Can boy and girls be just friends?

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#21
Yes, but just being friends with someone you really like (more than as a friend) is very disheartening.

So, you don't wanna go and do that.

been there, done that

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#22

Yah I understand the feelings , Like it seems to be you just wanted to her as a friend and as you are cute and lovely so she interested on you and you feel like Oh God If i tell her maybe she hurt ? So difficult

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#23

The majority of my friends are female,

but like Reeyo and M-- said, I'm also gay

but I don't really know if that has anything to do with it

I just seem to be able to get along easier with girls for some reason

But I do also have quite a few really close male friends... just the majority are female

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#24
The majority of my friends are female,

but like Reeyo and M-- said, I'm also gay

but I don't really know if that has anything to do with it

I just seem to be able to get along easier with girls for some reason

But I do also have quite a few really close male friends... just the majority are female

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#25
The majority of my friends are female,

but like Reeyo and M-- said, I'm also gay

but I don't really know if that has anything to do with it

I just seem to be able to get along easier with girls for some reason

But I do also have quite a few really close male friends... just the majority are female

Hi, sorry but I think it has a lot to do with you being gay, at least when you get to know a female. If a woman knows, a guy is gay, she can feel a lot more secure and self-confident. She doesn't need to pay attention how she acts because she doesn't have to be afraid that it comes across as sexual interest...(hope you know what I wanted to say?)

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#26

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#27

Hey brand. Its surprising for me that you are gay. Because its a new thing for me. I want to ask something what feel you become this ? I mean which think makes you to feel that ?

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#28

YES!!!!I think that sometimes you can have better male/female friend cz you can lern different things from him/her!

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#29
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why did you remove?

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#30

Because it was bad and evil. And isn't for anyone's eyes what he said.

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#31
Because it was bad and evil. And isn't for anyone's eyes what he said.

OK..

UMMM.. Thanks for clearing that up ...

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#32
Hey brand. Its surprising for me that you are gay. Because its a new thing for me. I want to ask something what feel you become this ? I mean which think makes you to feel that ?

I think that's like asking what makes you feel straight? I guess it's sort of the same thing.

Because to be honest, for me it was sort of so normal I didn't even realise it.

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#33

If the opposite sex can't be friends then the world would have been in the pit by now. So yea, they can be friends.

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#34
If the opposite sex can't be friends then the world would have been in the pit by now. So yea, they can be friends.

Being friends and being friendly to each other...there is a difference to me.

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#35

Your right but, being frendly is like your strangers and the two of you don`t know each other than just being a friendly person. Being friends is someone who knows the other and talks in a familiar tone.

And if guys and girls cannot be friends other than just being friendly, then how the hell did i survive my class that is only filled with girls!!

And i mean i was the only guy there, other than the other guy who doesn`t count since he is already married and has a kid.

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#36
Hey brand. Its surprising for me that you are gay. Because its a new thing for me. I want to ask something what feel you become this ? I mean which think makes you to feel that ?
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#37
Hey brand. Its surprising for me that you are gay. Because its a new thing for me. I want to ask something what feel you become this ? I mean which think makes you to feel that ?
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#38

i always believed it was possible for a guy and a girl to be 'just' friends...but..im not so sure anymore

my best friend is in love with me...i found out 2 weeks ago...now its a bit awkward between us...ahh i dunno what to do cos im gonna move in with him soon

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#39

^ LOL, unlucky.

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#40

the problem is....i had a crush on him and he knew but after i made the first step and told him about it...nothing came back from him so i simply stopped myself from fancying him...

then we became really close friends...and now this!

rrrrrrrr

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