold-digger.

This is not always true. Frankly, as long as you don't look like a bum or you last shopped in the 1970s, your personal style of clothing will matter little.

So Friday was interesting again. My job used to require me to basically go on the road and interact with customers on a day-to-day basis. This is no longer the case, but I still have an extensive "network" (for lack of a better word) of customers, some of those working relationships having evolved to something that more resembles friendship. I have their cell phone numbers and when I'm in their neck of the woods I let them know. We go have drinks or dinner, etc...

I guess a dirty word for it is "networking", but I'd like to consider it as nothing more than socializing, since I have no desire to ever use these relationships to my professional advantage. I don't use people that way.

So anyway, about a month ago, I had to phone one of those customers who I thought was in the more casual inner circle, so I started off the conversation with some mild jesting (just a few joking references to the server problems they were experiencing, pretty mild stuff). However, she got annoyed, said I was an idiot for thinking she'd appreciate this kind of nonsense and basically ended the conversation. I then just assigned one of my colleagues to solve this problem and forwarded the e-mail with all the details about the system errors to her. Fast forward to Friday night. I walked into a bar, and there she was standing in the corner and laughing with a couple of her friends. Seeing how our last interaction ended, I decided against going up there to say hello. I thought the last thing she'd want was for me to ruin her night out, so I just pretty much ignored her for the rest of the evening and she did the same.

Anyway, as I got home Saturday morning, I got a text message from her, where she asked why I ignored her the entire night and that she didn't expect this sort of shitty behavior from me.

Qué? She called me an idiot and basically bit my nose off the last time we talked. I'm no psychological and sociological genius, but is it that hard to understand that a guy might take that and then say "yeah, I'm gonna leave that girl alone from now on"? My intention was not giving her the cold shoulder treatment, I thought she'd appreciate being left alone. Ladies, no offense, but some consistency in your behaviour would make our lives so much easier...

The only thing a man really needs a manual for is the only thing that comes without any: women...

I dunno Solo... I've gotten more numbers wearing jeans and a shirt with something funny on it than my in office clothes. You're a lot more approachable and the joke on the shirt is an invitation for people to come over and read it... and for your to bounce your rippling pecs.

Anyway, as I got home Saturday morning, I got a text message from her, where she asked why I ignored her the entire night and that she didn't expect this sort of shitty behavior from me.

How did you respond?

Anyway, as I got home Saturday morning, I got a text message from her, where she asked why I ignored her the entire night and that she didn't expect this sort of shitty behavior from me.

How did you respond?

I just sent one back saying I only ignored her because I thought she'd want to be left alone after that telephone "conversation".

I have to post this one. It was the worst line I've ever come up with...

So I was doing my homework at the mall... yeah sue me. Ambient noise works wonders for my thinking patterns.

Anyway, my brain farted and this girl and I locked eyes and she told me to stop staring and I was like "but you've got an interesting face" and she was like "so do you but you don't see me staring" and I was like "you can if you want to, I don't mind."

Then that motivated me to study harder and I completely ignored her after that. Who goes to the mall to pick up chicks anyway?

Eeeeew....

Who goes to the mall to pick up chicks anyway?

Eeeeew....

Who goes to the mall to pick up chicks anyway?

Eeeeew....

Guys trying to get with high school girls?

Sounds like a job for Chris Hansen...

Who goes to the mall to pick up chicks anyway?

Eeeeew....

Guys trying to get with high school girls?

Sounds like a job for Chris Hansen...

Age of consent is 15 here! 14 in Canada

In here on my Place I just study with boys and I'm confuse after i mature that how to talk with girls like my many friends daily talk with them in live conversation or in cell all night. Its happen i know but the trick is if you are jolly person just go there and find any good topic what girls most like like discuss any tv drama thing or talk about fashion

Who goes to the mall to pick up chicks anyway?

Eeeeew....

Guys trying to get with high school girls?

Sounds like a job for Chris Hansen...

Age of consent is 15 here! 14 in Canada

Actually... we bumped it up to 16 last year.

I usually just make some sweet eyes to her and then when she notices me I send her creme de la creme soft kisses

All those tactics and shit are pointless. There's no foolproof approach. All that "The Game" crap is ridiculous.

You can learn from observing other smooth guys but there are no shortcuts to become genuinely charming, you can't fake confidence and shit.

Trial & error, maturity, intuition, experience.

You will crash and burn many times before you get it right.

All those tactics and shit are pointless. There's no foolproof approach. All that "The Game" crap is ridiculous.

You can learn from observing other smooth guys but there are no shortcuts to become genuinely charming, you can't fake confidence and shit.

Trial & error, maturity, intuition, experience.

You will crash and burn many times before you get it right.

I agree... though I think for a complete shy introvert faking some kind of confidence/popularity helps a lot.

Then you don't agree.

Then you don't agree.

Ever seen Fresh Prince of Bel Air?

I am Will Smith, you are Carlton

Just fucking with you, man. You're cool.

your both the same. get over it

ew

oh grow up :trout:

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